Friday

Self-Praise..

Most of us are experts at criticising ourselves. We often times do it and we are not even aware we are doing it because it has become such an unconscious habit of thought. From my own experience, I can pretty much tell that any time I feel negative, it is because I have been criticizing or putting myself down without even being aware of it.

Check in with your feelings, they will never lie to you.

If you are feeling down, chance are, you have been criticising yourself. When you catch yourself criticising yourself why not use that as an ALERT signal to start praising yourself.... That what I do....and I must tell you, it feel much, much better than criticizing, belittling and putting myself down.. And my life works better when I praise myself. I have less problems, money flow into my life easily and my energy is higher and I need less sleep.

While getting in the habit of self-praise may seems selfish, it is one act of selfishness worth cultivating for yourself. The easier it is for you to praise, appreciate and compliment yourself, the easier it will be for you to praise, appreciate and compliments others. The ability to be able to freely compliment and praise yourself and others will help you attract into your life all the love, health and money you can handle, guaranteed!

Wednesday

The Secret - An Incredible Movie

Here is the link where you can find out more about the movie:

http://www.thesecret.tv/


Here is what people are saying about it:

1) I have watched this at least 10 times and it its required for
all of my staff to watch weekly. I recomened it to all of my clients. It
will change your life if you start to apply this law of attraction Carrie
Name: Carrie Added: 2006-10-24

2) The Secret makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand up, it's
chillingly acurate truth, we need to rewatch it to remember the importance
of living it & to remind us not to worry about the "How"!! This is my all
time favorite movie & I've lent it out to those I know need it & I miss it,
most people buy there own after, knowing once is not enough to learn the
concept. :( Name: Carolynne Added: 2006-10-20

3) I've lost count of the number of times I've watched it. Mind
blowing , Life changing and awesome. Thoughts DOOOOO become things.
Name: Greg Added: 2006-10-19

4) The Secret DVD. I have watched it twice and would like to show it
to family and friends. Name: Dorothy Added: 2006-10-18

5) We love The Secret! and since receiving it we are running into
people that are all learning about it. We are thinking about a \"The
Secret\" friends group! We love it and are living our dream! thanks!
Name: terrie Added: 2006-10-18

6) I bought this DVD in August and watch it once a week. So far in 2
months, I've met my favorite American Idol, I've manifested 3 radio shows to
be on and one is a nationally syndicated morning show. And I've manifested
an appearance on a nationally syndicated television show! I've purchased 5
copies and now everyone in my family has one. They are also watching the DVD
regularly. I can't wait to see what I manifest next. I'm so excited and
transformed forever. Oh...and I'm so grateful!!
Name: Monnica Added: 2006-10-18

7) My contractor gave me this movie to watch, and I have...over, and
over and over and over. It's truly a work of art, entertaining, but, most of
all, so enlightening it brought me to tears.
Name: Marina Added: 2006-10-18

8) I love it!!! I watched The Secret three times already and gave a
copy to everyone in my family. Now they are also hooked. I highly recommend
this movie! Name: Carrieanne Added: 2006-10-17






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Tuesday

Your Don't Wants

You know what you don't want, you already have it.... You know you have it because it causes you pain. Now how do you get rid of what you don't want? It is simple, release it, let it go back into the invisible world from where it came. Don't fight with it, focus on it or give it any more power in your life than it already has. Simply release it.....

"I can't release it," you say.


You can't release it because you are attached to it. You are holding on to your "don't want" for a reason. Discover the reason and you will be able to release it instantly...


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What makes a wonderful life?

Is it our circumstances or is it our attitude? For me, it is my attitude. Lousy circumstances are nothing more than "workarounds" There are all kinds of circumstances in my life that could easily make me cranky but rather than give those unpleasant cirumstances power over me, I work around them.

My brother once told me; "to live a wonderful life be like the "wind and water" and flow up, over, around or under any unpleasant circumstances that come your way" and that is exactly what I do. I might not have power over all of the circumstances of my life but I do have total power over my attitude..

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Lying to myself, here is how I know.

I am lying to myself when I feel negative. I am telling myself the truth when I feel positive. While my thoughts might lie to me, my feeling never do. Good feelings tell me my thoughts are taking me in the direction of where I want to go and bad feelings are telling me my thoughts are taking me away from where I want to go. My feelings are my internal compass. Strange as it may seem, the thing I have had to overcome is to trust my positive feelings more than my negative ones.

I was actually brought up to trust my negative feelings more than my positive ones. Negative feelings were "real life" and positive feelings were not.

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Sunday

Why Did God Create the Bible?

God created the bible, not to be believed as the absolute truth, but to create conflict between people so they would move beyond the bible to know the truth about God, directly and spontaneously, with no middle man required. The truth shall set you free but first it will piss you off!


Your fear of going to hell is no excuse for not getting to know God,
directly and spontaneously, with no middle man required.

