Your good feelings are cosmic magnets that reach out into the universe and attract to you those things that make you feel good. The reverse is also true! The most important question to always ask yourself when you are 'consciously creating' is 'how does this or that make you feel?' If something makes you feel bad, SHIFT your attention away from what's making you feel bad until you are focused on what makes you feel good because 'whatever you are feeling' is what you are in the process of attracting to yourself. It's how the law of attraction works.