Your vision of who you want to be will pull you forth (out of your shell) into becoming the person you want to be.
I was never happy trying to meet other people's standards about what I should do and not do and how I should be and not be but today I am completely happy meeting my own standards of just being me.
I have two goals in life. The first goal is to do the ordinary things in life, extraordinarily well. My second second goal is to never disappoint myself.. I have made great progress in achieving both of my goals.