Why I QUIT being a People PLEASER

I didn't realize I was an online people pleaser when I was on Facebook or twitter. It is only when I  changed the name of this blog and began sharing life's naked truth with my readers that I realized what an incredible dedicated online people pleader I was.  

I suddenly realized that every FB message or tweet I posted was to please people so they would LIKE what I posted.

When I realized I was a people pleaser I became very disgusted with myself. No one likes a people pleaser because they are only pleasing us because they want something from us. 

I can spot a people pleaser a mile away and I avoid those kind of people like the plague. They are needy, co-dependent people and no one likes to be around needy, co-dependent people.  For me to discover that I was one of those people I didn't want to be around was shocking to me.

Now that I have made my confession to you and have no desire to continue to be needy, co-dependent person, I make this promise to you.

From this time forward I will never post a blog entry to please you.  I will post it to please myself and if you happen to be pleased too, that's icing on my cake and if you are not pleased,  not my problem. 

At this point in my people pleasing days, I would try to sweet talk you into supporting my blog writings with a donation. I won't do that this time because trying to talk people into donating in support of my blog writing is a hopeless waste of my time. There will be some of you who find value in my blog writings and donate in support of my writings. You are the people who will benefit most from my blog.

If you have problems yourself being a people pleaser, posts your questions in the comment section and I will anwer them for you.

Frederick 


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Do you work to be liked or to be rich?

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If the work* you do, you do because you want to be liked, you will never become financially independent. Why? Because it is not how the law of attraction works.  

If the work you do, you do because you want people to like you, they will. Why? Because it was your 'intention' to be liked and the 'law of attraction' acted upon your intention and made it come true for you.  On the other hand, if your intention is to work to become rich, the law of attraction will act upon that intention and that is what will come true for you. 

Now here's a tricky part to this law of attraction equation. If you  believe people 'need' to like you in order for you to become financially successful, you will never achieve the financial success you want. Why is that, you ask?

Because, by your intention, you are  making other people responsible for your success by needing them to like you in order for you to succeed and no one wants the responsibility of another person's success placed on their shoulders. As a result, people may or may not like you but they will definitely not contribute to your financial success in numbers large enough to make it your reality.

* Work can be a job, a business of your own or a creative or artistic endeavor 

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