Top 10 Reasons Why a Person's Life SUCKS

1. They trust their bad feelings more than their good ones.
2. They get upset with people and things they can not change.
3. They give their power away by blaming others.
4. They think negative thoughts and then you argue with those thoughts.
5. They are addicted to feeling bad and don't realize it.
6. Life is hard for other people so they think it should be hard for them too.
7. It is more important for people to like them than for them to like themselves.
8. They believe LIES that are passed onto them as truth.
9. They are afraid to make waves or rock the boat.
10. They allow the critic in their head to rule their life.

Related Reading: Dealing with the Critics in my life...

Your ONLY Enemy, the Critic in your head. KILL IT!

The critics in my life, along with the ones that live in my head, told me I was full of sh*t. They ridiculed me and made fun of me.

They told me no one would be interested in what I knew about feeling good, no matter what. They said it is not possible to feel good, no matter what. They said it wasn't realistic. They said it was 'normal' to feel bad. They said feeling bad is what makes us human. If we didn't feel bad, what would we do with all the time on our hands if we weren't worried, anxious or fearful about something.

They said if we didn't feel bad, we would be out of control and do all kinds of bad things to ourselves. They made us doubt ourselves, not trust ourselves so we would trust them. And so the 'critical leaders' of religion, education, medicine, government, and business all conspired to make up policies and pass laws that would make us feel bad as a way to control us and keep us in line. And what a good job they have done.

Everything in our culture is designed to make us do things out of fear and obligation rather than doing things coming from love, freedom of choice and inspiration. Everything in the culture is designed to keep us out of that 'feeling good' state of mind by reinforcing thoughts of fear and doubt in our mind 24/7. 

This fear based information is broadcast to us daily through our newspapers, magazines, radios and television sets. And much of this fear based information is then rebroadcast to us through the videos, pictures and words we see on the Internet. As a result of this continuous 'fear broadcasting,' people are taking actions coming from fear and doing harmful things to themselves and other people more than ever before. These harmful things range from acts of violence and abuse to outright murder and thievery...

Society, by broadcasting fear on a continuous basis, has made us addicted to feeling bad. Society then created pills, booze, drugs and other addictive substances to help us with our bad feelings.  

Society then instructed us to use these addictive substances to medicate, sedate and numb our bad feelings. As a result of following society's advice, we ended up feeling so numb we lost touch with our power to create our life and our world the way we want.


Every time you 'react' then act on your reaction that is FEAR running your life...  And all fear is good for is making you feel bad, and creating more fear in your life until you become afraid of everyone and everything. The worst thing about fear is that it makes you feel afraid of yourself, of your own thoughts and feelings and to my way of thinking that's not normal at all.

Realizing what the culture had done to us, I made it my intention to dissolve and neutralize the fear thoughts that entered my mind rather than giving them the power to harm me in any way.  

I did just that, and from my experience of turning bad feelings into good ones, my Feeling Good, No Matter What, Newsletter was born.

Did you know that every thought you think that makes you feel bad about yourself are not your thoughts at all but thoughts created by other people to manipulate, dominate and control you. Other people not only created those thoughts but convinced you those thoughts were the truth about you, The sad part is, once you believed the LIES people told you about yourself, you entered into hell on earth.

My Feeling Good, No matter What, Newsletter is for people tired of living in fear. My newsletter is for people who want to thrive and prosper in all areas of their life rather than just surviving and getting by. 

My newsletter is for people who want to go from living a lukewarm life to living a life full of passion, excitement and adventure. My newsletter is for people who consciously want to create their future life rather than leaving their future life to chance, accident or luck.

My newsletter is for people who want to give up being addicted to 'bad feelings' which forces them to overeat, overdrink and take drugs with harmful side effects.

My Feel Good Newsletter contains a new way of thinking. This new way of thinking will set you free from the 'mind traps' society created that make you live in fear and control you.This new way of thinking will allow you to experience yourself as the MAGNIFICENT, POWERFUL, LOVABLE to core human being you always knew, deep down in your heart, that you truly were.