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Friday

Acceptance Melts Away Stress


The #1 cause of people experiencing stress is because they are "resisting" something. The more they resist something, the greater the stress they experience. Stress dissolves automatically the moment people quit resisting.

A moment by moment acceptance of everything in your life will make it easier for you to create what you want. You do not have to like something to accept it. There are many things I accept that I intensely dislike... Acceptance melts away any feelings of dislike I have and allows me to stay FOCUSED in the present moment where I am putting my attention on creating the life I want rather than bitching, moaning and groaning about the life I have...

There is great power to be found by accepting, on a moment by moment basis, things as they are... Acceptance of "what is" in the "here and now" frees you up to make your future circumstances better than the circumstances you have today

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Thursday

Powerful, Magnificent and Lovable

You are absolutely powerful, magnificent and lovable. There is no doubt in my eyes that you are. Unfortunately if you do not see yourself as I see you, powerful, magnificent and lovable, my opinion of you doesn't mean spit...

I know people are powerful, lovable and magnificent... I have this experience of them everyday and yet so few people have this experience of themselves....

Tell the average person that they are powerful, magnificent and lovable and those words will bounce off them like they just hit a concrete wall. The average person will not "let in" those words. In fact, they will feel uncomfortable hearing those words and think you are talking about someone else or they will wonder what you want from them...

People are so used to being beaten down, criticized, belittled, humiliated, rejected, scorned, mocked, ignored, made fun of that when someone confronts them with the truth about who they truly are; powerful, magnificent and lovable.....they can't handle it.... It is much easier for them to believe the lies about themselves than it is the truth about who they really are.

What a different world we will live in when people start accepting the fact that who they truly are is an unique, one of a kind, never to be duplicated again, powerful, magnificent, lovable human being.


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Paying Attention to the Wrong Things..

Whatever you pay attention to in life EXPANDS and become bigger.

Pay attention to your lack of money and you will experience less money.
Pay attention to your disease and it will get worse
Pay attention to your problems and they will grow larger.
Pay attention to a bad feeling and it will gain power over you

Paying attention to ANY negative thing is what gives it power over you. Instead of paying attention to any negative thing, pay attention only to what you want. Do not pay attention to what you do not want because whatever you pay attention to becomes the REALITY of your life....

Take your FOCUS off of your "don't wants" and they will disappear from your life like magic....

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Wednesday

Are you feeling Good Today?

There is NOTHING more important than how you feel.. Good feelings tell you that your thoughts are taking you in the directions of your dreams, wants and desires. Bad feelings tell you that your thoughts are taking you away from your dreams, wants and desires.

Feelings are our internal compass. Good feelings lets us know our dreams are coming true and bad feelings let us know they are not..... Thoughts produce feelings. Change your thoughts and your feelings will naturally change along with them and once that happens your circumstances will begin changing too.


Pay more attention to what you feel than what you think. Your thoughts will sometimes lie to you but your feelings never will.


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You Must Risk to Gain...

It is a simple fact of life, you must RISK something to gain something else.

You must risk failing in order to succeed.

You must risk rejection in order to achieve great love

You must risk losing money in order to make money in abundance...

You must risk facing and conquering your greatest fear in order to achieve your greatest desire.

You must risk standing out from the crowd in order to stand above the crowd.




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Judgments

All that we judge causes us pain...

Our judgments don't change spit...

Judging people is one way to avoid seeing that the Creator that made you, made them too!

Judgments close the heart, trust opens the heart

When we judge another we judge some part of ourselves.

A judgmental mind lives outside God's state of grace.


You might not be able to stop the judgments running through your mind but you can stop believing in them. Once you stop believing in them, they will begin disappearing from the landscape of your mind naturally.



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The Control Myth....

The need to control things is motivated by fear. People spend much time and effort trying to control things in their life and in the end nothing is ever controlled, only delayed.... If you allow things to flow through your life rather than trying to control things, your life will suddenly become easier and much more managable...


Going with the flow is natural and in harmony with universal law
while controlling things is unnatural and creates conflict with universal law.


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Your Mind is a Mischief Maker...

Many of the thoughts that create mischief for you are not your thoughts at all. They are the thoughts of others programmed into your mind over a period of years. The only time those thoughts create mischief for you is when you give them power by accepting them as valid and true in your own life. The moment you accept critical, negative, "can't do" thoughts as valid and true in your life, they become Reality for you.


Do not argue with a negative thought for that only gives it power over you.
Instead, dismiss it from your mind as a thought not worthy of you..



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Tuesday

Discouraging Words are harmless unless....

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All the discouraging words in your head were put there by others and they are harmless unless you BELIEVE in them. The way you can tell if you believe in them is how they make you feel. If the discouraging words in your head make you feel awful, it is because you believe in them and whatever you believe in has power over you and rules your life...
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Any thought that inspires you and makes you feel good is God talking to you, the rest are not.
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Saturday

Organizing Intelligence of the Universe

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I call God the "organizing intelligence of the universe" for a number of reasons. First, it makes sense to me. Second, this definition of God doesn't have the crippling baggage attached to it that organized religion taught me about God. And the third reason, my definition of God is a larger and more unifying definition of God than I ever heard before.


