What happened to the TRUTH?

The truth got buried under greed and a lust for power, period, end of story. On this blog I share with you the naked truths of life, the unvarnished truth with no embellishments. I only share with you my naked truths from where I sit in life which may be different from your naked truths and where you sit in life. 

By the way, no matter how much you disagree with me, I will never argue with you, disrespect you or make you wrong for what you share with me. Why?  Because your naked truth is just as valid for you as my naked truth is valid for me. Who is right and who is wrong? We are both right based on where we sit in life.

I will also never try to convince you of my truth for two reasons. First, I am not in the business of convincing anyone of anything. The second reason is, a person convinced against their will is of the same opinion still.... Knowing that, I no longer waste my breath.  

If no one every explained it to you before, there four truths in life. There is your truth, my truth, our mutual truth (the world is round) and Universal truth (I am pretty clueless in regards to  universal truth).

The truth stands on its own merits and never needs to be defended or explained. If it does, it wasn't the truth in the first place. 

The truth ALWAYS works whereas LIES complicated the shit out of life. The truth can be used as a weapon to hurt people or as a surgical tool to heal people. Each of us gets to choose how we will use the truth.  I've made my choice.  Now it is time for you to make yours.

Frederick Zappone

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Really 'Good News' In Regards To Getting What You Want

I have some really good news for you. 

The good news is this:  You do not have be worthy or deserving of the things you want.  Believing you have to be worthy or deserving of what you want is what's stopping you from having it. You can be a total wreck and your life can be messed up and you can still get what you want.

Whoever taught you that you had to be worthy and/or deserving of the things you wanted in order to have them LIED to you.  

To get what you want all you have to do is want it. If you have the desire for something, your desire will show you the way to get it.

Trust Your Desire

The Universe never plants a desire in your heart for something unless your desire can be fulfilled.  The important part is not putting a limit on how your desire will manifest itself into your life. For example, if you want a 'loving relationship' don't limit it to a specific person because that person may not be able to give you the 'perfect love' you want.  The Universe precisely knows who can give you exactly what you want.

If you have questions about trusting your desire to get what you want, email or text the word TRUST to me.  In return I will send you a copy of my highly acclaimed article on the subject of trust. In my article I explain who and what you should trust and most importantly why.

In the subject line of your email to me type the world TRUST.  My e-mail address is jfz@frederickzappone.com  If you prefer you can text the word TRUST to me at (724) 516-4050 USA  


Frederick Zappone, 
Author, Love is All I Know

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A WHOLE NEW Way Of Looking At The Law of ATTRACTION that wlll give many people RELIEF and take the pressure off in regards to attracting things.

Does the Law of Attraction really exist? 

I personally have no way of proving to you whether the law of attraction exists or not..  I know millions of people believe that it actually exists but just because people believe that it exists does not mean it actually exists. It also doesn't mean that it doesn't exist.

Years ago millions of people BELIEVED the world was flat. People believing the world was flat didn't make it so. At one time millions of people believed man would never fly. We all know how that turned out.

Question: What is one to do if they don't know for sure if the law of attraction exists or not? 

Answer: The first thing to do is not worry about it. It is not important whether it exists or not. 

What is important is your personal direct experience of things. 

Does feeling good attract good things to you? If it does, you don't have to believe in the law of attraction because you have experienced it personally and directly. Once you have personally experienced something you no longer have to believe in that something.

The point is, the truth believed is a LIE.
You can only experience the TRUTH

A belief is like the menu, the truth is like the actual meal.  One is the real deal, the other is not..

Someone saying they LOVE YOU is a belief.  Their actions will tell you whether that belief is true or not. If they say they love you and then treat you like shit, you believed a lie...

A belief is what you want to happen to you
The truth is what actually happens to you.

I have read many books about the law of attraction and still I cannot prove to myself whether the law of attraction exists or not. And because I can't prove to myself whether the law of attraction exist or not, I don't focus on the law of attraction at all. I focus on 'feeling good' because it is my 'direct experience' that feeling good attracts good things to me...

