Turning Bad Things in your Life into GOOD Things

Blessing the people who have done you wrong will turn the negatives in your life into positives.

Blessing* someone or something means to INVOKE (to ask) a favor from God to turn a bad thing in your life into something good.

* Dictionary definition of the word Blessing:  

a favor or gift bestowed by God, thereby bringing happiness.

BLESSING THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE DONE US WRONG

Our immediate reaction when someone has done us wrong is to hate them because they hurt us.  That's a natural human reaction. Hating someone who has done us wrong buffers the hurt. It allows us to function and to keep going. If we fully felt the hurt immediately after 'someone had done us wrong' we would be devastated and incapable of moving forward with our life. 

Hating keeps us from becoming paralyzed with grief, fear or resentment. Hate is not a permanent to solution to healing our hurts however it does gives us time to find a permanent solution. 

The permanent solution I found  to heal the hurt inflicted upon me by thoughtless, insensitive people was to bless them. 

I discovered when I bless the people who have done me wrong, God blesses me by turning my disappointments in life into good things for me in ways that defy all of my logical explanations.

Blessing people and situations who have done us wrong or have used and abused us in any way creates MIRACLES in our lives.

I bless people this way..

I bless you for cheating on me and lying to me.

I bless you for using me and taking advantage of me.

I bless you for not understanding me and making me wrong

I bless you for not supporting me and undermining my dreams

I bless you for being nasty to me and abusing me.

I bless you for being cruel and unkind to me.

I bless you for not loving me and leaving me.

I bless you for not appreciating my writings and insights.

Blessing people who have used, abused or hurt you in some way seems counter-intuitive but when you bless them (wish the best for them) the God of the Universe will bless you in ways that you cannot possibly imagine today.  This is something I know from the personal experience of blessing the bad things in my life.

If nothing else, blessing people and events that have hurt or disappointed you will make you feel lighter and brighter. Blessing people will soften your heart making you feel good to be you.  

What you just read is a preview (excerpt) from the book I am currently writing titled: Fun, Play, Living Life My Way. It is scheduled to be published in the Spring of 2020. To preview the first book I wrote titled Love is All I know,  click on the link or book cover located below.

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Why I Love Jesus.....

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I am not a preacher, I don't belong to any religion but I do write about Jesus.

Jesus is my role model not because some religion threatened me with hellfire and damnation if I didn't believe in him but because I liked how Jesus lived his life. 

I don't agree with everything Jesus said but I agree with a lot of what he said.  Jesus was one of the greatest possibility thinkers of all time.  Because of what Jesus said and because I choose to believe what he said I know I have the power to created miracles in my own life, anytime I want....and I do.

 

"I tell you the truth, if you have faith and don't doubt, you can do things like this and much more. You can even say to this mountain, 'May you be lifted up and thrown into the sea,' and it will happen. - Jesus


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It is you God, I love above all the rest.

I gave up suffering for all time...

Grateful Beyond WORDS...

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I am a big gratitude person and the more that I am grateful for what I have, the more good things that come into my life. It seems expressing sincere gratitude for what you have is like climbing a stairway to your never-ending good. I can't tell you how great my life is... it is beyond words to describe. In the 'popular message' section of this site, you will see a number of articles dealing with gratitude. I write a lot on the subject because being grateful daily works MIRACLES in my life...and it will do the same for you.  By the way, I define a miracle as something happening that I want to happen that happens in such a way that it defies all logical explanation. To me that's a miracle.

Create Miracles With Good Thoughts.

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I WELCOME ALL OF MY GOOD THOUGHTS ABOUT ME. I COMMAND THEM TO ME. I EMBRACE THEM. I GIVE THE DEEPEST THANKS FOR THEM. - Rhonda Byrnes, Author of The Secret

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Do you create ' Miracles in REVERSE'?

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A 'miracle in reverse' is any situation that causes you to be depressed or stressed out in any way including experiencing emotional pain and suffering when experiencing those things are not necessary at all.  'Miracles in reverse' includes accidents, bad luck and unexpected misfortune. There are seven actions people take that are responsible for creating 'miracles in reverse'.  

I will share those seven actions with you, in a moment, but first I want to let you know that any time you are doing something you don't really want to do, you are in the process of creating a 'miracle in reverse' for yourself.... The more you can remove things from your life that you  'have to do' in exchange for things 'you want to do,' the more MIRACULOUS your life will become. On the other hand, the  more things you do because you 'believe' you have to do them or are forced to do them, the more 'miracles in reverse' you will  create for yourself..  

If you have a  'have to' in your life that you cannot change, a change in attitude will allow you to turn a 'have to' attitude into a 'want to' attitude...


7 THINGS PEOPLE DO TO CREATE MIRACLES IN REVERSE

1. Forcing
2. Pushing
3. Pulling
4. Resisting
5. Trying
6. Controlling
7. Blaming

All of these actions are based on attitudes of fear and represent a lack of faith in the 'law of attraction' bringing you what you want if you gave up your fear based actions and ways of thinking.  In fact, your need to control things is based on the fear of things controlling you. In regarding to trying, trying is un-attractive (does not attract) and pushes away from you the very things you want. 

Forcing, pushing, pulling and resisting are all fear based actions which always attract more of the things, into your life, that you do not want.  Blaming is the most powerful of all actions that create 'miracles in reverse' because any time you blame others or yourself, you are giving your power away to people and things outside yourself. In addition,  you are cutting yourself off from the 'source'  of your  power that lives within you. A 'source' of power that will allow you  to create honest to goodness miracles in your life that will thrill you rather than continuing to create 'miracles in reverse' that make you feel guilty, sad and depressed.



HOW TO STOP CREATING MIRACLES IN REVERSE

In the end, it is not what you do or don't do that creates 'miracles in reverse' in your life, it's your attitude that does. The one attitude that will help you to stop creating 'miracles in reverse' is understanding the 'Giving to Get' principle of prosperity. The 'Giving to Get' principle of prosperity will allow you to thrive and prosper in all areas of your life, the natural way, the way the 'God of your understanding' intended for you to thrive and prosper. To read more about the 'Giving to GET' principle and find out how you can view the video on this subject, click here

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Favorite "Miracle" Quotation

Miracles are nothing more than natural laws
at work we yet don't understand. - St. Augustine.