The thing I have discovered about God is you either trust the "intelligence of God" to guide, love, protect, heal and nurture you or you do not. It is my experience that when I trust God my life is easy and pain-free and when I do not trust God my life is exceedingly hard and very painful.


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Friday

Life Before GOOGLE (Humor)


JOKE #1

An elderly couple had been dating for some time. Finally they decided it was time for marriage. Before the wedding, they went out to dinner and had a long conversation regarding how their marriage might work.

They discussed finances, living arrangements and so on. Finally the old gentleman decided it was time to broach the subject of their physical relationship.

"How do you feel about sex?" he asked, rather trustingly. "Well," she says, responding very carefully, "I'd have to say I would like it infrequently."

The old gentleman sat quietly for a moment.

Then, looking over his glasses, he looked her in the eye and asked, "Was that one word or two?"


JOKE #2


An old man, Mr. Brown, was living the last of his life in a nursing home.

One day he appeared to be very sad and depressed. Nurse Tracy asked if there was anything wrong.


"Yes, Nurse Tracy," said Mr. Brown, "My Private Part died today, and I am very sad."

Knowing her patients were forgetful and sometimes a little crazy, she replied, "Oh, I'm so sorry, Mr. Brown, please accept my condolences.

The following day, Mr. Brown was walking down the hall with his Private Part hanging out his pajamas, when he met Nurse Tracy.


"Mr. Brown," she said, "You shouldn't be walking down the hall like that.. Please put your Private Part back inside your pajamas."

But, Nurse Tracy," replied Mr. Brown, " I told you yesterday that my Private Part died."

"Yes, you did tell me that, but why is it hanging out of your pajamas?"

"Well, he replied, "Today's the viewing."




















FINALLY my  'Thought MASTERY Program'
has taken on a life of its own. It doesn't matter
what I tell people, it does its own thing. - Frederick Zappone

Thursday

Extraordinary Times - A Commentary

These are extraordinary times and in some ways they are also very negative times. Too much power and money in the hands of a privileged few who really don't have the best interests of the majority of people at heart. While these privileged few find their power in money, I find my power in God, the "Source and Creator" of all the wealth in the universe including money.

I didn't find my power in God overnight. I had to build some spiritual muscles that allowed me to pull away from the influence of those people who choose to live without being connected to God or acknowledge that God, the organizing intelligence of the universe, is the Source of all that there is.

When you choose to make God the first priority in your life, over time, your "God Connection" will move from being a fairy tale or a figment of your imagination to the most real connection you have in the entire universe....

God is REAL.....but not in ways most people believe.... God is the power behind all things....animates all things, keeps all things alive and vital.... and as his children He has given us access to all of his powers and the free will to use them as we see fit.

Yes, you have God's AMAZING power's at your disposal, right now. He wants you to use His "powers" to make your life the heaven and earth you always dreamed it could be....and once you do, show others how to do the same.....

There is not one of you reading this who cannot create MIRACLES in your life. You can create all the love, health and money you need through your connection and partnership with God, the "SOURCE ENERGY" of all things.


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Wednesday

When feeling badly...

The big mistake people make when feeling badly is they try to understand what is causing them to feel that way. What you want to do with that bad feeling is to ALLOW it to pass you by like a dark cloud in the sky and it will.

Fighting with, resisting or trying to figure out why you are feeling badly will make you feel worse.....and you will feel worse and WORSE until you are forced to surrender to the feeling by lying down and going to sleep. You don't want to feel badly so why do anything with the feeling except to allow it to pass you by like a dark cloud in the sky and it will.

Focus on how you want to feel, not bad feelings. The quickest way to do that is take some action that makes you feel good.....whatever action that might be. It could include anything from going for a walk in the park to making love to your wife.

Life is too short to spend it figuring out why you feel badly. Instead allow "bad feelings" to pass you by like dark clouds in the sky and they will...



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Sixteen Poo's (That a lot of poo)



1. Ghost Poo
You know you've pooed. There's poo on the toilet paper, but not in
the toilet. Where is it?

2. Teflon Poo
So slick and easy you don't even feel it. No trace of poo on the
toilet paper. You have to look in the toilet to be sure you did it.

3. Goo Poo
This has the consistency of hot tar. You wipe twelve times and you
still don't come clean. You end up putting toilet paper in your
underwear so you don't soil it. Permanent skid marks are left in
the toilet.

4. Second Thoughts Poo
You're all done wiping and about to stand up when you realise...
there's more to come.

5. Pop a Vein in Your Forehead Poo
This is the kind of poo that killed Elvis. It doesn't want to come
out until you're all sweaty, trembling and purple from straining
so hard.