Frederick

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Honesty is the Best Policy

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The Truth BELIEVED is a LIE. (Simply Explained)

The truth believed is a lie. You can only experience the truth. The truth is like the meal, the belief is like the menu. One is the real deal, the other is not. Don't believe anything you hear unless you hear it yourself from the horse's mouth otherwise you will end up looking like a horse's ass.

To Show Up In The World as a BRILLIANT You Must Risk Making a JACKASS Of Yourself From Time To Time.

I write to express to you various 'life insights'  that work for me that may work for you too. I don't write for you to like me or make me rich and famous because neither one of those things has great appeal for me. I learned a long time ago that I could care about people or care what they think of me and I could not have it both way.  I made the choice to love and care about people regardless of what people think of me.

Lies Do not WORK, Truth Does. Here's why

Lies do not work, truth does. Is that so hard to understand!  

People lie for one reason and that reason is fear.  If you live in love instead of living in fear you will never feel motivated to lie.  

The consequences of lies are HUGE and Karma, sooner or later STICKS it to people who lie. And the bigger the lies, the harder Karma kicks people in the ass for the lies they have told. 

Everyone who lies is ultimately destroyed by the lies they tell and everyone who tells the truth is saved by the truth they tell.  

Granted the truth is not always pretty, sometimes it can be downright ugly but telling the truth ALWAYS works whereas lies may work for a short period of time but in the end they will bring extensive shame and humiliation to the people who tell the lies.

Lies simply do not work, they never have.  

It is not about being a moral or good person and not lying. It is about not lying because lying does not work.  It is an irresponsible way to live one's life. And worse yet lying causes unwanted tension and stress and comprises a person's immune system. Studies show that liars get seriously ill more often than non-liars do.

None of us are perfect. 

We all have done things we are not proud of but pretending we didn't sucks the life right out of us. I don't know about you but my life is an open book. I did what I did, I said what I said. I am responsible for it all

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Men, Her Eyes Never Lie

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Your Truth (Not Someone else's) Will Set You FREE

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When something isn't working in people's lives, what most people do, out of pride, is deny that it isn't working. For example, no matter what you do, you cannot maintain a lasting, love relationship that works for you. Here is the problem, denying what is true for you keeps you living a lie and stops you from having what you want.  On the other hand, when you admit something isn't working that removes the lies from you life and sets you free to create what will be rather than repeating your past over and over again.

Lying to ourselves 'blinds us' to the things we're doing wrong that stop us from having what we want.

Q: How can I telling if I am lying to myself?

A: If you feel heavy, darker, somber or depressed, you are lying to yourself. If you are taking life too seriously, you are lying to yourself. If things aren't working out for you, If life is a struggle, if you feel powerless or ineffective in getting what you want out of life, you are lying to yourself.

Q:  How do I know when I am telling myself 'my truth'. 

A: When you are telling 'your truth' to yourself, you feel lighter and brighter. Telling 'your truth' to yourself makes you feel happier and more carefree.  Telling your truth to yourself makes you feel peaceful and content with yourself, happy to be ALIVE 

Here is the thing about your truth, it can be ugly as sin but if you are being honest with yourself, you will feel relieved, you will feel better about yourself.  It takes a lot of energy to deny our truth and when we come out of denial, we automatically feel lighter and brighter.


AN EXAMPLE - MY TRUTH

I was denying my fear that my free inspirational writings would never be good enough to cause people to donate money in support of them. That was my greatest fear and because I denied my 'negative' truth to myself, my fear had been, unwittingly, pushing people away from donating money to me in return for the value they receive from my writings.

In owning up to my truth that I did not know how to get people to support my writings with donations, I surrendered or gave up all thoughts and feeling that lived in opposition to what I wanted. In giving up the 'thoughts and feelings' I was denying, I made room for people to donate in support of my writings whenever they felt inspired to do so.

Another truth of mine that I denied was my anger. I was an angry person for years but didn't know it because I was in denial of it. The by-product of denying my anger was depression. Once I started telling myself, my ugly truth, about how angry I was and what I was angry about, my depression went POOF and I have felt lighter and brighter ever since.

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Excellent 'NEW THOUGHT' Article

Woke up this morning, took off my rose colored glasses and looked at the truth straight in the eye. 

