What do you do when people IGNORE you and no one wants what you have to OFFER? (Explained)

If people keep ignoring you and don't give you what you want, it is critically important that you keep doing what feels good for you to do. That's what I do, that's what you must do too.

In time, if you remain true to your 'good feelings,' people will stop ignoring you and and start wanting what you have to offer. Why?  because goods feelings (vibrations) sooner or later always attract what you want.  It is not a matter of if you will attract what you want, it is only a matter of when if you stay true to your good feelings.

Your feelings are the first physical evidence that you are attracting something (good or bad) to yourself. If you don't like what you are attracting to yourself, change your thoughts. Changing your thoughts will change your feelings which will change your results. 

Train yourself to be more LOYAL to your good feelings than your bad ones. If you do that,  you will attract to yourself the people, places, situations and things that will give you the life you want.

Have FAITH in attracting what you want because you're worth it..

WOMEN, Don't Talk To Other Women About Your Men Problems, Talk to Another Man. Here is why

If you have a problem with a man, don't you think you could solve it faster talking to another man about it rather than talking to other women who really know nothing about being a man since they aren't one? 

When I have had troubles, in the past, with a woman in my life I never talked to another man about it. I talked to another woman because she could easier explain to me what I was doing wrong in my relationship than talking to another man about my woman troubles. 

I have been in a 'lasting' love relationship with a woman for over sixteen years now that has been perfect for me. This is a result of the women who coached me on what it means to be in a relationship with a woman, something other men could never teach me. 

If you would like to have a relationship with a man that works perfectly for you, I suggest you read my book titled: Love Is ALL I KNOW. 

The insights in that book will make you the master of all of your relationships with men rather than the victim of them. To preview my book, click this link: https://amzn.to/38z5YjQ

Turning Bad Things in your Life into GOOD Things

Blessing the people who have done you wrong will turn the negatives in your life into positives.

Blessing* someone or something means to INVOKE (to ask) a favor from God to turn a bad thing in your life into something good.

* Dictionary definition of the word Blessing:  

a favor or gift bestowed by God, thereby bringing happiness.

BLESSING THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE DONE US WRONG

Our immediate reaction when someone has done us wrong is to hate them because they hurt us.  That's a natural human reaction. Hating someone who has done us wrong buffers the hurt. It allows us to function and to keep going. If we fully felt the hurt immediately after 'someone had done us wrong' we would be devastated and incapable of moving forward with our life. 

Hating keeps us from becoming paralyzed with grief, fear or resentment. Hate is not a permanent to solution to healing our hurts however it does gives us time to find a permanent solution. 

The permanent solution I found  to heal the hurt inflicted upon me by thoughtless, insensitive people was to bless them. 

I discovered when I bless the people who have done me wrong, God blesses me by turning my disappointments in life into good things for me in ways that defy all of my logical explanations.

Blessing people and situations who have done us wrong or have used and abused us in any way creates MIRACLES in our lives.

I bless people this way..

I bless you for cheating on me and lying to me.

I bless you for using me and taking advantage of me.

I bless you for not understanding me and making me wrong

I bless you for not supporting me and undermining my dreams

I bless you for being nasty to me and abusing me.

I bless you for being cruel and unkind to me.

I bless you for not loving me and leaving me.

I bless you for not appreciating my writings and insights.

Blessing people who have used, abused or hurt you in some way seems counter-intuitive but when you bless them (wish the best for them) the God of the Universe will bless you in ways that you cannot possibly imagine today.  This is something I know from the personal experience of blessing the bad things in my life.

If nothing else, blessing people and events that have hurt or disappointed you will make you feel lighter and brighter. Blessing people will soften your heart making you feel good to be you.  

What you just read is a preview (excerpt) from the book I am currently writing titled: Fun, Play, Living Life My Way. It is scheduled to be published in the Spring of 2020. To preview the first book I wrote titled Love is All I know,  click on the link or book cover located below.