6. Weight Watchers Poo
You poo so much you lose several pounds.

7. Right Now Poo
You'd better be within thirty seconds of a toilet. You burn rubber
to get there and it usually gets its head out before you can get
your pants down.

8. King Kong Poo
This one is so big you think it won't go down the toilet unless
you break it into smaller chunks. A wire coat hanger usually works
well. This kind of poo usually happens when you're at someone
else's house.

9. Cork Poo
Also known as "floaters". Even after the third flush it's still
there, floating in the bowl. My God! How do I get rid of it?

10. Wet Cheeks Poo
This poo hits the water sideways and makes a bigger splash than
the launching of the Queen Mary II, soaking your starfish.


11. Wish Poo
You sit there all cramped up and fart a few times, but no poo.

12. Cement Block Poo
You wish you'd gotten a spinal block before you pooed.

13. Snake Poo
This poo is fairly soft, about as thick as your thumb and at least
three feet long.

14. Morning After Poo
Happens the day after the night before. Normally your poo doesn't
smell that bad, but THIS one... Usually you're at someone else's
house (normally a girl you're trying to impress) and they're
waiting outside to use the bathroom.

15. Mexican Food Poo
Also called "screamers". You know it's safe to eat again when your
bum stops burning.

16. Boo Hoo Poo
Makes you cry with pain and wonder whether your should risk the
stitches or go for the fuller figure.



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Victim Of My Thoughts No More





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Preparing for your NEW LIFE!

What will you do, how will you act when you have all the money you want when you want it?

What will you do, how will you act when you achieve fully restored health?

What will you do, how will you act when you experience yourself being loved beyond measure, 24/7?


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If what you want isn't happening


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If what you want isn't happening...

If what you want isn't coming into your life that is because you are "afraid" to let what you want come into your life. Yes it's an irrational fear but many people have this fear and it is this fear alone that stops people from having what they want.

Usually people experience this irrational fear because they have been disappointed and hurt so many times in the past that if suddenly all the things they wanted started showing up in their life effortlessly, the excitement of it all would cause them to have a heart attack and die....

Yes believe it or not, what you are afraid of is dying...... You see your purpose in life, up to this point, has been to struggle....and if suddenly all the struggle is gone from your life you will have completed your life's purpose and without purpose, people DIE...

So right now, create a new purpose for yourself. Be prepared for the new life that is coming your way. What will you do, how will you act when all effort and struggle are gone from your life? The more you get comfortable with the new life that is coming your way the easier it will be for you to allow the good things you want to show up in your life effortlessly....


Giving Up The Habit of Guilt

The only bad habit to give up is feeling guilty when things go wrong in your life. It is bad enough when things go wrong in your life but when you feel guilty about it, you injure yourself twice....

Feeling guilty only guarantees that what you feel guilty about will happen again.....

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If you want something..

If you want something, you must let it go....

You cannot have what you want if you do not let go of your want so that God, the organizing intelligence of the universe, can act on it and bring what you want into your life or guide you to it.

It would be easy for you to let go of what you want if you trusted that the power behind all things would give you what you want... Since you don't, you hold on to what you want rather than releasing it therefore never enjoying the thrill of the organizing intelligence of universe making all of your dreams come true effortlessly. Life is so easy when you trust and so hard when you do not......


"Dare to trust that God wants to lavish you with all the good things your heart desires. Dare to trust that God will bring into your life what you want or guide you to it". DARE TO TRUST!!
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Tuesday

Blaming God - Commentary

It is amazing how many things we blame God for. We don't call it blame, we use a nicer word, we call it God's Will. People tragically die in a school shootout and I hear people say as a way of explanation that it must have been God's Will. Isn't that blaming God to say it was God's Will? Aren't we making God responsible for the tragedy rather than the human being or beings who actually caused the tragedy?

Think about this for a moment, 98% of all the bad things that happen, in life, are because of what one human being does to another. War, street violence, pollution and stress that lowers the ability of the human body to heal itself, isn't that all a result of human beings doing it to each other???

As human beings, individually and collectively, we are responsible for all the good and bad in this world with the exception of what nature does to us. On the other hand, maybe our thoughts, which are things, influence nature's behavior and what nature does to us is a result of the collective consciousness of mankind, maybe....

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My Greatest Realization

The greatest realization ever given to me is that I have no power over other people. It is true, I can manipulate them or make them fear me but when it comes to authentic power over them, I have no power over them whatsoever without their permission.

If I manipulate a person as a way to have power over them, once they find out what I did to them, they will never allow me to have power over them again. If I make people fear me as a way to have power over them, once they get tired of being afraid of me they will never allow me to have power over them again.

The only real power I have over people is the power THEY allow me to have over them. If a person doesn't allow me to have power over them, I cannot make a difference in their life. Realizing that without the other person's permission I have no power over them, I treat all people the way I want to be treated with respect, understanding, kindness, patience and love.