I have allowed myself to conned by the positive thinking movement.  I allowed the positive thinking movement to 'trick me' into being 'untrue to myself,' and that turned me into a hypocrite. Let me explain.

When pain (emotional or physical) gets stronger or intensifies that is ALWAYS an Alert Signal that I am being a hypocrite about something. 

Here is what I learned about being a hypocrite. 

First off, being a hypocrite is not the worst thing in the world. It is only the worst thing when I don't know I am being a hypocrite because it is then I experience the most pain in your life. The short definition of the word hypocrite is a person who pretends. Anytime we think one thing but feel another and don't acknowledge this conflict, we are pretending with ourselves...  (*** See Note Below)

This is where people get themselves into trouble with the positive thinking movement. 

What you feel is always the 'truth' of your being, it is the 'current reality' of your inner world, the place inside your physical body where you experience all the pleasure and pain in your life


Any time you repeat positive thoughts over the top of your immediate truth (what you feel) it can cause you to deny or conceal what you truly feel.  This denial of what you truly feel can, over time, cause you so much pain that eventually you will have to have it surgically removed. Why?  Because your pain manifested itself into your physical body as a physical condition requiring surgery. That's the bad news..

The good news is, if you give up positive thinking in favor of living life by your truth (what you feel), life will become MIRACULOUS for you.   For example, when you feel pain of any kind (emotional or physical),  if you OBSERVE, WITNESS or WATCH IT, it will go POOF.  And in the process, greater truths will spontaneously enter your mind, out of thin air, that will make 'positive thinking' look like thinking for kindergarteners....

*** NOTE: Thinking one thing and feeling the opposite of what we think creates pain (emotional 
or physical) in the body if we don't resolve the difference between what we are thinking and feeling..)

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SOMETHING YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR BELOVED TEACHERS. 

Rhonda Byrnes, The Secret, Esther Hicks, Abraham- Hicks, Wayne Dyer, Joe Vitale, 
Louise Hays, Marianne Williamson, (__________) fill in the name of your guru.


Everything your teacher shares with you won't necessarily work for you..... if it is not your truth too. In others words, if you don't truly feel their words. If their words cause you conflict (mental or emotional) of any kind, that is an alert signal that their words are not your truth.   

WARNING: Trying to make your teacher's words your truth when they are not your truth will cause you a lot of unnecessary conflict and pain.  

Your teachers are successful at what they do because they rarely, if ever, LIE to themselves or pretend with themselves about anything.  There thoughts and feelings live in harmony with one another and that is what has attracted to them the success they have. 

Bullet Proof Your ATTITUDE + Embracing Pain ENDS pain

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Observation: THE NEW THINKING..... 

Excerpted from Solving Problems and Creating Things the NEW WAY

The process of  observing, witnessing, watching, looking is where all problems are easily solved, even the most difficult ones.  It is also where all new things are created because the moment you begin using the 'Observation/Looking' process, inspired thoughts, out of thin air, spontaneously, begin showing up in your mind that allow you to create new things and easily solve problems that have been troubling you for quite some time. It doesn't matter whether it is a money, love, relationship or a health problem, the 'observation/looking' process will allow you to solve those problems faster and easier than any other way you can possibly solve your problems  This process of  'observation/looking' is so simple that some people have called this process too good to be true.  However, it is true... (To read complete article, Click Here)
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The 'In Your Face' Blog..... (Different kind of Self-Help Blog)

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This is not your ordinary blog,  it is an extraordinary blog, it is an 'in your face' blog, it is telling you the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth about everything and everybody.  WHY? 

Because the truth makes you feel lighter, brighter and carefree while lying makes you feel darker, somber and depressed.  That's how you can tell the difference between truth and lies.  

Truth lifts you up, lies put you down...
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Everyone LIES. Even the President, Get over it...

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A lie is a lie is a lie is a lie........ 

A fib is a lie
A white lie is a lie
An embellishment is a lie
An exaggeration  is a lie
A rationalization  is a lie.
A justification is a lie.
A fabrication is a lie.