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Amazon Review of Love is All I Know

This book.. is so beautiful. I read it before bed every night and it relaxes my mind and helps me sleep. I swear i don’t want it to be over. It’s like my friend. - April M.

How and Why You Should LOVE the People you HATE

To love the people you hate the most you don't have to interact with them or have them be part of your physical life but you do have to send them 'thoughts of love' in the privacy of your mind rather than withholding that love from them.

Science has proven we  are energetic beings connected to each other by our energetic thoughts that extend out beyond our bodies and reach those people who live separate from us.

Hating or withholding 'thoughts of love' from someone you hate stunts their growth and contributes to them continuing to be the asshole you don't want them to be.  

Thoughts of love are infinite, don't be stingy with those thoughts, Share those thoughts of love with the people you hate. In the process of doing that, you will feel more love for yourself too.  

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Excerpted From My Forthcoming Book
FUN, PLAY, LIVING LIFE MY WAY
(If it ain't Easy, it ain't working for me)
Copyright 2019 By Frederick Zappone
My previously published books can be previewed here
https://www.amazon.com/Frederick-Zappone/e/B00BMJR998/ 

Loving the UNLOVABLE parts of you.

To heal ourselves, to feel whole again. To feel energetic and alive, it is important that we become aware of and then love those parts of ourselves that we have rejected as not acceptable to us.

Any part of ourselves (physically, mentally, emotionally) that we do not like will be healed once we love our unlovable parts without judgment.

What parts of your physical body have you not been loving? 

What emotions or thoughts have you not been loving?

Nothing is healed by hating or disliking anything about yourself.

Once you infuse what you don't like about yourself with love, healing takes place naturally.

Question: How do I love the unlovable parts of me.

Answer: By doing the exact opposite of what you been doing when you have been hating or disliking something about yourself. 

The beginning of loving an unlovable part of ourselves is acceptance of that part. Without acceptance love is not possible. 

After acceptance 'observe the judgments' you have about that part of you and then release those judgments. You release judgments when you realize how awful they make you feel and how much energy and power they take from you.

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Excerpted From the Book
FUN, PLAY, LIVING LIFE MY WAY
(If it ain't Easy, it ain't working for me)
Copyright 2019 By Frederick Zappone
My previously published books can be previewed here
https://www.amazon.com/Frederick-Zappone/e/B00BMJR998/  

The Love You Seek is Seeking You This Very Moment.

Finding the love you want is not something you chase or pursue, it is something you attract to yourself by being yourself, being true to yourself and  loving yourself exactly as you are. There is nothing more attractive than a person who truly loves and takes good care of themselves. These people radiate love, wisdom, health and prosperity that other people are attracted too..  If you don't love yourself exactly as you are the universe will continue to keep sending people into your life who won't love you either. - From The Self-Love Mastery Teachings

Self-Love Thought Mastery

Would you deliberately think negative thoughts? Of course not! So why do you think thoughts that cause you to feel worried, fearful, anxious, upset, depressed, guilty, shamed or angry? The answer is, you don't.

 

Negative thoughts are not your fault. They are the fault of negative thoughts living in your subconscious mind that operate on automatic pilot outside your immediately conscious control. If they didn't operate on automatic pilot they'd be easy for you to control but they are not.

This automatic playing of 'negative thoughts' on the part of your subconscious mind causes you to feel like the victim of your thoughts rather than the master of them.

Many of you have had negative thoughts running around inside your mind for so long you have accepted them as normal.  The problem is those thoughts are not normal at all, they are abnormal. Those thoughts cause you to feel less than the magnificent person you truly are.

To have control over your thoughts requires reprogramming your subconscious mind with thoughts that inspire and empower you. If you don't reprogram your subconscious, it will continue playing, on automatic pilot, thoughts that discourage, hurt and defeat you.

