You have rights

If you believe that you must put other people first all the time, you are violating the second great commandment. The second commandment implores you to:

"Love your neighbor as much as yourself"

This commandment does not state to love your neighbor more than yourself.

People who love their neighbor more than themselves are some of the nicest and sweetest people I know. They are also some of the biggest victims and martyrs I have ever met.

As a spiritual person, you have rights and putting yourself first is one of those rights!