Happy New Year 2017 From INSPIRED LIVING

LOA Reminder and Insight #22 out of 365

To attract what you want you have to be willing to stop pursuing what you want. You cannot have it both ways. 

You have to make up your mind if you want to attract what you want or if you want to pursue it. Attracting your 'wants' is what the law of attraction does, pursuing your 'wants' what you do when you don't trust the law of attraction to attract what you want to you.

Saturday Morning Inspirational One Liners

1. A judgment is a thought without future possibilities
2. Judgments turn your thoughts into your physical reality.
3. Whatever you judge to be bad for you becomes bad for you.
4. Reality doesn't change until your judgments change.

5. To change an unwanted condition, judge it differently.

Enlightened NONSENSE

You can't have what you want until you accept what you have. Resisting what you have stops you from having what you want. When you accept 'what is' in your life, you are set free to be as happy as you want to be.


Quote of the Day

How to successfully deal with the 'F*CK IT ALL' Mood.

When you are in the f*ck it all mood do not make yourself wrong for being in that mood. If you do, that will make your mood worse, much worse. When you are in the f*ck it all mood the first thing to do is to be gentle and kind to yourself because guaranteed when you are in that mood no else is going to be kind and gentle with you.

The f*ck it all mood is an ALERT signal that you are either overwhelmed with things to do, sick with worry, over analyzing things too much or you are trying too hard.  In truth the f*ck it all mood is nature's way of waking you up and telling you it is time to take a break and GO PLAY..

Play gives you energy, clears your thinking and helps you regain your focus and balance. And for God's sake whatever you do, don't take yourself too seriously because no one else does.😃

Play is any activity that makes you feel good about being you.  

Play for you could be sleeping in, taking a long hot shower or bath, walking, jogging, shopping, baking, listening to music or making 'mad passionate love' with yourself or another.  

When you are suffering from 'too much on your plate' play is always the solution to make your plate feel lighter. Play more, worry less.



SHORTCUT To Dissolving Feelings of Lack

Here's another example of the kinds of  law of attraction insights you will receive from me when you sign up for my daily LOA reminders.

In the process of attracting what you want, you will feel lack from time to time. When you do, do not resist those feelings. If you do, your feelings of lack will intensify and slow down you attracting the things you want. When you feel lack, notice it, observe it and it will dissolve of its own accord and your good feelings will automatically return to you. 

Do not have conversations with yourself about your feelings of lack because that will increase your feelings of lack. Instead, observe them without judging them and at the same place your attention, focus and energy on some thought or activity that makes you feel good about being you. That is one way to dissolve feelings of lack.  

Another excellent way of dissolving feelings of lack is by the giving of your time and talent to others. Why giving?  Because when you give freely to others what you have an abundance to give, such as your time or talent, it creates IMMENSE feelings of abundance inside of you and immediately washes away any remaining feelings of lack.

Feelings of lack repels or pushes away the good we want while feelings of abundance attracts, like magic, our good to us, often times, in ways that defies all logical explanations

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Do you judge yourself? If so, this article is for you.

Refrain from negatively judging yourself.  Every time your judge yourself in a negative way you push something good away from yourself or prevent something good from coming to you. The law of attraction is extremely sensitive to the 'tone and feel' of your words and immediately begins attracting to you or pushing away from you what you're feeling.  

Judging yourself is an 'unconscious' habit of thought that you picked up from others during your formative years. 

When you catch yourself judging yourself do not beat yourself for doing it. Instead, simply use your negative self-judgment as an ALERT SIGNAL to stop judging yourself

As soon as you quit judging yourself in negative way that action on your part immediately create a better kind of feeling inside of you which immediately begins attracting something good to you. 

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Money Manifestation Tip that WORKS

Saying words you do not feel are words you do not mean. Saying words does not manifest money, it is feeling the words that gets that job done.

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Be Who you Want To BE....

Your vision of who you want to be will pull you forth (out of your shell) into becoming the person you want to be. 

I was never happy trying to meet other people's standards about what I should do and not do and how I should be and not be but today I am completely happy meeting my own standards of just being me.

I have two goals in life. The first goal  is to do the ordinary things in life, extraordinarily well. My second second goal is to never disappoint myself.. I have made great progress in achieving both of my goals.

It's Simple, You INTEND it, The L.O.A. makes it happen

The law of attraction really is very simple. you intend it and the law of attraction will make it happen if you stay the heck out of the way and only take action when you feel INSPIRED to take action and at no other time. 

For example, I INTEND for the subscribers of my daily law of attraction insights to receive the exact 'insight' they need when they need it. As a result of my intention I have people writing me and asking me if I am reading their minds because of how perfect my daily insights are for them.