-- Frederick Zappone


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Are Your THOUGHTS damning you to a HELL on Earth?

Your thoughts about yourself, more than anything else, will damn you to a hell of your own making or allow you to create a heaven on earth for yourself.  It is your thoughts that affect every mood you feel. It is your thoughts about other people's thoughts that depress you and make you feel less than the magnificent person you truly are.  Your thoughts hold  the power to your greatest success or your biggest failure.  Changing your thoughts is the only thing that will change your life. 

Related Reading: Success Comes Easy When You Are Being Yourself

Kill the Critic in your head...

There is nothing more damaging to your life and nothing that will damn your life more than allowing the 'critic in your head' to live.  Everyone has a critical voice that lives in their head.  Listening to it is one thing but believing what it is saying about you is what keeps you small and stop you from being yourself.   The critic in your head, if you believe what it says about you, can control your moods, your behavior and be the one thing that stops you from achieving the happiness and success you richly deserve. Kill the critic in your head. You do that by believing the very best about yourself and ignoring any thought your critic says about you that makes you feel less than the magnificent, powerful person that you truly are.  Related Reading: Success Comes EASY when you are Being Yourself.


Intentions become Magical when you 'let go' of them.

Truly, it is amazing when you turn over your intentions to the universe, they all come true with no effort at all.... What our job is, while we are waiting for our intentions to come true, is to stay in a happy, relaxed state of mind and only take inspired action when we are inspired to do so...and believe me, when you feel inspired to take action, you will know it.. Related Reading: Success Comes EASY when you are Being Yourself.

Not Being Yourself Causes You To Suffer

All suffering comes from not be-ing yourself. Suffering is a result of you trying to be what other people or society says you should or ought to be. Trying to fit in is what stops you from being the most powerful you that you can be. Screw them all my friends. Be yourself, that's what I love about you the most - God. 

Related Reading: Success Comes EASY when you are Being Yourself.


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The Greatest Truth I've Ever Read About Money Making

There are as many routes to riches as there are belief systems. Some people are quite frugal and others are quite generous. Who succeeds? Those who are true to their belief and expectation. A key element of prosperity is integrity with your own truth. If you act in alignment with what you know, you will succeed. If you try to succeed according to the formula of another, but do not fully understand or feel comfortable with it yourself, you will undermine your success. (Excerpted from
From  Relax into Wealth )



It's coming true for you: How to know....

Feelings are the first physical evidence that something is coming true for you.  If you don't like what is coming true for you, change your thoughts. The moment you do, your feelings will start changing too...

ANTICIPATION..... Do you ever get that feeling?   If you do, let it build.  Anticipation is the realization in advance that what you want is coming your way. Anticipation is a preview of coming attractions. When you feel anticipation, allow it to build and the feeling will, naturally, increase in size and volume. 

The feeling of anticipation is letting you know that what you want is definitely coming true for you as long as you don't screw it up by taking uninspired action, jumping the gun or getting attached to the feeling by turning it into an expectation...

 Anticipation is the electricity that turns dreams into REALITY

Gratitude and Appreciation



Six Things Elvis Presley Never Said.

  • Taking action to correct my past caused me to repeat my past. 
  • The harder I worked at getting better, the worse I got.
  • Thinking about the past caused me pain in the future.
  • All thinking about the past did for me was make the present a burden
  • The moment I labeled my pain as 'this or that' I begin making it my reality.
  • Struggle was a sign I was going against the flow and headed in the wrong direction. I ignored the sign.

Elvis has left the building



NEVER give up on your DREAM... Here's why.

This is my story about my dream. In my story, you will find the story about your dream. It is true, your dream will be different than mine but the reason why you can't give up on your dream will be the same as mine.

I have a dream, my dream is for my writings about life to be so good and have so much value in them that they make people want to enthusiastically support my writings with donations.  I have been writing this blog since September, 2005 and  I rarely get donations.  In spite of a lack of donations, this is my full-time job. 

