Feeling Bad for longer than a MOMENT is NOT Required

I would support people staying in a bad mood for as long as they wanted if it changed things for the better. The problem is, it doesn't.

Feeling bad can be as short or as long as you want it to be...  There are a few exceptions such as the death of a loved one or the loss of something you are very attached too. In those cases before you can have control over how long you feel bad, you have to grieve out your losses. Grief has it owns timetable, it comes and go as it pleases.

Putting those exceptions aside, feeling bad for longer than a moment is not required UNLESS you enjoy feeling bad. 

Since I don't like feeling bad for longer than a moment or two, I use feeling bad as an ALERT SIGNAL to shift my attention to what makes me feel good.  Taking action will move me out a bad mood faster than anything. In fact, action change thoughts faster than thinking does.

Taking action and focusing on the things you do like and do want will put you in a good mood and keep you in that mood. On the other hand, focusing on things you don't want, like a bad mood, can keep you stuck in a bad mood for hours, days, weeks, even months.

CHANGING FOCUS CHANGES ATTITUDE

This Reminder is For My Law of Attraction Friends

For those of us who are into the law of attraction we need to remind ourselves that if it feels bad don't continue doing it or continue to think about it. Why?  Because taking action or thinking thoughts that make us feel bad is nothing more than an unwanted mental habit of thought that is attracting to us more of what we don't want,

Now I that have reminded you to continue to work on breaking the mental habit of feeling bad, it is TIME to get on with your most important business and that is feeling good, no matter what.

To remind you to feel good, get a copy of my Self-Love Reminders

Are you caught up in the 'DO MORE' Trap?

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The most horrific, insidious, cancerous, feel bad mental TRAP of them all is the FALSE BELIEF you have to 'do more' to get what you want......   That belief will cause you more pain than you can handle.   I personally know people after 30 years of 'doing more' to make their dream come true are no closer today to making their dream come true than they were when they first started..  WHY....

DOING MORE isn't what gets you want you want.

Doing what FEELS GOOD does.......

Doing more, of anything, when it feels bad, pushes away from you what you want.  

Doing more not only pushes what you want away from you, it keeps what you want at a distance from you, always just outside your reach. 

Worry, fear and doubt is what 'fuels' people to do more when 'doing more' coming from feeling poorly is not required at all. The more you are motivated by worry, fear, or doubt to achieve what you want, the less chance you have of achieving what you want. If you no longer want to get caught up in the DO MORE Trap. I will e-mail you my publication titled: Bullet Proof  Your Attitude. My publication will neutralize any power the 'do more' belief  has over you. In addition, the information in my publication will stop you from doing things that sabotage your best efforts and prevent you from making your dreams come true.

TABLE OF CONTENTS 

1. The REALITY of Feeling Good, No Matter What
2. Your Power Lives in the Moment 
3. Understanding Brings Healing. 
      (Understanding What causes you to feel bad makes you feel good)

4. Whatever you make the Enemy, Has Power Over You
5. Feelings: Your Inner Guidance System
6. The Power To Make What Goes Wrong In Your Life, Turn Out Right
7. Why Being 'Against Anything' Destroy The Bullet Proof Attitude
     (And why being 'for things' strengthens your bullet proof attitude) 
 
8. The Elimination of All Fear Based Thoughts
9. Instant Insights – 'Life is Good' One Liners
10. How to Bullet Proof Your Feelings
11. Neutralizing Your #1 Power Robber
12. Suffering and Pain are Optional and Not Required
13. Letting Go In Order To Have What You Want 
14. Red Light – Green Light Feelings
15. The Truth Shall Set you Free But First It will Piss You Off 
16. Healing the ‘Feel Bad’ Nerves In Your Brain 
17. You Create It All 
18. Releasing Thoughts that Imprison You

 

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I Hate My FEELINGS (Noteworthy Commentary)

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I hate how I feel...
I don't like feeling this way.. 
I wished I didn't FEEL the way I do.

If I haven't heard the lines, written above, uttered by someone I care about once in my lifetime, I have heard them ten thousand times.  More than anything people deal with in life, it seems their feelings are the most troublesome. They are so troublesome that people spend billions each year on therapy, pills, illegal drugs, booze and other substances to control, medicate, subdue, numb or sedate their feelings...

For God's sake and your own quit resisting what you feel and feel what you feel. For crying out loud, they are just feelings.  YES, I know they are your feelings but nevertheless they are just feelings and when you focus on thoughts that make you feel good, you will feel good instead of feeling bad. 

A SIMPLE FACT....

You cannot feel good by focusing on anything that makes you feel bad whether it be a thought, an emotion, a person or a situation. You also can't feel good when you falsely believe your are flawed and defective in some way.  And you can't feel good when you think you have this 'mental health problem' or that one.   And you can't feel good when you are unconsciously committed to feeling the worst about yourself. Please understand, I don't want to save people from themselves. I don't want to convince people of anything. I just wished so many of the really kind, decent, caring folks I know would quit focusing on what's wrong with them and start focusing on what's right about them.