It seems the right insights are showing up at the right time for the right person. This happens so frequently that it defies all statistical odds. What is causing this statistical phenomena to happen? My clear intention and then making sure I only take action regarding my intention when I am inspired to take action and at no other time.

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A Law of Attraction Insight you Never Heard Before.

In order to make the LOA work for you effortlessly you have to train yourself to trust your good feelings more than you trust your mind telling you what the 'logical or right thing' is for you to do.

The law of attraction is about attracting what you want and that only happens when you trust your good feelings more than you trust your mind telling what you should or should not do.  

Good feelings supersede logic and right/wrong thinking. The good feelings you experience ALERT you when the mind of God (aka Universe) is working through you. 

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Wednesday's Morning Inspirational One (1) Liners

1. Never let the words and actions of other people determine your worth, you cannot put a price on priceless.   2. A loss of friends just means they don't like what you like, it is not personal.  3. The worst form of rejection is when you reject yourself because someone else rejected you.  4. Being yourself means some people will like you and others will not. Get used to it.


Worry does not attract, it repels

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The law of attraction is a wonderful law, it works all the time for everyone. It is also one of God's most misunderstood laws.  

I work with people everyday who want to become 'law of attraction' masters like myself.  The problem most people have with the law of attraction is they try to make it work rather than ALLOWING it to work.  

Allowing the LOA to work is the simplest thing in the world to do. Unfortunately allowing is soooo simple to do that many people spend months, even years, 'trying' to make the law of attraction work in their favor when 'trying' is not required at all. 

Tuesday Morning Insight

Fear pushing you to do more will cause you to accomplish less. Being motivated by fear to accomplish things is the number one cause of mistakes and failures.  - Frederick Zappone -

Creating Your REALITY

The fact is your thoughts make all the difference because it is your thoughts that attract to you or push away from the very things you want. When your thoughts are taking you in the direction of the things you want, you feel good, you feel positive and upbeat. When your thoughts are taking you away from what you want you feel heavy, somber, even depressed. 

What you feel ALERTS you, moment by moment, if you are  attracting the people, events and circumstances  you need to acquire the things you want or if you are pushing them away from you. 

Frederick Zappone  
365 Daily Law of Attraction Reminders


Force Causes LACK, Flow Causes ABUNDANCE

Force breaks things or it make things work at the expense of breaking others in some way either mentally, physically, emotionally or financially. Life is easy when you go with the flow and difficult as hell when you don't.  When you go with the flow, money flows to you easily and when you don't what you experience is a continuous lack and scarcity of money. You can read my money story about how I went from being a money disaster to a money master when I quit using force to make money and started making money by going with the flow. -- Frederick Zappone


Sweet People Make Life SWEET

Merry Christmas to friends of my Inspired Living Blog


I am a Human Attraction Machine (You Can Be Too)

Hello, for those of you who don't know me my name is Frederick Zappone. I am an law of attraction expert in my own life and I teach other how to become a law of attraction in their own life.

The only lack and scarcity that exists is in our minds. It is not in God's mind, Nature's mind or the Universe's mind for in those minds only ABUNDANCE can exist. 

Lack is a human concept kept in place by fear. If you do not fear lack, you will not attract lack. As long as you fear lack, you have no choice but to attract lack back to you. 

There is no getting around it, feelings of lack attract lack and those feelings are created by the thoughts you think and those thoughts become LAW in the universe. Abundance of all things is your spiritual birthright and if you are not attracting abundance with effortless ease, you are thinking the wrong thoughts and taking the wrong actions for you.

SCREW Pursuing Success! Here's Why! (Article)

Maybe pursuing success works for other people  but it does not work for me. The fact is, it has never worked for me. The more I pursued success the more success would flee from me. It was only when I allowed success to come to me that I was able to be successful.  I am much better at attracting success than I am at pursuing it.  The fact is if you pursue anything coming from fear, you will push it away from you rather than attract it to you. 

Earlier in my life I thought success in business is what I wanted because my Dad and his brothers were successful in business.  After many years of pursuing business success and not achieving it, I realized I had no interest in being successful in business at all. That's was my dad and his brother's dream, not mine. 

My dream was to be me, free and unfettered to do what I wanted to do that pleased and made me happy and that is exactly what I do today. I write this blog and I write books. Specifically I write a lot about the law of attraction because that is what I know best.  The bottom line is when you are doing what you love to do, when you are doing what makes you feel good about being you, when you are doing what makes you happy, being successful is the easiest thing in the world to achieve. If it is not for you, there is a good chance you are pursuing other people's dreams and not your own.  - Frederick Zappone

Be true to yourself and success will find its way home to you


Stop Begging and Groveling (LOA Insight)

If you catch yourself begging or groveling for something from someone or the Universe, STOP it!  Why?  Anything you do to get what you want coming from fear pushes what you want away from you, always keeping it at a distance from you, just outside your reach.

