It is hard to believe that what you tell yourself becomes your reality but it's true.
The way you say it is, is the way it becomes for you. You are rarely, if ever, wrong about what you tell yourself and others about your life. Change your thoughts (your story) and when you do, your life will change too. According to your thoughts so shall it be for you....and it always is.
Say it long enough and you word will become LAW in your universe.