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Don't Stop Being You!

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When people are faced with rejection or disapproval, they take that as a signal to stop being themselves. They allow rejection and disapproval to make them feel less than the magnificent, powerful, lovable people they truly are...

When people reject or disapprove of you, they are not disapproving or rejecting you. They are rejecting something you said or did and they have the right to do that. Don't take it too personal. Their rejection of what you said or did is more of a statement about themselves than it is about you. And whatever you do, don't stop being you!

Rejection and disapproval are a part of life and those thing won't stop you from achieving what you want, out of life, if you have the right attitudes about rejection and disapproval.

Think about this for a moment; Arnold Schwarzenegger has experienced more rejection and disapproval than most people but that hasn't stopped him from achieving what he wants.

A simple example:

There is at least 150,000,000 people in the United States who go to the movies.

30,000,000 people make the choice to see one of Schwarzenegger's movies. 30,000,000 million people x $7.00 a ticket represents a $210,000,000 Blockbuster movie for Arnold.

On the other hand, Schwarzenegger movie was REJECTED by 120,000,000 people. Do you think he cares that 120,000,000 people rejected his movie. I think not.

Focus on the love and approval you receive and more love and approval will come your way. Focus on rejection and disapproval and more rejection and disapproval will come your way.

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Whatever we FOCUS our attention on, in life, EXPANDS and we end up having more of what "we do or don't want" depending on what we Focused our attention on. It is the law...

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