In my Self-Love 'Thought Mastery' program I teach people a simple yet highly effective method to eliminate negative thoughts living in the subconscious mind. My insights about how your subconscious mind works will make it easy for you to re-program your subconscious.  

Re-programming  your subconscious will allow you to automatically think thoughts that inspire and empower you rather than continuing to think thoughts that cause you to feel less than the magnificent, powerful, lovable to the core person you truly are.

Additionally, in my program I also share with you the easiest ways to love yourself more and criticize yourself less. The inspiration to create this program came from seeing the changes in my own life as a result of successfully reprogramming my own subconscious mind.

As a result of reprogramming my subconscious with thoughts that inspired me, my health and finances, along with my relationship with others, improved dramatically. This happened faster than I imagined possible. It is AMAZING how good life is once we rid our subconscious mind of the negative thoughts that sabotaged us in the past.

Reprogramming your subconscious is easier than you think 

See testimonials for my program at the bottom of the page.

-- Frederick Zappone

Self-Love 'Thought Mastery' Program

For maximum effectiveness the content of my Self-Love Thought Mastery program is delivered to you via e-mail over a period of 21 days. The information contained in the program is concise and to the point. To get the benefits from my program I promised you all you have to do is read through the 21 email messages one time. With my program there is nothing to figure out since everything has already been figured out for you. That why so many people consider my program to be the ultimate self-care program. - Frederick Zappone

ONE TIME PAYMENT

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IMPORTANT INFORMATION

After making your payment, click on the RETURN TO FREDERICK ZAPPONE BUTTON located on the payment receipt page to receive the first of your Twenty-One Self-Love Thought MASTERY lessons. To make sure you are as successful in reprogramming your subconscious mind as I have been in re-programming mine I have included my personal email address with the program so you can contact me any time in case you have questions about my 'reprogramming method.'

 Self Love Thought Mastery Testimonials


• Frederick this new paradigm of self-love that you are teaching is truly revolutionary. I'm glad I've embarked on your Self-Love program. It is exactly what I have been looking for to wake me up to the habits that no longer serve me so that I can install self-loving thoughts and behaviors. - McKinley Williams, Los Angeles

• Mr. Zappone your Self-Love program has opened me up and improved EVERY area of my life. My self-awareness, confidence, energy and motivation has grown by leaps and bounds. And my sense of well being has increased too. I highly recommend your program. I only wish I had done this sooner. Tina Moore, UT

• As a result of doing the things you suggested in your self-love program, I noticed that the other things I wanted to achieve, besides loving myself more, started to manifest by themselves, as if by magic. Who would of thought that self love could make miracles happen but it does. Thank you. - Maria B. Australia

• I only bought your program a week ago and already I am noticing changes. I had frequent heart palpitations due to anxiety, which have disappeared. My cravings for sweets, which made it nearly impossible to lose weight and are now non-existent. I still have a lot of work to do, but I can't wait to see what happens in the future. - Michael D., VA

• I have been on the spiritual path from age 14, read hundreds of books on positive thinking, so I know your insights are the truth. I look forward to learning more from your program. - Marie J. Beaumont The Lemonade Diet

• Thank you for all your wisdom, Frederick. I look forward to more of your insights..---brilliant messages full of fantastic thoughts. - Abby C. NYC

• Thank you for your self love thought program. There were times when I wasn't sure about it, but looking back now I see that you have launched me onto the path that I needed to take. I have had a number of important insights and I am now moving in the direction I needed to go. I feel confident that I will reap the benefits I was hoping for. - Thank you Frederick. Geneviève, Alabama

• Thank you Frederick for your program. It has been more helpful than years of going on and on to people about my problems and more helpful than talking with various professionals. I think that it's not only your perspective but it's your delivery. . Thank you sincerely for your program. - Lily W. Montana

• I was unemployed when I signed up for Frederick's Self-Love Mastery Program. After I failed to get a job I interviewed for, I wrote Frederick. He assured me that this rejection was simply a re-direction to something better for me. He also provided me with simple and clear instructions on how to raise my consciousness and vibration. Shortly thereafter, I was offered a job with pay significantly higher than my requested salary. I believe that the dramatic improvement in my employment situation was due in large part to Frederick's clear writings and personal support which helped me to tap into the transforming power of self-love. - Bill K., New Jersey

What I did to 'Unscrew' Myself

Like so many of us I started off my life being very happy but as I grew older I became unhappy. I became unhappy because I started believing the lies people were telling me about myself.  

