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hi frederick
ReplyDeletei keep trying to get my bf to change his way of thinking and he will for a while and then goes right back to the negative thinking again.
he sees how well it works for me and even for himself! but then goes right back to thinking everything sucks and he will never amount to anything or be able to make money, etc...
how can i get him to realize what he is doing to himself?
also i have been changing him in my story to myself as doing well, etc. being more positive, etc. (guess i'm messing up writing this! but you can tell i don't believe he is doing better anyway)
he is bi-polar and gets very depressed and i try and tell him it is because he is laying in bed thinking depressive thoughts...
sigh...
djh
Djh, in truth we can't change anyone's thinking except our own. The desire to change a person is an indication, that in our eyes, the person isn't okay. As a result,the person we want to change picks up on our vibes that he or she isn't okay and they get worse instead of better.
ReplyDeleteThe desire to change a person is also an indication that the person you want to change isn't the right person for you.
Frederick
Hey Zappone,I miss talking to you,where have you been??...Powerpink
ReplyDeleteI've been doing a lot of family stuff offline. How are you doing?
ReplyDeletegeez - i kinda knew that :(
ReplyDeletewell, i am doing it anyway ;) i'm changing my story to david is happy, successful, and healthy... let you know if it helps!!!
djh
Djh, changing your story about people changes people. People mirror our thoughts and based on the thoughts and vibes we put out to a person, that person then becomes a living, breathing, self-fulfilling prophecy for us.
ReplyDeleteSuppressing excitement will cause you to feel anxious and or depressed.
ReplyDeletehmmm yes i can see that this does work to a certain extent! he can pick up on my feeling about him... and he does thrive when my feeling about him is good... so i will persist :)
ReplyDeleteDid you find your connection with God?
ReplyDeleteMaggie
Yes I did find my reconnection to God. Thank you for asking Maggie.
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