Our doubts are traitors and that make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt. - William Shakespeare
There is only one thing you can do with your doubts and one thing only and that is to leave your doubts alone.
If you leave your doubts alone, they will leave you alone. If you mess with your doubts, they will mess you up real good.
You cannot win thinking about or having conversations with your doubts. Your doubts will win those conversations every single time without fail. Worse yet, having conversations with your doubts will cause them to grow stronger and have more power over you than they already do. In addition, focusing on your doubts will attract more doubts to you.
Leaving your doubts alone so they will leave you alone takes practice especially if you have been in the habit of thinking about and entertaining doubts in your mind..
Instead of putting any energy or attention into your doubts use them as ALERT SIGNALS to focus your attention on what you are sure of, what you have certainty about, what you have absolute confidence in. Focusing on those things will build your self-confidence while at the same time weaken the hold your doubts currently have over you..
Frederick Zappone,
Author of 7 Empowerment Books
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