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Showing posts with label emotions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emotions. Show all posts

Monday

I'm ANGRY at you, Yes YOU.. I've good reason to be

If you are reading this, chances are you have read a lot of things I have posted otherwise I am pretty sure you wouldn't be here now.. 

Why am I angry?

I'm angry at you for not reading my Love Is All  I Know book.

You say anger is not loving?  

I say you don't know squat about love...

I'll tell you what's not loving.    

Pretending you are not angry when you are. That's not loving, that's dishonesty. What's not loving is suppressing your angry rather than expressing in an honest and authentic way. Suppressing your anger does damage to your body, what's loving about that?

You can express anger without chewing someone's head off.  

Anger expressed violently is ANGER THAT HAS BEEN SUPPRESSED FOR WAY TOO LONG A PERIOD OF TIME

Love requires honesty and full expression of all of your feelings, including angry.  Anger expressed with compassion inspires and empowers everyone.. Anger in its simplest form is energy trapped inside your body looking for way to express itself creatively..

Now that I have expressed myself in regards to why I am angry at you, give yourself a chance to bring more love into your life by reading my highly acclaimed book titled: Love Is All I Know 

Sunday

🔥🔥 The EASY way to Neutralize Your Negative Feelings

Good feelings are not a problem for anyone but bad feelings are. 

Being addicted to food, drugs, or booze is driven by our desire to get away from our bad feelings.  Without 'bad feelings' controlling our personality, addictive behavior of any kind would cease to exist. 

Knowledge We Weren't Given In SCHOOL

What they didn't teach us in school about bad feelings is that focusing on them, thinking about them, having conversations about them not only makes them persist but causes them to grow stronger until they take on a life of there own and begin operating outside our conscious control.  

Neutralizing BAD Feelings

The only way to neutralize the power bad feelings have over us is to switch our attention from the 'thinking mind' to the physical heart, the seat of all of our good emotions. 

All that is required to accomplish this is to put your conscious attention on your heart area by putting your hand over your heart while thinking of someone or something you appreciate or are grateful for.  

As an alternative, you can gently tap your heart area with your finger tips, while thinking of someone or something you are grateful for, until you feel the good emotions of your heart starting to flow. 

As you think of someone or something you appreciate, breath in slowly and deeply five times. This helps to relax the body making it easier to feel the good emotions flowing from your heart area. 

Within minutes of placing your hand over your heart, you will notice a calming effect washing over your entire body.  That is because, in addition to the heart being the organ that pumps blood to all parts of the body, the heart has an intelligence of its own.  

This 'intelligence'  sends commands to our thinking mind to feel good once we focus our attention on our heart area. As a reference to this way of thinking, the Heartmath Institute (https://amzn.to/2XWVIgz) has scientifically proven that our heart actually think.

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Excerpted from my forthcoming Book:
FUN, PLAY, LIVING LIFE MY WAY
(If it ain't Easy, it ain't working for me)
Copyright 2019 By Frederick Zappone
Previously published books can be previewed here
https://www.amazon.com/Frederick-Zappone/e/B00BMJR998/  


Trust your GOOD FEELINGS 100% of the time.

Trusting my 'good feelings' 100% of the time takes practice. If something doesn't feel good to me, I don't do it no matter how many people tell me it's good for me.  Other people don't live in my shoes or in my head 24/7, they don't know what I am dealing with therefore only I have the right to decide what I should and should not do.  In truth, I do whatever I want to do when I want to do it as long as it doesn't harm another in any way. 

I do not allow people to manipulate me or hold me emotional hostage by attempting to make me feel bad. If people want to have a 'grown up' relationship with me they have to be willing to be 100% responsible for their own thoughts, feeling and actions because I won't be...  

The fact is, I can't be, I can only be 100% responsible for my own thoughts, feelings and actions. Being 100% responsible for my own thoughts, feeling and actions is a full-time job and if anyone thinks I should also be responsible for their thoughts, feelings or actions they don't know anything about personal responsibility.

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Excerpted from my forthcoming Book:
FUN, PLAY, LIVING LIFE MY WAY
(If it ain't Easy, it ain't working for me)
Copyright 2019 By Frederick Zappone
Previously published books can be previewed here
https://www.amazon.com/Frederick-Zappone/e/B00BMJR998/  

Saturday

Do you ever get STUCK feeling bad? - The Solution.