People ask me all the time:  "What motivates you to continue to write after being a financial failure with your writings for almost seven years."  
I tell them, it is my dream to become so good at writing the things I do that people will feel compelled to support my writings with donations.  They say; "why don't you charge for your writings?"  I say anyone can charge for their writings but that doesn't mean they are any good. I have bought many a book where what was inside the book wasn't worth the price I paid for it."

It is my dream for my writings to be so inspirational that people will feel so much gratitude for having read them that they can't stop themselves from donating money in support of my writings. That's how good I want my writings to become, that is part of my dream.

What has sustained my dream of a being a writer is not donations but rather, each and every day, getting better and better at what I do...  If you look at my blog archive going back to September, 2005, you will notice a huge improvement in my writings over the last seven years. I can't even begin to imagine how good my writings will be seven years from now but I know they will be amazing.  It is my goal to do the ordinary, writing, extraordinary well. It is my goal to move people to tears and take their breath away with my words. My dream is to become the 'Michelangelo' of writing. 

The #1 Reason Not To Give Up On A Dream

After seven years, almost daily there comes a time when I feel like giving up on my dream  but I won't because if I give up on my dream, I am giving up on me. And the moment I give up on me is the moment something inside me dies and once that happens it won't be long until I die.... 

And since I have no intention of dying, I will write and write until my writings become so good that people overwhelm me with donations in support of my writings and then the second part of my dream can come true. That is where I travel all over the world with my computer writing about life in other countries. 

By the way, it is never too late to work on making your dream come true. If I can work on making my dream come true at 70, you can work on making your dream come true at 22, 42, 52 or a 102.

Gratitude and Appreciation



Expecting something, don't... Here is why

I have been on this planet a few years and I can tell you from personal experience and the personal experiences of  thousands of others, expectations have zero value except to cause you upset. Expectations are from hell. 

They are designed by the devil himself to stress you out, make you lose your patience and become frustrated when your expectations aren't being met when you think they should be met.  Worse yet, expectations stop you from taking inspired action to make sure what you want to happen will happen..

Winners and champions do not have expectations.   Instead they have confidence, in themselves, they will succeed at what they do and most of the times they do therefore they have no reason for expectations. Expectations set you up to be hurt and disappointed time and time again until you see expectations have no value in your life except to depress you and make you feel powerless and ineffective as a human being.

If you expect nothing from anybody, you’re never be disappointed.” ― Sylvia Plath

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” ― Donald Miller

When you stop expecting perfection from yourself, you will no longer expect it from others. - Unknown

“Expectations give you false hope and set you up for failure.  -  Elvis Presley


Screw Self-Help Books..... Here's Why

Nothing can make you feel like shit faster than trying to think like the self-help books tell you that you should think. The harder you work at thinking like the self-help books tell you that you should think, the worse you get.  True, some people get better but most get worse. Why?  

Because you aren't a machine designed to replicate the thoughts of another. You are a unique (feeling and thinking) one of a kind human being. A human being who was created to experience both negatives and positives in this life because the positives tell you what you DO want and the negatives tell you what you DON'T want

Without those ups and down emotions you would want nothing and all you would do is just sit there like a rock and watch life pass you by.  Your emotions, both the negative and the positive ones, are the raw materials out which you decide what you want and what you don't want in your life. I will tell you right off, the moment you accept that 'perfection for you' is experiencing both the highs and lows, in life, your 'down' periods won't last so long and your 'up' periods will last longer, a lot longer...

In case you didn't know it, self help book are not self help. They are history books written by people, after the fact, telling you what worked for them...and it may not work for you.