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Don't know, don't know, don't know

I don't know what the future holds in store for me.
I don't know the answers to the latest challenge life sent my way.
I don't know how to make my biggest dream come true.
I don't know, don't know, don't know.....


The good news is I don't need to know.... I only need to live fully present in the moment, be happy and God, the organizing intelligence of the universe *, reveals to me on a moment by moment basis what I need to know...

Living in the Moment

Living in the moment is important because it is by living in the moment that

we can easily hear the messages of guidance and advice God is sending our way.

* The term "organizing intelligence of the universe" is courtesy of George Jaidar, author of: The Soul: An Owner's Manual

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Our Job - God's Job

Our job is to know what we want...

Our job is not to figure out "how" to get what we want. That's God job.

God will bring into our life what we want or guide us to it but first we must give up the ego driven need to know "how" we will accomplish what we want. Worrying about "how" we will accomplish what we want kills off creativity, inspiration, opportunity and chance meetings that have the power to make all of our dreams come true.

Keep your focus on what you want, not how you will accomplish it. Focusing on what you want will energize you while focusing on how you will accomplish what you want will drain you of energy and rob you of your health. I don't know how to make my dreams come true but I do because I only take action on thoughts that makes me feel good and leave the rest alone.


Frederick Zappone

Best Advice Ever Given Me......

Be happy, have fun and take action on any thought that inspires you.
If a thought makes you feel good, that is God talking to you....



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Monday

Happy People

People who are happy in spite of unhappy circumstances attract love, health and money into their lives effortlessly. It is the law, happiness attract all good things...





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God's Timing....

In all matters, God's timing is perfect timing. While you are waiting for God to bring into your life or guide you to what you want; be happy, have fun, go play.... There is nothing like being happy and having fun to speed up, considerably, God's perfect timing for you...

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God always Delivers....

God, the organizing intelligence of the universe always delivers.... God is personal with you but never judges of what you want therefore whatever thoughts you think about the most, those are the thoughts God will turn into reality for you....


According to your thoughts so shall it be for you...and it always is.

God will not give you what you want if you "think" God doesn't want you to have what you want.

Whatever thoughts you hold against God, those are the very thoughts God will hold against you.

God is fair and just, always giving you exactly what you think about the most.

If you think thoughts that God will punish you for doing "this or that" then by the thoughts you choose to think God will act non-judgmentally on your thoughts and punish you per your request.

You are your own "savior or executioner" by the thoughts you choose to think...


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Amazing Love.....

I call it AMAZING because when you are doing what you love to do or when you learn to love what you are obligated or duty-bound to do all kind of wonderful gifts start showing up in your life unexpectedly. These gifts include money, improved health and love being lavished upon you in abundance..

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Best Advice...

Best Advice Ever Given Me......

Be happy, have fun and take action on any thought that inspires you.
If a thought makes you feel good, that is God talking to you....


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Meditation Photo #8


Imagine a life where there was only one kind of flower, how dull and boring that would be. It is variety in the garden of life that brings out the beauty in all things therefore let's celebrate our differences rather than trying to destroy them...

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Meditation Photo #7


Whatever we see in the mirror of life is a result of the thoughts we think about the most...To change our life we must change our thoughts.....

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Meditation Photo #6


Be like the water, FLOW under, up, over or around whatever troubles you in life....


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Meditation Photo #5


With a little imagination you can tranform a simple towel into something that will bring
a smile to your face. You have no limits in life except the limitations you place on yourself.

Everything in life is created twice, first mentally and then physically... - Greg Anderson

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Meditation Photo #4


Look for the LIGHT behind the dark days of your life and your life will grow BRIGHTER....



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Meditation Photo #3


It is the soul of man that creates things of "power and might" that bring us pleasure or pain...

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Meditation Photo #2


Reflect on the beauty and power found in this picture of "stillness" and you
will experience the beauty and power of your soul.

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Sunday

Meditation Photo #1


Photo's of nature have enormous power to quiet the mind and allow ourselves to become centered. This is one of my favorites from a recent trip I took. I will be adding more to this site in the months to come...





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Wednesday

Be-ing Yourself - Part II

If you feel uncomfortable around any person or in any situation that is a signal which is alerting you to the fact that you are not being yourself. The only reason we will not allow ourselves "to be ourselves" in all situations and around all people is because we believe "being ourselves" will not be good enough or acceptable to other people.



Being nervous or anxious is a sign you are not being yourself. Being yourself is all you have. Accept that what you have is good enough for other people and in all situations and it will be.......