Some people have NO CHOICE but To Feel BAD.

The reason some people have no choice but to feel bad is because they lost their power to choose how they feel. Some event happened in their life that made them feel like they had no choice in regards to experiencing unwanted or undesirable feelings. 

Once a person loses their ability to choose how they feel, they will always get stuck feeling badly no matter how desperately they want to feel good. They will feel that way until they are able consciously reclaim their power to, once again, choose how they feel.

Got questions about how to consciously reclaim your ability to choose what you feel? Post them in comments and I'll answer them for you.

Frederick Zappone

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Monday

Unwanted Emotions: For God's Sake Just Let them GO

Trying to understand why you are feeling an unwanted emotion will make it persist.  Just let it go, take your focus off it UNLESS you like focusing on an unwanted emotion that makes you uncomfortable or suffer in some way.  Feeling an unwanted emotion is an ALERT SIGNAL to shift your focus to thoughts and actions that make you feel good to be you.  To the best of my knowledge nothing good comes out thinking about or trying to analysis an unwanted emotion. All that does is makes it stronger until you become addicted to it and can't live without it.

 

Emotions are neither Good or Bad, They are ENERGY

To judge our emotions as negative or positive is to do ourselves a huge disservice. All emotions are vibrations, they are energy. Our job is to figure out how to make them work for rather than against us. For example, anger fuels my success. It is a powerful emotion and when I allow myself to feel it without judging it in any way I find myself energized and motivated to accomplish great things.

In my experience (and in the experience of many people I have worked with) depression is a result of us trying to suppress our anger rather than express it in creative and healthy ways.  Being afraid of or judging any of our emotions in a negative way stops us from fully being ourselves.

We feel what we feel for a reason and the reason is always good. Emotions are here to guide us to what we want and protect us from what we don't want. Every one of our emotions are our friends if we take the time to understand them rather than making ourselves wrong for having them or actively work on pushing them away from ourselves.

The first step to making any emotion (or feeling) you judge as negative, in any way, your friend is to embrace it

If you have questions about making an emotion you judge in a negative way work for rather than against you, post your question in the comment section of this blog entry and I will answer it for you.

Frederick



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Saturday

When ANGER works and When it Doesn't

Anger gets you what you want when you have something that another person cannot live without. 

For example, getting angry as a boss will get you what you want as long as the person needs the money you are paying him. 

Anger works if people think they can't live without whatever you are offering them such as love or a roof over their head. However if you have nothing people need from you, anger won't work for you.  

Anger alerts you when your sense of justice has been violated but it won't get you justice unless you handle your 'anger reaction' privately and respond appropriately to the injustice done to you.

Anger in its simplest form is 'trapped emotional energy' imploding within you rather than being creatively expressed outside of you.

Anger is a good thing when used to keep your life on track or to help you survive being attacked by someone. Anger in and of itself to solve problems rarely works. In most cases, uncontrolled anger in you will call forth uncontrolled anger in another person that will escalate until physical damage is done to one or both of you.

Anger is a very high form of 'human energy' and used appropriately can allow you to become a very powerful person in your world. Uncontrolled anger, on the other hand, can result in the total and complete destruction and collapse of your life. How you use your anger is up to you.





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Thursday

Self-Love Thought Mastery

Would you deliberately think negative thoughts? Of course not! So why do you think thoughts that cause you to feel worried, fearful, anxious, upset, depressed, guilty, shamed or angry? The answer is, you don't.
 
Negative thoughts are not your fault. They are the fault of negative thoughts living in your subconscious mind that operate on automatic pilot outside your immediately conscious control. If they didn't operate on automatic pilot they'd be easy for you to control but they are not.

This automatic playing of 'negative thoughts' on the part of your subconscious mind causes you to feel like the victim of your thoughts rather than the master of them.

Many of you have had negative thoughts running around inside your mind for so long you have accepted them as normal.  The problem is those thoughts are not normal at all, they are abnormal. Those thoughts cause you to feel less than the magnificent person you truly are.

To have control over your thoughts requires reprogramming your subconscious mind with thoughts that inspire and empower you. If you don't reprogram your subconscious, it will continue playing, on automatic pilot, thoughts that discourage, hurt and defeat you.

