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Sunday

Allowing Negative Feelings to Harmlessly Pass you By


Q: Do you ever have negative feelings?

A. Yes, only momentarily. I have become quite skilled at allowing negative feelings to harmlessly pass me by like clouds in the sky. This took practice but it was worth it.  I taught myself how to do it because I couldn't find any books that showed me how to do what I know how to do today.

Q: Will you teach me?

A: Everything I know about allowing feelings to harmlessly pass me by like clouds in the sky I have included in my 21 Day Self-Love Journey.  You can read about it here http://j.mp/1DnIQCf



 


Wednesday

Sex, Prayers, BRENDA and the Catholic Church



I was born an Italian catholic. I did all the things a good catholic boy did. I went to church every Sunday, I went to confession once a month and I received communion at every mass I attended.  This worked well for me until my teenage years and my interest in girls first appeared.

Instead of going to confession monthly, I started going weekly because my hormones were in over-drive.


Girls, girls, girls, that's all that was ever on my mind. My problems began when I starting thinking about Brenda in ways that my church would not be pleased, not one little bit..

Was it my fault or Brenda's that she was 36 DD and that my mind thought 'thoughts' that I knew were going to send me straight to hell.

The temptation to reach out and touch Brenda got so bad that in order to prevent myself from doing something I would later regret, I would bite the soft flesh between my thumb and index finger, until it bled. I did this to stop my mind from focusing on what I didn't want until God answered my prayers to take all of my sexual impulses away from me.

I prayed and prayed every single day to God for a solid year..

He didn't answer me. I got  zero, zip, zilch from God

One Day, in agonizing frustration I YELLED at God.

'What the hell is wrong with you God? Why aren't you answering my prayer for help?." ...... I waited for an answer. All I heard was silence...

In the silence of that day, I left the Catholic Church with its cold, unfeeling God. I quickly discovered masturbation and lived happily ever after...

YEARS LATER, without thinking, I ask God a question once again....

This time a voice whispered to me

"God most often answers your prayers in the form of an inspired thought or a creative idea that will, at times, take your breath away, move you to tears or make you smile from ear to ear."

That was the day I realized God had answered my  prayer of years ago. by pushing me out of the church and into the world of conscious thought. 

I am grateful.....

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Apology to Women (Video)
Conscious men inspiring and empowering women

Wednesday

This is not Kid HUMOR, this is VIOLENCE against WOMEN


This morning I saw something on my Facebook timeline that wasn't funny at all. It is violence against women being passed on as KID humor (See pictures below). 

There is nothing funny about these pictures, it send the wrong message to young boys who will some day become men. If you see these pictures posted in your social media network, let the people who posted them know that violence, in general, and violence against women, in particular, is no laughing matter. Ending Violence Against WOMEN, Click here 





FYI: Due to a lack of interest, I removed 
my Gofundme Ending Violence campaign

Tuesday

Ending Violence on Women


I have a hard time looking at pictures of domestic abuse and I am sure you do to but the reason I post them is because this is one crime that happens behind close doors. 

This happens more often than we know because the abused person is embarrassed to let people know what happened. Domestic violence won't end until it quits being a secrecy crime.  If you are abused, run, don't walk for help. Never give an abuser a second chance to abuse you. 

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Monday

A Dog Feeding an ORPHANED Lamb


Nothing touches me more when I see tenderness, sweetness and compassion being expressed both  by human and animals. This video of a Springer spaniel feeding an orphaned lamb with a bottle touches me.
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Footage from "Secret Life of Dogs"