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Encouraging WORDS Master List #1

Be-ing Yourself - Part I - Nothing Works in my Life - You Can't Make a Mistake... - God is Touchable - Being Fearless - God is.... - Child God - Adult God - Questions & Answers About God - The "What Works" Philosophy - Drop Guilt, Blame and Shame... - You are CAUSE! - Joe, He Protests Too Much!!! - Why we must choose what we have... - Getting What You Want - You are Divine, A One of a Kind... - You can't be Depressed - The Cause of Confusion - Habits, Conditions, Problems - Victim or Victorious?? - The Key To Self-Mastery - By Your Thoughts - Simple, Powerful Words of Encouragement - Life is Easy... - When you don't know... - Thoughts Controlling You! - F.E.A.R. is an acronym - What Discouragement Tells Us. - Why worry! - Changing what you see. - Feelings become Reality - Expect Prosperity My Rule of Prosperity - Giving-Receiving - Control - It becomes what you make it. - A Question About Celebrities - A Celebrity Question - Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow - Some of the Best - Take your 2007 Vacation Cruise With Me... - How you feel about yourself. - Attraction Magnet II - Choose from These Encouraging WORDS - What is acceptance? - What causes suffering? - Wisdom from Suffering - Random Thoughts & Insights III - Random Thoughts & Insights II - Random Thoughts & Insights - Believe it or not! - Hey God #1330 - Inspirational Cruise + Top 28 List - Perfectionist, Phooey! - Depression in my opinion - Intention - Word of Mouth - Love - Leave Your Weaknesses Alone.. - Creating Magic in your life... - It takes hard work to be poor. - Resisting, Fighting, Hating - Raising your Vibes - Stuck in Scarcity... - Prosperity Tip #123 - Why fear not? - Life's Big Joke.... - Your Point of POWER - Prosperity Tip #124 - Feeling Good - Attraction - Prosperity Tip #125 - Increased Prosperity - You are Valuable - Feeling Uptight, Rigid?? - Changing Circumstances Quickly! - God Wants Nothing from you! - Give Up Guilt and Blame - Focus on Abundance - The Problem: Scarcity - The Cure: Gratitude - Lousy day - Feel it, Have it. - Dissolving Negative Feelings - Feels Real... - Language of Feelings - Know Your Feelings - Feeling Good/Feeling Bad - Thoughts Thinking You - Thoughts/Feelings - What Feeling Do You Fear? - If it Feels Real, It Is Real! - Honoring Negative Feelings - Trust Your Feelings




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Be-ing Yourself - Part I

When you are be-ing yourself you never worry.
When you are be-ing yourself you never feel stressed out.
When you are be-ing yourself you never feel ill at ease in your own skin.
When you are be-ing yourself you find yourself happy and joyful for no reason at all.


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Nothing Works in my Life

Question: Nothing I do works in my life? What should I do?

Answer: Chances are, if nothing you are doing is working in your life, it is because you are not being yourself. You are trying to be what other people want you to be or what you think God wants you to be..... Be yourself and things will start working for you!



I cried out to God and he cried back to me; "BE YOURSELF and you will be set
free from all the thoughts and feelings that make you suffer needlessly..."



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Monday

You Can't Make a Mistake...

Did you know when you ALLOW yourself to experience "oneness with God" in the here and now that you can't make a mistake.... When you are one with God, in the here and now, you do what works and whatever you do works. This is called a state of grace.


Read Related Links:

God is Touchable
Being Fearless
God is....
Child God - Adult God
Questions & Answers About God


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God is Touchable

God is "user friendly."
God is reachable and touchable directly by all.
God wants us to use his powers for the good of all concerned.

God works through us and unless we are open to God working through us, God can't soften the hearts, minds and souls of others. God does not preach dogma and doctrine, only people who have the need to control others do that. All men and women of God are human, never forget that and you will never experience a false God before you.


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Being Fearless

There is nothing to fear when you experience yourself "one with God" in the here and now. There is everything to fear when you do not...


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God is....

God is Evolutionary
God is Revolutionary
God is infinite without end.....
God is one with all there is.....

God is one with us all and that makes us one with each other. God is the Hub and we are the spokes and together we make the wheel, the circle of life, whole and complete.


The only SIN there is, is experiencing yourself SEPARATE from God in the here and now. Separation from God is the cause of pain.... Union, an experience of oneness, with God in the here and now eliminates pain......

Child God - Adult God

The relationship we developed with God during our childhood affects our relationship with every single person we meet as an adult. If we had a kind, loving, understanding, easy going relationship with God during our growing up years then that is the kind of relationship we will have with others during our adults years. On the other hand, if our relationship with God during our growing up years was one of fear, doubt, worry, and distrust, then that is the kind of relationship we will have with others during our adult years. Our parents determine what our understanding of God is. If our parents were kind, gentle and understanding then we see God that way. If our parents were cruel, demanding, impatience, punishing and judgmental, then we see God that way.


The way we saw God as a Child was determined by our parents.

The way we see God as an Adult is determined by us......



Tuesday

Questions & Answers About God

Question: Who is God?