In my Self-Love 'Thought Mastery' program I teach people a simple yet highly effective method to eliminate negative thoughts living in the subconscious mind. My insights about how your subconscious mind works will make it easy for you to re-program your subconscious.  

Re-programming  your subconscious will allow you to automatically think thoughts that inspire and empower you rather than continuing to think thoughts that cause you to feel less than the magnificent, powerful, lovable to the core person you truly are.

Additionally, in my program I also share with you the easiest ways to love yourself more and criticize yourself less. The inspiration to create this program came from seeing the changes in my own life as a result of successfully reprogramming my own subconscious mind.

As a result of reprogramming my subconscious with thoughts that inspired me, my health and finances, along with my relationship with others, improved dramatically. This happened faster than I imagined possible. It is AMAZING how good life is once we rid our subconscious mind of the negative thoughts that sabotaged us in the past.

Reprogramming your subconscious is easier than you think 

See testimonials for my program at the bottom of the page.

-- Frederick Zappone



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 Self Love Thought Mastery Testimonials


• Frederick this new paradigm of self-love that you are teaching is truly revolutionary. I'm glad I've embarked on your Self-Love program. It is exactly what I have been looking for to wake me up to the habits that no longer serve me so that I can install self-loving thoughts and behaviors. - McKinley Williams, Los Angeles

• Mr. Zappone your Self-Love program has opened me up and improved EVERY area of my life. My self-awareness, confidence, energy and motivation has grown by leaps and bounds. And my sense of well being has increased too. I highly recommend your program. I only wish I had done this sooner. Tina Moore, UT

• As a result of doing the things you suggested in your self-love program, I noticed that the other things I wanted to achieve, besides loving myself more, started to manifest by themselves, as if by magic. Who would of thought that self love could make miracles happen but it does. Thank you. - Maria B. Australia

• I only bought your program a week ago and already I am noticing changes. I had frequent heart palpitations due to anxiety, which have disappeared. My cravings for sweets, which made it nearly impossible to lose weight and are now non-existent. I still have a lot of work to do, but I can't wait to see what happens in the future. - Michael D., VA

• I have been on the spiritual path from age 14, read hundreds of books on positive thinking, so I know your insights are the truth. I look forward to learning more from your program. - Marie J. Beaumont The Lemonade Diet

• Thank you for all your wisdom, Frederick. I look forward to more of your insights..---brilliant messages full of fantastic thoughts. - Abby C. NYC

• Thank you for your self love thought program. There were times when I wasn't sure about it, but looking back now I see that you have launched me onto the path that I needed to take. I have had a number of important insights and I am now moving in the direction I needed to go. I feel confident that I will reap the benefits I was hoping for. - Thank you Frederick. Geneviève, Alabama

• Thank you Frederick for your program. It has been more helpful than years of going on and on to people about my problems and more helpful than talking with various professionals. I think that it's not only your perspective but it's your delivery. . Thank you sincerely for your program. - Lily W. Montana

• I was unemployed when I signed up for Frederick's Self-Love Mastery Program. After I failed to get a job I interviewed for, I wrote Frederick. He assured me that this rejection was simply a re-direction to something better for me. He also provided me with simple and clear instructions on how to raise my consciousness and vibration. Shortly thereafter, I was offered a job with pay significantly higher than my requested salary. I believe that the dramatic improvement in my employment situation was due in large part to Frederick's clear writings and personal support which helped me to tap into the transforming power of self-love. - Bill K., New Jersey




Tuesday

He called me an Emotional CRIPPLE

The VP of a company I worked for, years ago, called me an emotional cripple. This was in response to me asking him to give me the same raise he gave a co-worker of mine who sales results were half of mine.

When I asked him why he wouldn't give me a raise, he spun around on his heels and with as much hatred as I have ever seen in a person's eyes, he said to me: 


'Because Zappone, you are an EMOTIONAL CRIPPLE'

People called me emotional. all of my life, but no one ever called me an 'emotional cripple' before. His words stung me deeply and I had to do everything within my power not to break down crying in front of him. I left his office feeling ashamed, humiliated, devastated, hopeless and defeated.

