Is Life HARD for You? If it is, Quit LYING To Yourself.

QUESTION: How do you know when you are lying to yourself?

ANSWER: When you feel heavy, somber, depressed or negative in any way, you are lying to yourself.

QUESTION: How do you know when you are telling yourself the truth?

ANSWER: Truth makes you feel light and free. Lies makes you feel worried, anxious, tense, and depressed. This is caused by accepting thoughts from others about life that are not your thoughts

Here is an example of what I am talking about.

Many people have accepted, as fact, that it is hard to make money because it was hard for their parents to make money.. As a result of not questioning their parents truth, making money becomes hard for them too.  

For myself because my truth is making money, in abundance, is easy to do, for me it is easy to do

It is important to understand that our life unfolds according to our beliefs and if you believe that life is hard, then for you it will be. And your life will be constantly filled with obstacles, roadblocks and difficulties caused by you believing the lies that others told you that life is hard.

Life is EASY.  It is only the way we think about ourselves and life that makes it hard. To make life much easier for yourself get your copy of the  21 Self-Love letters via e-mail

HEY Black Child

By Useni Eugene Perkins


Do you know who you are? Who you really are?

Do you know you can be what you want to be? If you try to be what you can be?

Hey Black Child,

Do you know where you’re going? Where you’re really going?

Do you know you can learn what you want to learn? If you try to learn what you can learn?

Hey Black Child,

Do you know you are strong? I mean really strong? 

Do you know you can do what you want to do? If you try to do what you can do?

Hey Black Child,

Be what you can be. Learn what you must learn. Do what you can do. 

And tomorrow your nation will be what you want it to be.


The Night My HIGHER SELF Took Control of My Body.

About 16 years ago before I met Vona, I dated another girl. We were sitting back in the corner of the bar when a fight broke out. We were trapped in the corner and the only way out was through the fight.

I was watching the fight and hoping someone would step in and break up the fight but no one did.. Then, for reasons I cannot explain, I felt this incredible calm and without thinking twice I got up from my table and waded into the middle of the fight.

I got between the two guys. I pushed the one guy backwards and yelled at the people standing there to grab him while I worked on calming the other guy down. Without thinking, I intuitively put the palm of my hand on the middle of the guy's chest. His heart was beating so fast and hard I thought it was going to jump right out of his chest.

While I had the open palm of my left hand on his chest over his heart area, my right hand was intuitively led to his back. I started rubbing the middle of his back in circular fashion. Instantly he started calming down.

He began telling me what happened.

The other guy was drunk and hitting on his wife and he just lost it.  As I continued to rub his back he spontaneously hugged me and thanked me for breaking up the fight and then suddenly he stepped back in shock realizing he just hugged a man in a bar full of men.

It was apparent to me that he had no idea what had just happened to his 'energy field’ and to tell you the truth, neither did I. Something or someone was working through me.

The man went back to his wife. The manager threw the other guy out of the bar. I went back to my seat and sat down. The manager came over and thanked me and gave us free drinks. She told me their bouncer was off sick that night and they were lucky I was there that night.

After the manager left, I unexpectedly burst into tears. After the fact, I realized I just did something that was very dangerous to do since both men had broken beer bottles in their hands. It was then I realized that higher part of my personality intervened and did what needed to be done that I could not myself do because anyone who knows me knows I dislike physical violence and I am a coward at heart.

The lesson I learned is that when fear is absent, all things are possible. The whole time I was in that 'spontaneous altered state of mind' I did not feel fear or have any concerns for my safety.

Looking back at that experience, since my girlfriend (at that time) and myself were trapped in the corner, the higher part of my personality took over control of my body for the good of all. I also believe because I had been into self-love for many years, my love for myself and for all those different than myself made it possible for the higher part of my personality to take over control and do for me what I could not do for myself.  This story was excerpted from my latest book titled: More LIFE INSIGHTS From The Wizard


I have had many strange experiences happen to me in my life. One of them is when the crucifix with my sister's ashes in it, that I wore around my neck, turned from SILVER into a GOLD for no logical reason that I can explain. Another story for another day.

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Getting UNSTUCK. - The Secret to ALLOWING Your Good.

Making peace with your present set of
circumstances (what is) will set you free 
to create the future of your dreams.

I want to elaborate on why it is important to make peace with your currently situation or circumstances. As long as you are not at peace with your current situation, your current situation will persist. As long as you are not at peace with your current situation, inspiring thoughts to create the future you want will elude you. As long as you are not at peace with your current situation, you will beat yourself up and make yourself wrong for being in your situation which will then make your current situation stick to you like SUPER GLUE.

As long as you are not at peace with your current situation, you will not be able to vibrate at a higher level of happiness that will naturally and spontaneously attract good things to you, often times in ways that defy all logical explanations. Here is an example of what I am talking about.

Years ago I lived in Dallas, Texas.  I was without a job and without money. Logic says pound the pavement. Logic says be relentless, go on job interview after job interview, send out resume after resume. (None of which felt good to me.) Inspired action says 'be at peace' with your current situation, do what makes you feel good, do what makes you happy.  So I called a place I volunteered at and ask them if I could volunteer at their place that day. Doing volunteer work that I loved resulted in me connecting with people that produced both a job and money for me that day.


Being at peace with your current situation (whatever that might be) and doing only what feels good to you always produces the best results.

The key to creating the future you want is by making peace with your 'present set of circumstances and then only taking actions you are inspired to take, actions that make you feel good about being you.

Inspired action is any action that makes you feel good in some way. Inspired action could be taking a walk in the park, an afternoon nap, reading a book. Inspired action is rarely a LIGHTENING BOLT out of the blue. Inspired actions are easy, soft and stress free.


She said PRICELESS Self-Help Book

I write books, lots of them. It doesn't matter how Amazing I think my books are, if the people who buy my books don't think they are amazing, then my books aren't worth spit. Here is what a customer had to say about my latest book 299 Life Insights From the Wizard (Available Amazon) To buy a copy, click here  


299 Self-Help Shortcuts

I remember the first self-help book I read years ago. It was written in such a complicated way that it made me feel like the stupidest white man who had ever lived. I carried that book around with me with for 6 years before I completely understood it. After that, I vowed that I would take every complicated self-help principle I came across, put it into my own words and turn it into a simple thought that even a 6 year old little boy could understand. That is what I have been doing for the past 25 years. In this, my second book, you will find powerful, life changing insights and thoughts simply and elegantly stated for your reading enjoyment, entertainment and personal growth. - Frederick Zappone, author Love is All I know (Amazon)

299 ORIGINAL LIFE INSIGHTS that work. Direct from the WIZARD himself.

299 ORIGINAL LIFE INSIGHTS that work. Direct from the WIZARD himself. 
To read the reviews and book sample, click on book cover (Amazon)