Answer: God is the all knowing, all loving, non-judgmental, organizing intelligence of the universe. The God you know, the one organized religion taught you is a lesser God made in the image and likeness of those men and women who taught you about God.



Question: What is a False God?

Answer: Anyone who makes you fear God in any way or makes you fear being punished by God is teaching you about a false God. If you fear your God, you fear a false God, not the God of unconditional love, happiness and generosity I know....



Question: Does God answer all prayers?

Answer: Yes, every single one of them... Your job is to allow the answers in.....



Question: What is prayer?

Answer: Every thought you think is a prayer to God. God does not judge your prayers, he only acts on them thus giving you the good or bad things you think about the most.



Question: What is Worry?

Answer: Lack of faith in God to care for, love, guide and protect you always and in all ways...



Question: If God will solve all of my problems for me what I am suppose to do?

Answer: Be happy, have fun and take action on any thought that inspires you. If a thought makes you feel good, that is God talking to you....



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Monday

The "What Works" Philosophy

Do what you do because "it works" for you and not because other people say you should or should not do it. It does not matter if other people agree with what you do. What matters is if what you do works for you. If it does, keep doing what you are doing. If it doesn't, quit doing what you are doing and find something that does work for you.


Read Related Links:

Drop Guilt, Blame and Shame...
You are CAUSE!
Joe, He Protests Too Much!!!
Why we must choose what we have...
Getting What You Want
You are Divine, A One of a Kind...
You can't be Depressed
The Cause of Confusion
Habits, Conditions, Problems
Victim or Victorious??



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Drop Guilt, Blame and Shame...

As long as you hold onto guilt, blame or shame, you cannot have what you want. Guilt, blame and shame are man-made emotions (not of God) and are programmed into us as small children as a way to control us and prevent us from having the love, health, happiness and prosperity we desire as adults. Love, health, happiness and prosperity are our spiritual birthright and only guilt, blame and shame prevents us from having those things in abundance.

Drop guilt, blame, shame like you would drop a hot coal. They are toxic poison to the soul.

You are CAUSE!

Yes, you are the "cause" of all that you have.... Notice how you have no problem accepting you are cause of all the good things you have in your life........ Now notice how unwilling you are to accept the fact you are the "cause" of all the bad things in your life.

Bad things don't happen to us by accident..... By the thoughts we think, the choices we make and the actions we take we bring into existence every event that unfolds in our lives, the good, the bad and the ugly.

Read Related Links:

Joe, He Protests Too Much!!!
Why we must choose what we have...
Getting What You Want


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Joe, He Protests Too Much!!!

Joe: No, no, no I am not responsible for being depressed, for being sick, for lacking money and having no love in my life It is not possible for me to be responsible for those things. It would hurt too much for me to be responsible for those things, the guilt would overwhelm me if I took responsibility for those things....


The truth is by Joe not taking responsibility for the things he protests about his pain and guilt will only get worse until he does... Acknowledging he caused all the unpleasant conditions he has in his life will set him free and empowers him while not taking responsibility makes him a victim of life and prevents him from creating his future life exactly the way he wants it to be.


Read Related Links:

Why we must choose what we have...

Getting What You Want


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Why we must choose what we have...

If you have some unpleasant situation or circumstance in your life, you must choose what you have before you can have something different. By choosing the unpleasant situation or circumstances, you acknowledge you are responsible for bringing it into your life in the first place. If you do not choose it, it will persist, that is universal law.....and no one escapes the consequences of universal law, no one....

Read related link:

Getting What You Want



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Getting What You Want

In order to get what you want, you must choose what you have....

This sounds like a paradox but it isn't. Let me explain by starting with a quotation from Eckhart Tolle's book titled: Stillness Speaks.

"True freedom and the end of suffering is living in such a way as if you had completely chosen whatever you feel or experience in the moment."

If you are experiencing conflict (in the moment) and want peace, you must choose the conflict you are experiencing NOW. As long as you resist the conflict you are experiencing, in the moment, you will continue to experience conflict in your future moments of living.

If you suffer from lack or scarcity of money, in the moment, you must choose the scarcity you are experiencing NOW otherwise you will continue to experience scarcity and lack of money in your future moments of living.

If you are ill and want to experience fully restored health, you must choose the illness that you are experiencing NOW. As long as you resist your illness, in this moment, you will continue to experience your illness in your future moments of living.

Resistance makes undesirable conditions persist. Resistance is futile because it doesn't work. It doesn't change anything in our life, it doesn't improve anything and it doesn't make undesirable conditions disappear from our life.

If you have a "rule" that experiencing unhappiness, conflict, anger, scarcity or illness is a bad thing to do, you will resist what you are experiencing. And whatever you resist will continue to persist in your life until "you choose" what you are experiencing NOW.

In order to move beyond what you have (illness, unhappiness, lack of money) to what you want (happiness, fully restored health, love and money in abundance) you must, IN THE MOMENT, choose the condition/s you have now.