All of my life I was made wrong for feeling my emotions strongly and intensely. I was pushed into therapy and taking pills as a way of dealing with my 'sensitive emotions' but that only made me feel worse. It wasn't until I was called an 'emotional cripple' that I made up my mind 'then and there' that I would become the master of my emotions rather than continuing to be a victim of them.

Today, I am the master of what I feel. I still feel deeply everything that happens in the world around me but I now have the ability to INSTANTLY neutralize any feelings that make me feel less than the magnificent, powerful, lovable to the core person that I know I am.

How I accomplished this task was simple, I learn to love my negative feelings to death rather than resist them or fear them. Embracing my negative feelings gave me power over them rather than them having power over me.

Everything I know about 'loving negative feelings to death' I put into my self-love mastery program. For those of you who are interested in knowing everything I know about loving our emotions to death, you can find that information on my web page. - lovesolvesall.com




Thursday

Creating the FEELINGS you want to Feel.

You can feel the way you want to feel by consciously focusing on any particular thought you wish to feel. For example if you want to feel healthy (wealthy, loved, happy) you have to focus on that thought.

All thoughts have consequences and the first place we feel the consequences of our thoughts is in our body. Focusing on a thought energizes it and makes it come alive and that's when we feel it. 


We do not need anything outside ourselves to feel the good feelings we want to feel.  Believing we need something outside ourselves to feel the good feelings that we want to feel makes us a victim of our feelings rather than the author and creator of them.


Wednesday

The TRAP of Feeling Trapped.

Just because you feel trapped does not mean you are trapped.  It is only a feeling that will change when you change your thoughts.

The trapped feeling is so hypnotizing, so mesmerizing, so strong, so powerful that is freezes your thinking. It causes you to operate your life on automatic pilot without any conscious thought on your part that would set you free from the trapped feeling. 

While you may feel trapped it is only a feeling that stays in place because you 'believe' you are trapped.  

No matter what you feel you always have options but if you are stuck feeling trapped you will be unable to 'experience the feeling' that you have options that goes along with the thought that you have options.

Feelings are to humans what gasoline is to cars. It is the fuel that makes us take action. Good feelings produce good actions that produce good results. Bad feelings produce bad actions that produce bad results. Trapped feelings produce no actions which produce no results.

To be coached by me in breaking free from your trapped feeling click here and send me a message.

Sunday

Unexpressed SELF-EXPRESSION Causes Emotional Pain

By the time we become adults  most of us (except for Trump) have an editor in our heads that tells us what we can and cannot publicly express. The things we have no permission to express run our lives, in a negative way, and cause us unnecessary physical and emotional pain.  

What is it you think that you do not fully express that causes you worry, upset, anxiety, agitation, anger or fear ? What is eating at you? What is under your skin that you are afraid to express for fear of criticism or being punished in some way.

Express it here, your are safe. 

In the comment section ANONYMOUSLY fully express yourself until you feel a bit better, a little lighter and brighter. 😊


Saturday

12 Unsuccessful Life Strategies

Do not look to your past to predict your 
future otherwise you will repeat your past.

 

Overcoming the 'Feeling Bad' Addiction

Question: 

Why is it so hard for people to understand that feeling bad attracts bad things to them while feeling good attracts good things to them? 

Answer:
The reason it is hard for people to understand is because many people are addicted to feeling bad. 

It may not sound logical to you that people would be addicted to feeling bad but they are. People have survived by feeling bad and to feel good most of the time would take them out of their survival zone. What they don't know is that 'feeling good' most of the time would allow them to do more than just survive, it would allow them to  'thrive and prosper'.

Feeling bad is a result of the negative thoughts playing on automatic pilot outside a person's immediate conscious control that live in their subconscious mind.   If people want to become addicted to feeling good most of the time, they have to reprogram their subconscious mind.  They have to replace the 'feeling bad' thoughts living in their subconscious with thoughts that makes them feel good most of the time. 

This related article about the conscious and subconscious mind will give you the basics about reprogramming your subconscious mind.

Related Article. Conscious mind DIRECTS, Subconscious DELIVERS



Wednesday

LOVING Hatred to Death ENDS Hatred (Article)


Any chronic (nagging) negative feeling living in my body for a prolong period of time is ALERTING me to the fact I am feeling hatred.   Where do those feelings of hatred come from?  They come from feelings I had originally during my growing up years that I was taught to deny, squash or suppress. 