Thoughts over Morning Coffee - August 19, 2012

When I am drinking 'morning coffee,' sitting in front of my computer, the 'organizing intelligence of the universe' (a spark of which lives inside each of us) begins talking to me about life.  As this 'intelligence' chats with me, I jot down what it says to me so later on I can read and reflect on the messages of guidance and advice passed on to me.  If what I receive in my morning chats with this 'intelligence' benefits you too, it is icing on the cake. - Frederick Zappone

All people really want is to be happy but they have been lied to, duped and conned out of their happiness. They have been convinced that being happy is not their natural state of mind. 

Do you remember, you were born into this world happy. You were a happy baby and then, as you grew up, the authority figures in your life beat the happiness out of you by making you do what they wanted you to do rather than what you wanted to do. They convinced you that what they wanted you to do was for your own good, convincing you that what you wanted to do for yourself was wrong, bad or evil. 

Once they made you sufficiently unhappy they enumerated all the ways you could be happy.  By this time happiness was no longer your natural state, unhappiness was and to be happy again you had to earn it.  

To earn it, you had to have the right job, make the right amount of money, marry the right person, drive the right car, live in the right house, belong to the right religion.... And as hard as you tried to do what others said would make you happy, the unhappier you became. 

You became an unhappy person because you didn't like having to earn your happiness because the moment you got something that made you happy, after a couple of weeks it no longer made you happy and you had to start chasing something else to make you happy again... 

Happiness can be yours now without you having to earn it. To be happy now, all you have to do is be grateful for what you have because until you are grateful for what you have, you cannot have what you truly want, no matter how hard you work.... What are you sincerely grateful for, right now? Begin making your list and watch thoughts of happiness flood your mind. And from your natural happy state of mind you will attract more good thing into your life to be grateful for.  That's how my law of gratitude works.

If you doubt my words about gratitude, ask yourself this question: How do you feel when people aren't grateful for the things you do for them?  That's how I feel when you are not grateful for the life I have given you.  The more you are ungrateful for the life you have, the less I want to give you. However, the moment you become grateful for what you have now, I immediately begin working behind the scenes of your life, orchestrating people and events in your favor so you can have the life you want.


As long as you make unhappy thoughts and feelings your enemy, you will attract more thoughts and feelings that make you unhappy. In fact, making enemies out of anything tells me you are focused on what you don't want instead of what you do want.  It tells me you believe in the power of the negative more than you believe in the power of the positive.
Why focus on anything that makes you unhappy unless you falsely believe it is the unhappy thing that is stopping you from having what you want.  Ironically it is but it is you who placed the unhappy thing between you and what you want, it is you who have created the unhappy thing with your thoughts.
The quickest way to make enemies of your own thoughts is the 'I Think, They Think' thinking.  In other words, you think that other people are thinking certain negative thoughts about you but it is YOU thinking those thoughts. However, since you are convinced they are not your negative thoughts but someone elses, those negative thoughts own you and run your life in a way not to your liking.

Gratitude and Appreciation



Get Your Morning Inspiration here - Living an Inspired Life

To have what you want, you have to let go of the wanting. As long as you want, you can never have. In fact, after the initial wanting, if you continue to hold on to the want, what you want will move further and further away from you until you give up and don't want it any more. - Frederick Zappone

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    The Defining Opinion of President Barack Obama

    I don't normally make politically statements but based on facts (rather than lies, half truths, sensationalism, hysteria and emotional reactions), I have to make this one. Obama is a lot better than many people think and not nearly as bad as many people fear.


    Warning From The Universe Concerning Your Happiness




    What the Universe is telling you when things Go Wrong in your life.

    (These insights are based on my life experiences. - Frederick Zappone)

    1. The universe is telling you that you are stressed out and wound up too tight. The universe is encouraging you to take a break, chill out, relax and unwind. The universe is telling you to stop taking yourself and life too seriously.

    2.  The universe is rewarding you by telling you it is time to take a break and go play and when you come back to work, the things that stopped working will start working again.

    3. The universe is telling you that you're going in the wrong direction, further away from what you want.

    4. The universe is telling you that your thinking is off track and is giving you time to reflect and get your thinking back on track.