Worse yet, there were so many different people telling me so many different and conflicting lies about myself that by the time I reached twenty-one I was so screwed up that it took the next thirty years of my life to get my head screwed back on straight..

The truth be told, for the longest time I was the most insecure, shy,  person you could ever possibly know. Fortunately I was able to turn my greatest weaknesses into my greatest strengths.
  
My SECRET for turning my weaknesses into strengths has been to accept and love myself exactly as I am, one moment at a time..  We all have a private side and a public side. The private side is usually the abused side of us that we hide from view from other people out of shame and guilt. None of us escaped our childhood without being abused in some way (mentally, emotionally or physically) by someone. 

You Teach Best What You Most Need To Learn - Rich Bach

I'll be your didn't know this but the people who have been abused the most, often times, become psychiatrists, psychologists. counselors or self-help teachers like myself. This allows us to help others and at the same time safely work out our own issues of shame and guilt without being a problem to society or others.  

Self-love has been the most important 'healing agent' in successfully dealing with my insecure self image. It has allowed me to accept myself at my worst and absolutely adore myself at my best. Without self-love, I would have continued to unconsciously abuse myself by thoughtlessly criticizing myself when things weren't going my way. 

Today I take full responsibility for everything that happens to me. I no longer blame anyone for anything. When I occasionally catch myself wanting to blame someone for my pain, I remind myself that blame is the way I allow all of my personal power to bleed out of me. 

By taking full responsibility for everything that happens to me my authentic power is fully restored to me and I am free to become as magnificent and as powerful as I want to be.
 

END Violence In Your WORLD. Here's how.

Do you want to make a difference in having violence end in our world? If you do, then share the lovesolvesall.com link with others?  

Question: What in it for me? 

Answer: The satisfaction of knowing that by sharing the link with others that you will reach the heart and mind of at least person who is considering, right now, doing harm themselves or to others. And as a result of you sharing the link and that person reading my article about love they choose not to do any harm. All because you believed in love enough to share my article about love with others.

Question: What in it for you? 

Answer: Twenty-one dollars that I use to spread the message to people who are thinking about harming themselves or others that love does indeed solve all, including dissolving the fear, hurt, hate and angry that lives in their hearts.

Spread the love, share this link with others: lovesolvesall.com

 

A Positive Way To Look At Tragedy

How I use LOVE To solve Personal Problems (Relationship, Health, Money)

Ever have a problem where you don't know what to do next to solve it? I have! Experience taught me that when I don't know what to do next to solve a problem, the best thing I can do is NOTHING. 

You see trying to do something to solve a problem when I am clueless on how to solve it is 'fear pushing me' to come up with an answer to my problem when I have no answers. 

At best all 'fear pushing me' every did was slow me down considerably from solving my problem, In worst case situations, fear made my problem persist for what seemed like an eternity.

These days when I don't know what to next to solve a problem of mine, I focus on loving myself more. This is very different behavior from what I did in the past to solve my problems. 

In the past, when I couldn't solve a problem I would criticize myself or beat myself for not knowing how to solve my problem. That only made my problem worse. 

Today, when I am clueless on how to solve a problem I have, I work on loving myself more. In the process of loving myself more, the answer to my problem spontaneously shows up in my mind out of thin air  or my problem disappears for no logical reason I can explain other than the fact that I took the time to love myself more. 