MISINFORMATION IS A POLITE WORD FOR A LIE

The truth believed is a LIE... You can only experience the TRUTH  

People lie, often times, unwittingly but that doesn't make them a LIAR. 

As an example: If you repeat to me a bit of information and I take it as the truth and repeat it and later on it turns out that what you told me was a lie, then because of your misinformation, I lied too even though at the time I thought I was telling the truth.

If you want to know if a person is a liar or not, watch what they say and do.  If there is a discrepancy between what they say and do, they are lying.   Your job is to figure out whether the lie 'lives' is in what they say or what they do.
 

LIES HAPPEN FOR MANY REASONS.

Lies happen because people are afraid to tell the truth.
People lie out of fear of punishment for making a mistake.
Lies happen because people are misinformed.
People lie to cover up wrong doing. 
People lie to deceive and take advantage of people.

ARE ALL LIES BAD?

If all lies are bad, then fish stories are very bad. In my book, the only lies that are bad are lies that hurt people or cause people to experience a loss of some sort.  Comedians lie (exaggerate) all the time to entertain, is that bad? Fiction is a book full of lies because the story is all made up in the author's head. 
 
WHAT PEOPLE SAY IS NOT IMPORTANT,
WHAT PEOPLE DO IS IMPORTANT...

If someone says they love you....but by their actions they disrespect and abuse you.  You can clearly see the LIE lives in what they said...

Words will deceive you, fool you, actions never will...

Make people accountable for their actions, not their words.



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The Truth 'believed' is a LIE....(Most important thing you'll ever learn)

Unless you experience something personally, first hand, you do not know whether it is the truth or not. What you know is someone's opinion of the truth, that may or may not be true..
 
The truth believed is a lie, you can only experience the truth. 

A belief is like the menu, the truth is like the meal. One is the real deal and the other is not. Here is an example.   

Newspaper Headlines around the world, in 2006, proclaimed:

TWELVE TRAPPED MINERS IN WEST VIRGINIA FOUND ALIVE

For those who believed the headline, they discovered later on that it was a lie because, in fact, the twelve miners were found dead.

People get fooled by the words of others every day... They believe the truth rather than experience the truth.

He says he loves you and you believe him and he treats you abusively. An another example of the truth believed is a lie.

The boss promises you a raise or promotion but never delivers and because you believed him, you are disappointed.

The people in the time of Christopher Columbus believed the truth, that the world was flat. Christopher Columbus proved that truth was a lie.
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The truth believed is a lie, you can only experience the truth.  Here is one such example of people dying from cancer because they believed a lie. For years, the government has preached to us about using  SUNSCREEN to prevent skin cancer. Today this story was released: - - Frederick Zappone

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WASHINGTON (May 24) -- Almost half of the 500 most popular sunscreen products may actually increase the speed at which malignant cells develop and spread skin cancer because they contain vitamin A or its derivatives, according to an evaluation of those products released today.

AOL News also has learned through documents and interviews that the Food and Drug Administration has known of the potential danger for as long as a decade without alerting the public, which the FDA denies.

The study was released with Memorial Day weekend approaching. Store shelves throughout the country are already crammed with tubes, jars, bottles and spray cans of sunscreen.

The white goop, creams and ointments might prevent sunburn. But don't count on them to keep the ultraviolet light from destroying your skin cells and causing tumors and lesions, according to researchers at Environmental Working Group.

In their annual report to consumers on sunscreen, they say that only 39 of the 500 products they examined were considered safe and effective to use.


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Most of the disappointments in life are a result of believing something someone told you as the truth.

They say: I'll love you forever 
They divorce you 10 years later.

They say: I'll call you next week.
They never do.

They say: I'll hire you next month. 
They never do give you the job.

They say: I'll meet you for lunch at 12 Noon
They never show up.

If people do what they say they will do, they spoke the truth to you. However, if you they don't do what they said, they LIED to you.

If you never want to be disappointed by people pay more attention to what they do rather than what they say.... Actions never LIE....

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If people can get you to 'react' to what they say, for better or worse, they own your soul. That's why in political campaigns, candidates attack their opponents on issues you feel most strongly about.  If they can create the emotional feeling of hate or dislike in you for their opponent, they will get your vote. 