    5. Th universe has taken control of your situation to make adjustments so things will turn out right for you.

    To learn more about the power of gratitude to make the things that go wrong in your life turn out right, subscribe to my free gratitude messages: 


    I'm Grateful for the Things 'Gone Wrong' in my life. Here's Why...

    Normally, when things go wrong in a person's life they REACT to the situation. They get upset, pissed off, irritated, angry and yet none of those things will change what went wrong.  Instead, they will only make the situation worse... they always do.  However, when something goes wrong and we are grateful for the thing gone wrong, we are acknowledging there is a higher power at work in our situation who can see the bigger picture. A higher power who is working behind the scenes of our life making the necessary corrections and adjustments so we can get what we want, faster.

    Experience has taught me that when something goes wrong in my life that is always a sign that the 'organizing intelligence of the universe' has intervened into my life to help me get what I want faster.  However, until I was willing to be grateful for the thing that went wrong, I was never able to see how the thing gone wrong would help me get what I wanted, faster.  These days, every time I am grateful for something that, in my judgement, has gone wrong in my life, wisdom and knowledge is revealed to me that shows me the shortcuts to getting what I want.

    I know it's not logical to be grateful for the things that go wrong in our lives but who cares if being grateful for things gone wrong makes them turn out right.  To learn more about the power of gratitude to make the things that go wrong in your life, turn out right, subscribe to my free gratitude messages.


    Gratitude In Teens Linked With Being Happier. Study:

    Thankful for what you have? It could be the key to being a happy, well-adjusted teen, new research suggests.  A study presented at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association shows that grateful teens are also more likely to be happy, hopeful and well-behaved at school. 

    "More gratitude may be precisely what our society needs to raise a generation that is ready to make a difference in the world," study researcher Giacomo Bono, Ph.D., a psychology professor at California State University, said in a statement. 

    "Gratitude" in a teen was defined as having a positive outlook on his or her life. The researchers conducted the study on 700 kids ages 10 to 14 over four years. 

    At the end of the four-year period, the most grateful teens had a 15 percent increase in feeling like they had a meaning for life, as well as a 15 percent increase in life satisfaction. They experienced a 17 percent boost in happiness and hopefulness, as well as a 15 percent decrease in feeling symptoms of depression, researchers found.

    Plus, those who experienced the greatest increase in gratefulness over the four-year period also experienced the greatest reductions in bad behaviors like cheating, drug and alcohol use and detention. 

    The finding backs up a previous one conducted by researchers at Hofstra University, who found that grateful teens are also more likely to have higher grades, less envy and more friends than their less grateful peers, the Wall Street Journal reported. ( Article via HuffPost Healthy Living

    Get your free gratitude messages and teach your children the power found in the attitude of gratitude.

    The Brick Walls Are There For A Reason


    “The brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. The brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough. They’re not there to stop the people who do.” ― Randy Pausch


    “You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.”  ― Maya Angelou


    “Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”  ― Dale Carnegie 


    The virtue of gratitude is the most unappreciated and underrated of all virtues. Gratitude, properly understood, is so powerful that being grateful for what has gone wrong in our lives has the power to make it turn out right. That's how powerful gratitude is.- Frederick Zappone


    The True Story of the 'Ungrateful Bastard' and the Grateful Benefactor

    The turning point for Scott Neeson, high powered Hollywood executive, was when he received a call from the agent of one of Hollywood's major stars.  The agent said, "Scott, we have a problem." 'What's up," Scott replied.  The agent answered, "the plane the studio chartered for us doesn't have the right kind of water or the food we require and we are not getting on the plane until this is resolved." Then the 'Star' grabbed the phone and said. "Scott my life is not suppose to be this difficult, Fix it."

    That was the moment Hollywood Executive Scott Neeson decided to give up his million dollar job with SONY and began working full-time to save the lives of Cambodian children living and working on the garbage dump in Phnom Penh. So far he has rescued over 1200 children from this horrible existence.   