Getting What You Want excerpted from the Encouraging WORDS Handbook. For more information about the handbook and how you can purchase it, Click Here


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Saturday

You are Divine, A One of a Kind...

The only time you can feel discouraged is when you are believing LIES about yourself. A lie is anything said or done to you that makes you feel less than the magnificent, powerful, lovable person you truly are. If people really understood their true nature, which is divine in origin, they would never feel discouraged.

When people treat you with less respect than they would Royalty, it is simply because they are not recognizing their own divine nature. A person who recognizes their own divine nature will never make you feel less than the magnificent person you truly are...

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Friday

You can't be Depressed

When you know you are a person of power, a powerful person, you cannot be depressed. Depression is a result of the thoughts we think and SUPRESS. Think about this for a moment, when you are feeling depressed, what are you depressing? What thoughts and feelings are you depressing? A person of power never depresses themselves, they fully express themselves.

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The Cause of Confusion

Self-doubt is the cause of confusion. Only when you doubt yourself can you experience confusion. When you stop doubting yourself "clarity of thought" returns home to you.

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Habits, Conditions, Problems

There is no habit you can not break. There is no condition that you cannot cure and there is no problem that you cannot solve.... It all has to do with your WILL, INTENTION AND RESOLVE.

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Victim or Victorious??

Being a victim will get you sympathy but it won't get you what you want. All "victim thoughts" have one purpose and that is to make you doubt how magnificent and powerful you truly are and prevent you from making your dreams come true.

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The Key To Self-Mastery

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When you are in charge of your thoughts rather than allowing your thoughts to be in charge of you, that is when you are the master of your life.
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By Your Thoughts

By your thoughts you got yourself into this predicament and by your thoughts you will get yourself out of this predicament!

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Thursday

Simple, Powerful Words of Encouragement

Focus on what makes you happy and more thoughts will enter your mind that make you happy. Focus on what troubles you and more thoughts will enter your mind that trouble you.

Whatever you focus your attention on, in life, MULTIPLIES.................

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Life is Easy...

Life is as easy as you make it depending upon the thoughts you choose to think. If you made the decision earlier in your life that LIFE WAS HARD, you have collected evidence for many years now that life is hard and will reject my notion that life is easy.... According to your thoughts so shall it be for you.....and it always is...

The biggest mistake people make is underestimating the part their thoughts played in creating the circumstances they have today.

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When you don't know...

There are times in your life when you are faced with problems and don't know the answers to them. When you don't know the answers to your problems, make that okay with you and that will make room for the answers to your problems to appear, spontaneously, in your mind with no effort at all on your part required...

Resistance or non-acceptance of the fact you don't know the answer to a problem will keep that problem in your life for a long, long, long time.

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Thoughts Controlling You!

When you are discouraged, stressed out or feeling pressure that is because your thoughts are thinking you rather than you thinking your thoughts.

Thoughts that are "thinking you" are negative subconscious thoughts. They appear more powerful than your conscious thoughts because they are running on automatic pilot outside your conscious control. Allow those thoughts to pass you by like clouds in the sky and they will do you no harm.

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Wednesday

F.E.A.R. is an acronym

Question: What is Fear?

Answer: F.E.A.R. is an acronym and stands for


False
Evidence
Appearing
Real


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What Discouragement Tells Us.


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Discouragement tells us we are trying too hard. It tells us we are pushing up against walls rather than finding the doors. It tells us we have given it our best effort and that we should rest a while. It is telling us we should go play and come back refreshed and deal with the challenges life has thrown our way on another day..

Discouragement is not defeat or failure for those who know better. It is a much needed rest stop along the way, telling us to chill out, relax, unwind and treat ourselves with gifts fit for a King. It is telling us to meditate a little and reflect on those things that make our heart soar.

When I am discouraged I use that as an opportunity to see into my future rather than dwelling on any unpleasantness that surrounds me in my present moments of time. I do not deny "what is", in the "here and now", I simply look beyond it to what will be." It is the vision of where we are going that sets us free.


Anytime you criticize yourself in any way you injure yourself in some way.

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Tuesday

Why worry!


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What you worry about the most always come true, so why worry!

If you fear worry, worry will rule your life...

Worry is fear thought, dimiss it as a thought not worthy of you..

If you must worry, worry about how you are going to spend all the money you are attracting into your life.

If you must worry, worry about having to say "NO" to all the women who want to make love to you.

If you must worry, worry about something that makes you feel good about yourself....



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Changing what you see.

If you see a situation or circumstance that's not going the way you want it to go, change it by changing your thoughts about it. Your thoughts influence how your situation or circumstance will turn out. The mistake most people make is they allow the situation or circumstance to influence their thoughts rather than using their thoughts to influence the situation or circumstance.


It is not over till it is over..... and up to the very last second, through the power of your thoughts, you can change how a situation or circumstance will turn out.

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