To read about how I  use the power of self-love to solve all of my problems, click this link: lovesolvesall.com

Jesus and the Manchester Tragedy

The Manchester tragedy stirred a lot of righteous anger in people's hearts but hating violence does not make violence go way.

And pointing out to everyone else what a 'f*ck up' world we live in does not make the world better for anyone. It only makes people more afraid and feeling more powerless than they felt before.

The reason Jesus said 'Resist not evil' is because when you resist evil, you contribute to evil persisting in the world.

Your negative thoughts about evil, whether you understand it or not, contribute to the violence and evil we have in the world. Why? Because you are still believing that the power of fear is more powerful than the power of love.

When you don't resist evil, you are free to love all those different than yourself. However when you are resisting evil you have very little time to love yourself let alone love anyone different than yourself.

No one who loves themselves sufficiently would ever think of harming themselves or others.

Terrorists are people who hate themselves so intensity that they only way they can deal with that level of self-hatred is to project it out onto other people and kill them as a way of getting rid of the evil the terrorist sees in their world.

The Terrorists see people who think differently than they do as their enemy and we see terrorists as our enemy. As long as we look at each other that way rather than seeing we are all son's and daughter's of the King, world peace will never become our shared reality.

God is my SOURCE for everything, Money Too!

God is the source of the money and love I receive from other people.  He picks and chooses who will love me and give me the money I need to pay my bills. And because I fully trust God, He lavishes me with love and money from sources unexpected, unexpectedly.

Anything that is hard in my life for me to do, God does for me. I always do what I can do and what I cannot do, God always does for me. 

My job is to be grateful for God and to keep him alive (conscious) in my own life. My job is not to convince other people God exist.

My job is to keep myself open to the love, protection and guidance that God offers me every moment of every single day of my life. 

My job is to share the God of my understanding with other people and let them decide if what is true for me about God is also true for them. 

My job is not to argue with people who think about God differently than I do. My job is to love all people exactly as they are, exactly the way God loves me, unconditionally for all eternity
  
Related Reading:

Why I Fully Trust God.

For Those People Who Feel Abandoned By God

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 Self-Love 'Thought Mastery' Program

Why I Fully Trust God.

Here are a few things I know for sure about God. 

God is not something we have to prove to others. It is only something we have to prove to ourselves. And once we prove to ourselves that God is real there is no need to prove to others what is true for us. 

You cannot see God but you can feel his presence, power and energy coursing through your veins. God is not judgmental. God only wants us to be happy.  God is not found in religion, He is found in our hearts.

God is kind, benevolent, fair and just. He protects us at all times and under all circumstances if we fully trust HIM.  The reason I fully trust God is because when I do, I always feel good about being me. When I don't fully trust God, I feel rotten about being me.

WE HAVE TO DO OUR PART

Just because we fully trust God doesn't mean that we don't have to do our part to make our life a heaven on earth because we do. Any thought you think or action you take that makes you feel good about being you is you living and working in harmony with the power, presence, an intelligence of God living within you. 

There is nothing that can separate us from God 'grace and power' except thoughts of fear. Thoughts of fear  cut us off from God's power, guidance and protection. This explains why we feel so vulnerable and alone when we we thinking  and/or entertaining thoughts of fear. 

For myself when 'fear thoughts' start to overwhelm my mind, I turn them over to God to handle for me and then go about thinking thoughts and doing things that make me feel good about being me.

 - Frederick Zappone


Self-Love Thought Mastery Program

Why I Feel Good NO MATTER WHAT......

Nothing can defeat me except my very own thoughts or my thoughts about other people's thoughts, still my thoughts. I have the choice to be the master of my thoughts or to be the victim of them, I choose to be the master of them by feeling good, no matter what.

When I focus on feeling good it is easy for me to make others feel good too. When I focus on feeling bad, it is easy for me to make others feel bad too, that is why I focus on feeling good no matter what. 

My responsibility to feel good is much larger than myself because my mood influences and effects everyone around me. We are not specks of dust in the cosmos, our moods affect everyone. 

