This ALERTS you when you are giving your personal power away

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Any thought, person or situation that makes you feel powerless or ineffective is ALERTING you to the fact that you have projected your personal power away from yourself  and into a thought, person or situation. When you do that, you give that thought, person or situation the power to make you unhappy. 

SOLUTION 

To solve this problem, realize what you have done and withdraw your power away from that thought, person or situation that is making you unhappy. You do this by focusing your attention on any thought, person or situation that makes you feel happy, powerful and magnificent, the way God always intends for you to feel.
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