The  GREATEST disservice we do towards our children is making them deny or squash their negative feelings rather than allowing them to FEEL WHAT THEY FEEL.  


It is only through allowing our children to feel what they feel and then talking about it that they can learn why they feel the way they do. Allowing children to openly and safely talk about their negative feelings makes it possible for them them replace those negative feelings with feelings that make them feel good about themselves.

The more you squash negative feelings, the more negative you will feel because negative feelings buried alive never die. Instead they turn into feelings of self-hatred that eventually manifest themselves in our body as physical disease in worst case situations or unexplained aches and pain in best case situations.

Without giving ourselves permission to feel hatred consciously and allowing it to harmlessly pass out of our body and mind, we will feel it unconsciously. Once felt unconsciously, we either suffer silently with our suppressed feelings of hatred or we lash out with unhealthy expressions of hatred towards others which increases the hatred in the world. 

Knowing all negative feelings are rooted in some form of hatred, my job is to allow the thoughts associated with my unconscious feelings of hatred to come up into my conscious mind where I can see them for what they are and replace them with thoughts that make me feel good about myself. 
 

AUTHOR NOTE:

"That which you cannot love will eventually turn into hate."

My greatest truth, my most pressing truth lives in the negative feelings I resist or dislike. I feel negative for a reason and it never has to do with other people or circumstances. Feeling negative, ultimately, has to do with how I feel about myself. It is these negative feelings that contain what is true for me. They carry benevolent messages and guidance and advice if I will but allow the thoughts associated with the negative feelings to fully enter my mind. Blaming other people or circumstances for feeling negative only robs me of my power and prevents me from discovering my truth contained in my negative feelings. The overriding message at the bottom of my negative feelings is that I do not love myself enough. Knowing that, I focus on those things that will allow me to love myself more.

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Monday

Feeling Sad, Blue, Depressed WOO HOO!!



The good news about feeling sad, blue or depressed when it seems outside your control is that it is in your control. However, there are some things you must know before you can have control over those feelings.

First off, any time you are feeling negative in a way that you seem to have no control over, that is partly true.  That is because what you are experiencing are feelings being produced by thoughts, running on automatic pilot, living in your subconscious mind outside your 'current' conscious control..


The best way to deal with those feelings is to simply FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL....and they will harmlessly pass you by like clouds in the sky.  Resisting, debating, wrestling with or arguing with feelings you do not like will only make them stronger...  Feeling what you feel will make them dissolve naturally...


Thursday

I Hate My FEELINGS (Noteworthy Commentary)

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I hate how I feel...
I don't like feeling this way.. 
I wished I didn't FEEL the way I do.

If I haven't heard the lines, written above, uttered by someone I care about once in my lifetime, I have heard them ten thousand times.  More than anything people deal with in life, it seems their feelings are the most troublesome. They are so troublesome that people spend billions each year on therapy, pills, illegal drugs, booze and other substances to control, medicate, subdue, numb or sedate their feelings...

For God's sake and your own quit resisting what you feel and feel what you feel. For crying out loud, they are just feelings.  YES, I know they are your feelings but nevertheless they are just feelings and when you focus on thoughts that make you feel good, you will feel good instead of feeling bad. 

A SIMPLE FACT....

You cannot feel good by focusing on anything that makes you feel bad whether it be a thought, an emotion, a person or a situation. You also can't feel good when you falsely believe your are flawed and defective in some way.  And you can't feel good when you think you have this 'mental health problem' or that one.   And you can't feel good when you are unconsciously committed to feeling the worst about yourself. Please understand, I don't want to save people from themselves. I don't want to convince people of anything. I just wished so many of the really kind, decent, caring folks I know would quit focusing on what's wrong with them and start focusing on what's right about them.

IF YOU HAVE MADE NEGATIVE FEELINGS YOUR ENEMY, THEN NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO, THEY WILL DEFEAT AND DESTROY YOU AT EVERY TURN

The biggest problem people have with the way they feel is they resist the way they feel.  It is not what you feel that is the problem, it is your resistance to what you feel that is the problem because whatever you resist persists and grows stronger, gaining strength and power over you.  