It is my experience, backed up by scientific research. that people make all their decisions first emotionally, then they use their logic to justify your emotional decision.  Politicians knows this piece of information better than most people and use it to their advantage. Advertisers do the same thing.

The more you 'react' to situations, problems and issues, the further away you are removed from discovering what is really true and the further away you are from solving a problem that troubles you.

Love Really DOES Solve All

Kill the Critic in your head...

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There is nothing more damaging to your life and nothing that will damn your life more than allowing the 'critic in your head' to live.  Everyone has a critical voice that lives in their head.  Listening to it is one thing but believing what it is saying about you is what keeps you small and stop you from being yourself.   The critic in your head, if you believe what it says about you, can control your moods, your behavior and be the one thing that stops you from achieving the happiness and success you richly deserve. Kill the critic in your head. You do that by believing the very best about yourself and ignoring any thought your critic says about you that makes you feel less than the magnificent, powerful person that you truly are.  Related Reading: Success Comes EASY when you are Being Yourself.

Tell me how you 'REALLY' Feel. (Short Article)

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Often times people find themselves in situations where they are not telling people the way they really think and the way they really feel. 

There excuse is, 'I can't tell that person 'this or that,' I'll hurt their feelings.'  That's a LIE because you cannot hurt another person's feelings, only your own.
 

When you say you are afraid of hurting another person's feelings what you're really saying is this: 

'if I tell that person what I really think and feel, they will tell 

me what they really think and feel and my feelings will get hurt.' 

Don't use your fear of your feelings getting hurt stop you from telling your truth to others. Your truth is important because your truth is the only thing that will set you free from whatever is troubling you or pissing you off in a relationship, nothing else will set you free, only your truth.

A CAUTION ABOUT TRUTH TELLING

When you start telling your truth, you have an obligation to the other person to continue to tell your truth until the issue is resolved or the problem is solved. There is always a kind and gentle way to tell your truth to another person no matter how ugly and brutal your truth may be... The truth is not always pretty, sometimes it can be down right ugly but the fact is telling your truth to others always works....

It take courage to tell your truth, however, if you don't, you will become imprisoned by your own thoughts and feelings. And once you become imprisoned by your own thoughts and feelings, you will be forced to medicate and sedate your feelings and go for counseling just so you can survive. 

The alternative to pills and therapy is telling your truth courageously.  I did and  because I did, I got my life back and reclaimed all of my personal power that other people took away from me during my growing up years.  To read my story, click here

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The Truth Believed is a LIE - One Example

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The truth believed is a lie, you can only experience the truth.  Here is one such example of people dying from  cancer because they believed a lie. For years, the government has preached to us about using  SUNSCREEN to prevent skin cancer. Today this story was released: -- Frederick Zappone

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WASHINGTON (May 24) -- Almost half of the 500 most popular sunscreen products may actually increase the speed at which malignant cells develop and spread skin cancer because they contain vitamin A or its derivatives, according to an evaluation of those products released today.

AOL News also has learned through documents and interviews that the Food and Drug Administration has known of the potential danger for as long as a decade without alerting the public, which the FDA denies.

The study was released with Memorial Day weekend approaching. Store shelves throughout the country are already crammed with tubes, jars, bottles and spray cans of sunscreen.

The white goop, creams and ointments might prevent sunburn. But don't count on them to keep the ultraviolet light from destroying your skin cells and causing tumors and lesions, according to researchers at Environmental Working Group.

In their annual report to consumers on sunscreen, they say that only 39 of the 500 products they examined were considered safe and effective to use.

ALTERNATIVE: This is not the first time we have been told something is good for us only later on to be told that it is bad for us. This is a perfect example of the truth believed is a LIE.  In lieu of authority figures who don't know what is good or bad for you, trust your own instincts, your intuition and your connection to the 'organizing intelligence of the universe' and you will live a longer, healthier and happier life.  Don't believe what I say, trust yourself.  In the final analysis, if you can't trust yourself and your personal connection to the God of your understanding, who can you trust?

To read the full SUNSCREEN story click here

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