Making Your Brain your SUPER POWER..

All Thoughts have consequences. The first place you feel the consequences of your thoughts is in the body. The only weakness you have is underestimating the power of your thoughts.


Science has proven our brain translates every thought we think into a chemical equivalent and then delivers those chemicals (for better or worse) to every major organ of our body by way of a messenger molecule. This explains why thoughts makes us feel the way they do. Not only does this explain why we feel the way we do but the this discovery means we have the power to heal ourselves of any disease  and make any problem we have (including a lack of love or money) disappear from our life forever.

You don't get what you want out of life, you get what you THINK. Replace thoughts that make you feel weak with thoughts that make you feel strong and  powerful and  powerful and strong you will be come.


Walking Away From Abusers

There is no person you have to tolerate or put up with and if you think you do, you are more into self-abuse than you are self-love. 

Self-love requires us to respect ourselves enough not to tolerate the unacceptable behavior of others.  

When you  put up with the unacceptable behavior of another you becomes that person's ENABLER. 

You are not helping them in the slightest to become a more loving person, you are helping them to become a worse person by keeping that person in your life. Sometimes the best gift you can give to another person is to walk away them so they understand that abusing and disrespect people does not win friends and influence people, it pushes people away from them.

Kicking UNGRATEFUL People out of your life.

Self-love means many things and that includes not tolerating or putting up with the disrespectful and ungrateful behavior of others. Why is this important? Because any time we tolerate or put up with disrepectful or ungrateful people we attract more of the same.

When faced with disrespectful and ungrateful people, it is better to walk away from them and live alone than spend one more second with people who do appreciate and respect the person that you are. 

Allowing disrespectful and ungrateful people to remain in your life is toxic poison to the human soul. These kind of people will not inspire and empower you. Instead they will drain you of your power, rob you of your energy and vitality and  leave you feeling bitter and resentful and not fully understanding why you feel that way.

In the final analysis, it is better to have one person in your life who respects you and is grateful to have you part of their life than a thousand people who do not. 

-- Frederick Zappone, Author


A Low Risk, High Reward Way to PROSPER in 2017

Wealth is not about how lucky or smart you are, it is about having the right beliefs about money. The Tough Love Book About Money shares with you the beliefs you need to make 2017 your most prosperous year ever. Read the 5 STAR reviews and then read the book.  The information in my book will take you out of poverty hell and move you into prosperity heaven where all of your dreams will come true. - Frederick Zappone

PBA (Professional BullSh*t Avoider)

Focus Creates our Personal REALITY

Life is EASY Insight #307

If you really want to know a person, pay more attention to what
they do and less attention to what they say. Words can easily
deceive you, actions never do.


Life is EASY Insight #306

The energy and love we put into something determines how well
that something is received and appreciated by others. It's not what
people see physically that makes them appreciate what you created.
It's the feeling (vibration) your 'physical creation' gives them that
gets that job done.  As an example, two people can cook the exact
same recipe and one dish will taste extraordinary and the other dish
will taste very ordinary. The difference is not in the ingredients
(what you can see), the difference is in what's invisible to the naked
eye, the love and energy they put into making their dish.

Life is EASY Insight #305

Any repeated thoughts, words or actions that do not produce the
results you want is a mental form of self-abuse. Make life EASY
on yourself, think new thoughts and takes fresh actions never
taken before until you get what you want with no effort at all.

Life is EASY Insight #304

When you make a judgment about something, you lock that slice of
reality into place. It remains locked in place until you exchange
your judgment with a thought that gives you new possibilities.

Life is EASY Insight #303

What makes a problem persist is resistance. To make a
problem dissolve, discover what you are resisting (a thought, a
feeling, a person or circumstance) and then allow it to harmlessly
pass you by like clouds in the sky. This will cause it to dissolve.


Life is EASY Insight #302.

Letting people know you appreciate what they do for you 
naturally causes them to want to do more things for you. 
Why? Because appreciation ATTRACTS....

Life is EASY Insight #301

If it feels good, you are doing the right thing for you.
If it feels bad, you are doing the wrong thing for you.

Politically incorrect insight #110.

#110. Never hold in a fart, it puts pressure on your brain and screws up your thinking. In addition, holding in a fart, because of the immense pressure it puts on your brain, causes you to think shitty thoughts.

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