The feelings you resist not only grow stronger,  they drain you of energy, rob you of your happiness and turn you into a neurotic babbling idiot.... 

The quickest way through any feeling you do not like is to FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL.   Thinking about why you feel bad only makes you feel worse. Analyzing why you feel bad only makes the bad feeling deteriorate into a worse feeling because it is a simple fact that what whatever feeling you focus your attention on, you attract more of the same... On the other hand, if you are already into feeling bad and can't seem to find your way out of feeling bad, again the quickest way out of feeling bad is to FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL while at the same time moving forward with your life.  In others words, 'I feel bad now, I don't like that I feel bad now, I can't change that I feel bad now so I will focus on what I really want to do'....and in the process of you doing what you really want to do,  your bad feelings turn into good ones, naturally 

Are you a law of attraction believer?   If you are, be careful with your feelings. You see, many people know that in order to attract what they want, they have got to feel good.  Here's the problem, their is no way of knowing how good you have to feel before you will attract what you want. As a result, people try to force themselves to feel higher level of good feelings. The trouble is, the moment you begin forcing yourself to feel what you don't feel, the negative feelings you presently feel get stronger and begin to consume your whole personality.  You don't get to feel good by forcing yourself to feel good, you get to feel good by FEELING WHAT YOU FEEL.....and ALLOWING the good feelings you want to flow into your life effortlessly.  Any effort or struggle you tie to feeling good, in the end, always, always makes you feel worse....




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Friday

You are being MANIPULATED out of your money and Don't Know it.

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In 99% of the cases, the donations you make to a cause are not 'free will' donations, they are manipulated out of you by someone who understands the moment they can make you feel like the victim feels or can make you feel like you could be that kind of victim someday, you will donate money to their cause.  In other words, they use your emotions against you without you being aware of it. They use your emotions to separate you from your money.  This is called 'emotional manipulation'

This practice of emotionally manipulating money out of you is not uncommon. Many people who want your money, whether it is for a 'cause' or to get you to buy a retail product, will use your emotions without your permission to get you to do what they want you to do because they want you to do it, which is spending money on their cause, product or service.  

Making emotional financial decisions is the #1 reason why people have financial problems. Look at your life and you will see that if you didn't spend money emotionally, you would be financially prosperous today. 


I APOLOGIZE FOR ASKING FOR DONATIONS

I apologize for asking for donations because I am forbidden to ask for them.  How I know that to be true is that is every time I ask for them, I get this sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. I get this guilt feeling that I am violating a family rule, a rule that says when I ask for a donation I am asking for charity and in my family receiving charity was a big no, no.  

My family was very prideful and would not allow other people to contribute to their welfare in any way. This was something I didn't understand back then and I don't understand to this day. However, when I ask for donations, I am not asking for charity, I am asking you to exchange a little bit of your energy with me.  You see money represent 'energy' to me.  I spend energy writing these articles. You spend energy making the money you do and when you donate money to me because you have found 'genuine value' in my writing, we have exchanged a little bit of energy with one another.  




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Sunday

Good 'ANGRY' People
















The emotion of anger has gotten a bad rap. There is nothing wrong with anger. Anger is an emotion from God and like all emotions, if properly understood, it is a good thing. Anger ALERTS us when our sense of justice has been violated. Anger gives us the courage to act when we are feeling cowardly. Anger is never the problem, it is the denial of anger that eventually causes people to go postal and hurt themselves and other people. Listen to this fifteen minute show and find out how to make anger your friend.


  


You always feel a 'negative feeling' for a good reason. The moment you discover what the good reason is, the negative feeling vanishes. Negative feelings are benevolent messengers in disguise who have come to deliver positive messages of guidance and advice to you. The moment you judge a negative feeling as bad or wrong you lose all opportunity to discover the positive message of guidance and advice your negative feeling is sending your way.

To learn more about the positive messages in negative feelings, subscribe to my Feeling Good, No Matter, Newsletter. My newsletter gives you insights into understanding the positive messages of guidance and advice your negative feelings are sending your way. In addition, my newsletter is full of insights on how to replace weaker thoughts that no longer serve you with POWERFUL thoughts that do


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