    Source: Reader's Digest, September, 2012, Page 181

    When I read this story I was appalled by the lack of gratitude the Hollywood star had. However, the more I thought about it, the more I realized, it wasn't the star's fault he had such an ungrateful attitude.  You see he was brought up in an environment, as we all were, where being disenchanted (ungrateful) with what we have was deliberately  programmed into us by the free enterprise society so we would buy more (want more) and complain when we didn't have what we wanted. Unfortunately this programming has poisoned every aspect of our lives from our health to our relationship with others.

    Today, the lack of gratitude for what we have is the source of many of our problems in society. You see, the more ungrateful we are, the more unhappy we become and the more we talk and behave in ways that would not make our mother's proud.. 

    The virtue of gratitude is the most unappreciated and underrated of all virtues. Gratitude, properly understood, is so powerful that being grateful for what has gone wrong in our lives has the power to make it turn out right. That's how powerful gratitude is... To learn more about the spectacular power of gratitude, sign up for my free gratitude messages.  They are unconditionally free which means you will never receive an email from me asking you to buy any product or service from me.

    I offer my gratitude messages and what I have learned about the power of gratitude to people, free of charge, out of a deep appreciation for what the practice of gratitude has given back to me..



    Why People Have a Hard Time Creating the REALITY they want...

    It's a fact that whatever you focus your attention on manifests as reality in your life. That being true, why is it that most people don't see or understand that moment by moment they are creating every bit of their reality both the good and bad of it by what they have their attention focused on.....  

    ANSWER: They don't see or understand this fact because they are too busy having their attention focused on (fixated on) others people's thoughts and words and creating their reality instead. Scary thought, isn't it, creating other people's ((friend, family, co-workers, media, ministers) reality rather than your own.

    Gratitude and Appreciation


    Observation Changes REALITY (Short Article Explains All)

    OBSERVATION CHANGES REALITY....   There is pure observation and there is directed observation.  In other words, observation coming from a particular point of view.  For example, you observe yourself and your situation with the point of view that you cannot change it. As a result, you will consistently and continuously observe evidence that what you believe is true, that you cannot change your situation.  HOWEVER, if you change your point of view to: 'I can change it' and you have no interfering thoughts that stop you from believing that you can change it (whatever it is for you), you will notice and observe evidence on a consistent and continuous basis that you can indeed change what formerly was an impossibility for you to change..

    What I just shared with you is in line with the following quote from Wayne Dyer:  'When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change'

    Any questions?

    This link may be of interest to you: The 'No Bullsh*t Zone' About Law of Attraction Programs.


    The Only Law of Attraction Program Better Than My Own

    I rarely recommend other people's law of attraction programs.  In fact, I don't think I ever have. Why should I?  I have one of my own called the One Magnificent Thought (LOA) program. The reason I wrote my program is because I thought all the existing LOA problems available to people were either too expensive, too complicated or too hard to understand and use. A couple of days ago I came across the first and only LOA program that I considered better than my own.  

    I am very skeptical when it comes to the promises of other people's law of attraction programs and so for me to recommend an LOA program other than my own, the program has to be exceptional.  Dr. Anthony's program is indeed exceptional.  His program is extremely well written in words anyone can understand. And it is recorded by the author who comes across as someone who has lived every single word he speaks.  

    I find Dr. Anthony's program so exceptional that I can't listen to it enough. In fact, I am listening to his program in the background as I write this blog entry for you...  I have been listening to it over and over again since I purchased it because his words ring deeply true for me.  It is refreshing to listen to an LOA program that is bullsh*t free and speaks to me with the conviction and authority I need to hear in order to believe, without doubt, the law of attraction information being shared with me.

    If you are interesting in reading more about  Dr. Anthony's program, Click Here



    Healing the Hurt So You Can Trust Again

    In order to trust again, you have to heal the hurt hiding behind the distrust. Healing yourself really means looking at the hurt straight in the eye until it disappears from your view. As long as you avoid the memory of the hurtful experience, on the cellular level, the memory continues to hurt you over and over again.  Once you re-visit the hurt and look it straight in the idea (observe it) the healing will begin and the emotional charge that is stopping you from trusting again will dissolve naturally.

