If you want to learn a lesson in giving up Control.

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If you want to learn a lesson in giving up control, raise the money you need for a project by donations. You have no control at all if someone is going to donate, when they're going to donate or how much they will donate. It is all up to your good intentions and God's will. Mostly, I think, God's will. In my opinion, God picks and chooses with a 'nudge' who should donate and who should not.  (Support Inspirational REALITY TV )
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