IF YOU HAVE MADE NEGATIVE FEELINGS YOUR ENEMY, THEN NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO, THEY WILL DEFEAT AND DESTROY YOU AT EVERY TURN

The biggest problem people have with the way they feel is they resist the way they feel.  It is not what you feel that is the problem, it is your resistance to what you feel that is the problem because whatever you resist persists and grows stronger, gaining strength and power over you.  

The feelings you resist not only grow stronger,  they drain you of energy, rob you of your happiness and turn you into a neurotic babbling idiot.... 

The quickest way through any feeling you do not like is to FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL.   Thinking about why you feel bad only makes you feel worse. Analyzing why you feel bad only makes the bad feeling deteriorate into a worse feeling because it is a simple fact that what whatever feeling you focus your attention on, you attract more of the same... On the other hand, if you are already into feeling bad and can't seem to find your way out of feeling bad, again the quickest way out of feeling bad is to FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL while at the same time moving forward with your life.  In others words, 'I feel bad now, I don't like that I feel bad now, I can't change that I feel bad now so I will focus on what I really want to do'....and in the process of you doing what you really want to do,  your bad feelings turn into good ones, naturally 

Are you a law of attraction believer?   If you are, be careful with your feelings. You see, many people know that in order to attract what they want, they have got to feel good.  Here's the problem, their is no way of knowing how good you have to feel before you will attract what you want. As a result, people try to force themselves to feel higher level of good feelings. The trouble is, the moment you begin forcing yourself to feel what you don't feel, the negative feelings you presently feel get stronger and begin to consume your whole personality.  You don't get to feel good by forcing yourself to feel good, you get to feel good by FEELING WHAT YOU FEEL.....and ALLOWING the good feelings you want to flow into your life effortlessly.  Any effort or struggle you tie to feeling good, in the end, always, always makes you feel worse....

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The BULLETPROOF Attitude BOOK

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BULLET PROOF YOUR ATTITUDE

Copyrighted 2012 By Frederick Zappone

TABLE OF CONTENTS 

1. The REALITY of Feeling Good, No Matter What
2. Your Power Lives in the Moment 
3. Understand ‘ Feeling Bad,’ To Feel Good, no Matter What
4. Whatever you make the Enemy, Has Power Over You
5. Feelings: Your Inner Guidance System
6. The Power To Make What Goes Wrong In Your Life, Turn Out Right
7. Why Being 'Against Anything' Destroy The Bullet Proof Attitude
8. The Elimination of All Fear Based Thoughts
9. Instant Insights – 'Life is Good' One Liners
10. How to Bullet Proof Your Feelings
11. Neutralizing Your #1 Power Robber
12. Suffering and Pain are Optional and Not Required
13. Letting Go In Order To Have What You Want 
14. Red Light – Green Light Feelings
15. The Truth Shall Set you Free But First It will Piss You Off 
16. Healing the ‘Feel Bad’ Nerves In Your Brain 
17. You Create It All 
18. Releasing Thoughts that Imprison You

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Your Passion will Save Your BUTT! -  Your are POWERFUL enough to make NOTHING happen. -  When I've Screwed Up, Forgiveness saved my ASS -  Nothing releases STRESS from my body faster than Forgiveness -  Let's Talk About PLAY (For People Taking Life Too Seriously.)  -  Killing myself for Success. Stupidest Thing I ever did. -  Turning it over to the Genie in your Mind - Coolest way to quit 'resisting' your GOOD The 'Do Nothing' Approach To Problem Solving -  The Secret of Removing the Pain from Painful Thoughts -  I'm responsible for everything that happens to me,... IMAGINE THIS: (How to imagine the very best for yourself


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The 'Feeling' Promises

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Your thoughts produces feelings.  Feeling bad promises you that you will feel worse. Feeling good promises you that you will feel better. Feeling bad promises you that you will attract bad things to yourself. Feeling good promises you that you will attract good things to yourself. It is how the law of attraction works.
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Life

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Life doesn't begin working the way people want it to work until 'feeling 
good' become more important to them than feeling bad, no matter what.

Strange But True

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Feeling bad, for some people, feels safe to them while feeling good is a threat to them. Why is this so? Because they 'believe' if  they feel bad they can't be hurt, however, if  they feel good, they can.  It is easier for some people to feel bad all the time than risk feeling good and take the chance of being hurt again. Strange but true.

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Alert Signal

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All feeling bad is good for is to make sure you feel worse. Use feeling bad as an 
ALERT signal to focus on what brings a smile to your face and makes your heart soar.

Attract

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I have never attracted good to myself by feeling bad. Conversely, I have never attracted bad to myself by feeling good. Your feelings determine what you attract to yourself.  Feelings are triggered, turned on, activated by the thoughts your thinking about in any given moment of time, it is how the law of attraction works.
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