Killing myself for Success. Stupidest Thing I ever did.

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In the spirit of play, life is easy. In the spirit of effort and struggle, life SUCKS!

If you believe to be successful other people most love and approve of you or think that what you do (acting, writing, singing, painting, etc)  is awesome, they won't.

Take it from me, thinking you need other people to love and approve of you in order for you to be successful is absolutely the stupidest thing you can ever think.  

If you try to get people to approve and accept you, as a way to be successful, the best that will happen is that they will think you are as crazy as a looney bird (Look at how many people seeking approval and acceptance on American Idol and America Got Talent fail). 

The worst that will happen, seeking other people's approval to be successful, is you will labor in obscurity for years. In other words you will work alone, be unknown and watch your dreams die a slow, painful, agonizing death.. That's what you get when you do what you do for the purpose of seeking other people's approval of you. Life doesn't work that way.

The way life work is that you first must love and approve of yourself. If that takes hating everyone in the world so the only person you have left to love is you, then so be it. Let me explain. If your believe other people are responsible for your success and they do not give you the love, approval and recognition you seek, you will end up hating them anyway. And worse yet, you will end up hating yourself. And once you hate yourself, you will have no creative power left at all to create the life you want.

All great loves begin with self-love and if you don't love yourself fully, your life will suck. And every day you will feel a little bit of your life force being drained out of your body by the people who are using you. You allow people to use you because you think you need their love and approval to create the life you want when, in fact, the only person's love and approval you ever needed was your own.  

When you work at loving and approving of yourself by doing those things that make you feel good, you will naturally attract the love and approval of others,  You see, when you do what feels good for you to do, you are loving and approval of yourself....and people find that very, very attractive.. 

As a result, when you are feeling good about yourself, people will want to be around you. They will feel compelled to compliment you. They will be inspired to give you nice things and do nice things for you. Why, Because when you feel good, it makes the people around you feel good too. That's how life works!

Putting other people first, all the time, will put you back at the end of the line..

The Kindness Project (KP)

Being Yourself, Being a Person of Power

Insights From a ' Spirit Guide' About The Law of Attraction.

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1. Your feelings are the first physical evidence that  
you are attracting something (good or bad) into your life.


2 - There is a 'time gap' between you focusing on what you want and seeing it manifest itself into your physical reality.  While waiting,  it is important that you 'gracefully allow' the time for what you want to manifest itself in your physical reality. 



While you are waiting, expressing gratitude for what you have and/or for what you want is the best way to stay on course in regards to using the the law of attraction successfully.  Expressing gratitude for what you have guarantees you will attract more good things into your life to be grateful for..


Using Gratitude to ATTRACT what you want:

Gratitude will speed up the 'attraction process' of what you want becoming your physical reality.  Keep in mind unless you have achieved mastery using the law of attraction, what you want won't manifest itself over night, except occasionally, when you least expect it.

When using gratitude as a 'law of attraction' tool state everything in the present tense.

I am grateful 'NOW THAT' I have all the money I want.  

(phrase your gratitude this way for what you want)

 

I am grateful for my children. 

(phrase your gratitude this way for what you have.)

Often times, when you begin saying words of gratitude, they will not produce strong positive feelings in you. The reason for this is that when you seriously begin the gratitude practice, your 'words of gratitude' are neutralizing and dissolving many of the negative feelings you have carried around inside yourself for years. However, if you make thoughts of gratitude your predominate thoughts, until they become automatic habits of thought, soon you will feel what you are grateful for and shortly thereafter what you want will manifest itself into your physical reality.

Gratitude is the most powerful law of attraction tool of all
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These LOA and Gratitude insights courtesy of,  my spirit guide,  Angela

 

Law of Attraction Q & A.

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Question:  I don't believe the law of attraction will work for me. What can I do?

Answer: The law of attraction is working in your life.  It works all the time without fail. In your case, it is not working in your favor but it is still working. What can you do?  Change your belief from DON'T to DO.  Your belief that the law of attraction won't work for you is a thought you repeat over and over to yourself. Each time you repeat that thought to yourself you activate the law of attraction' to provide you with definitive proof and evidence  that the law of attraction is not working in your favor. That will continue until you change your belief from I don't believe to I do believe.

Question:  How do I change my belief?

Answer: Repeat what you want to believe until it FEELS real to you. The moment it feels real to you is the moment the law of attraction will begin working in your favor rather than against you.

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