Don't misunderstand me. Feeling good, no matter what, doesn't mean that I never feel negative. It just means I recover from my negative feelings very quickly, most times, in a matter of minutes.

If the idea of feeling good no matter what appeals to you, my self-love reminders will inspire you to feel good when you don't so you can make others feel good too. To receive your self-love reminders, click here.

 

Receive a Self-Love Reminder Every Other Day

NOT CARING - The Best Feeling Of Them All.

Not caring means you have no attachment to the outcome of things.  It means you have preferences of how you would like things to turn out but you are not attached to your preferences. 

Not caring gives you a sense of freedom and power you never experience when you are attached to outcomes. Attachment to how things turns out always results in needless suffering.

When you don't care, it is much easier to enjoy life and the people in your life. And when you don't care, the people who used to upset you, no longer upset you, they amuse you.

We were brought up to believe that caring was a good thing. The truth be told according to Dictionary.com caring is not all that great.  Here is how Dictionary.com defines the word care.

As you can see from reading the dictionary definition of the word care, care means to suffer and that why I don't care. You see suffering of any kind doesn't make anyone's life better

Don't misunderstand me, I am very compassionate and loving. I also understand I have ZERO control over the thoughts and actions of people outside myself so caring about what they do or don't do is a waste of my time and energy. Time and energy I could be using to enjoy life and create products and services that inspire and empower people.

HOW I LEARNED NOT TO CARE

My personal self-love journey showed me how to not care about things I have no control over. You can read about it by clicking here

Fearful American's Should be Ashamed Of Themselves.

I have never seen so many people living in fear since Trump got elected as President. To allow the thoughts and actions of one man determine your state of mind is absolutely ridiculous. It is actually worse than that, it is a form of insanity. Living in a state of fear is so Un-American that if you live that way, you should be ashamed of yourself.

Thinking thoughts of fear will certainly contribute to you attracting what you fear. Thoughts create reality and right now the fearful Americans in this country are doing a damn good job of allowing the 'fear mongers' to control and dominate their thinking. Fear mongers get  their 'power and energy' from you. If you live in fear that is only because you are thinking and believing the worst about mankind rather than the best.

If you live in fear that because you believe you are a powerless, pathetic, speck of dust in the cosmos with no control over your fate when it is your thoughts of fear that are controlling your fate and not the thoughts of anyone living outside yourself.

Get a grip, quit being the victim of your thoughts, become the master of them.  As long as you allow the thoughts of others to control your thinking, they have all the power over your life and you do not.

Quit feeding the 'fear monsters' your power. Take back your power and live the magnificent, powerful life you are destined to live.  Take back your power by countering every thought of fear with thoughts of love.  

Let Thoughts of Love Always Be Your Guide

Love is not some sentimental weakness or mushy feeling, it is so much more than that. Love it is a POWER, a PRESENCE, an INTELLIGENCE that lives with you, go within or go without, use it or lose it. 

Living in fear is not loving yourself at all, it is the most destructive form of self-abuse.  If you want to show up in the world as the powerful person you truly are, love yourself like you have loved no other. 

In the process of loving yourself more, all of your power will be fully restored to you and fear will no longer be your enemy like it once was.  To learn more about the incredible and unbelievable power of self-love to make what's going wrong with your life turn our right, click here

 

Let Thoughts of Love Be Your Guide

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Wondering Out Loud To No One In Particular.

I wonder if sharing with people that another person has cancer helps spread the fear of cancer?  I wonder if advertising cancer treatments helps spread the fear of cancer? I wonder if sharing fear thoughts about cancer with others increases the fear of cancer? 

I wonder if fear thoughts about cancer contributes to cancer killing people? I wonder if a doctor telling a cancer patient that he or she only has three months to live becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy? I wonder what would happen if people 'loved their cancer cells to death' instead of going to war against them? - I wonder. lovesolvesall.com