Trapped in the Feeling Bad Loop

Question: I attract what I don't want. I can't seem to stop doing that. I feel terribly guilty about it.


Answer: Feeling guilty about attracting what you don't want will only make you more effective in attracting more of the things you don't want. You're trapped in a loop of feeling bad. You try to attract what you do want and don't because "your focus is on your fear that you won't attract what you do want."

Instead of focusing on your fear, focus on whatever it takes to feel good and all the others things you want will come into your life naturally. Focus on what is absolutely under your control and what is absolutely under your control is feeling happiness and joy regardless of external events because the experience of happiness and joy is an internal event..

Listen to music that makes you feel good. Read books and articles that make you feel good. Do exercises that make you feel good. Eat foods that make you feel good. Visit stores that make you feel good. Take short trips that make you feel good. Call friends that make you feel good. All the things you do that make you feel good will attract good things to you, guaranteed. The law of attraction is a simple law; good feelings attract good things and bad feelings attract bad things.