    Gratitude and Appreciation


    The EASY Life....for those that believe

    As much as people want life to be easy,  as much as people want to be able to create, attract and acquire things with effortless ease, it can't happen until your conscious and subconscious mind are in agreement.

    Your conscious mind is the decider and chooser of what you want, your subconscious mind delivers what you want or guides you to it but for this to happen both the conscious and subconscious mind must be in agreement with what you want...

    Anytime you feel a conflict in regards to what you want that is an ALERT signal that your conscious and subconscious mind are not in agreement.

    Until the disagreement is resolved, it does not matter how much you know, how many books you have read, you will not be able to produce the results you want, no matter how hard you work....

    One of the reasons people have a disagreement between their conscious and subconscious mind is because deep down, as much as they want life to be easy for them, all the subconscious mind knows, from years of experience, is effort, struggle and hard work...

    As appealing as it is to be able to attract, create and acquire things the easy way, if your subconscious mind doesn't buy your 'life is easy' idea, it isn't going to happen..

    And it is not going to happen because you don't trust the idea that things can be easy for you.  You see, you have survived by things being hard for you....and if you give up on the idea that things have to be hard for you, you don't know whether you will survive. 

    The truth is, if you do give up the idea that attracting, creating or acquiring what you want has to be hard for you, you will not survive. Instead, you will thrive..... and prosper beyond your wildest dreams.

    To thrive and prosper beyond your wildest dreams, you must trust the idea that creating, attracting, acquiring what you want is easy to do...

    Can you trust that you can easily attract anything you want including money in abundance or money equivalents?  Once your conscious and subconscious are in alignment with each other about it being easy, POOF like magic everything you want will come into your life with no effort at all. Any Questions? 

    Related Reading: The Science of Deliberate Creation


    Gratitude and Appreciation



    Grab your POWER back, the easy way....

    Simplicity is Genius
    The conscious mind chooses and decides, the subconscious mind delivers the result...

    Everyday my I receive evidence my intentions are coming true. Why? Because I command my subconscious to provide me with daily evidence. and it does. Everyday, I am receiving more and more of what I want because I command my subconscious mind to deliver the results I want and it does.

    The only thing that will stop the same thing from happening to you is fear. It is not fear itself that stops you, it's your belief in fear, it is your fear of fear, it is you giving fear your power that stops you from having what you want. For without you, fear is nothing, fear has no power at all.

    Here is an excellent article on the workings of the conscious and subconscious mind... Understanding how the conscious and subconscious mind works will make life very easy for you.



    I love fear thoughts, they entertain me, even make me laugh

    I love fear thoughts, they entertain me. They didn't at one time because I was afraid of them. I am no longer afraid of them so these days, when they show up in my mind, out of thin air, they entertain me.  I observe them, I watch them like watching a suspenseful  movie but I give them no power at all because I don't have conversations with them. I just watch them.  

    Fear thoughts act like 'Chicken Little'. They come running up to you yelling; 'the sky is falling, the sky is falling' when nothing like that is happening at all.  If you watch your fear thoughts rather than have conversations with them, they will entertain the heck out of you. However, if you start having conversations with them, guaranteed they will beat the shit out of you and defeat you every single time. Observe, watch your fear thoughts like a horror movie or bad nightmare and they won't have any power over you at all.



    Taking Charge of your Subconscious Mind - The Simple Way

    Today's Affirmation: 
     I attract evidence everyday that the ___________ (Fill in the blank) I want is coming my way....

    This is more than an affirmation, it is a command to your subconscious mind to seek out and provide you with the evidence you want. The subconscious mind operates on clear cut, uncluttered, commands. In other words, commands free from doubt. Until you give your subconscious mind a clear cut, doubt free, command, the subconscious mind stays in neutral.
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