Thinking about the problem makes it Persist (Explained)

You cannot make a problem dissolve by thinking about it, You cannot make the problem go away by focusing on it. Why? 

Because when you are thinking about the problem, your attention is focus on what you DON'T want (the problem) rather than what you DO want (no problem).

The absolute fastest way to make any problem disappear is not to think about it at all. The moment you quit thinking about the problem, the answer to the problem will appear in your mind out of thin air.

If you can't quit thinking about your problem then turn it over to someone else to solve it for you.  It is always easier for someone else to solves our problem for us rather than ourselves. Why? 

Because problems are uncomfortable and as soon as we resist being uncomfortable we become attached to the problem. 

Once we become attached to the problem, it is not possible to solve it until we let go of it. Other people can solves our problems for us much more quickly than we can because they are not attached to them. They have objectivity about our problem that we do not have therefore they are able to clearly see solutions to our problem when all we are able to see are obstacles and roadblocks.

I love our GOD, A God big enough for all of us..

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I kneel before God not because I fear him but because I love and adore him.

I cannot see or touch God but I can always feel the  presence of God within me.

God sends messages of guidance and advice to me by way of my feelings.  Good feelings means I am thinking thoughts that will bring good things too me. 

God is known by many names but the name God prefers to be called is Love.

God gave me 'free will' so I could choose to think thoughts that make me feel connected to God OR think thoughts that make me feel separate from God. I choose to think thoughts that make me feel connected to God.

God lives in the present moment, I choose to live there too.

I surrender to God not as in defeat but as in giving up to God all thoughts and feelings that live in opposition to the good things God wants for me. Good things such as my health, happiness, prosperity, along with my love for God, myself  and all humankind.

God whispered to me, solve your own problems and if you can't, I will help you solve them. If I am not helping you that means I have full confidence in your ability to solve them yourself.

I ask God questions and he always answers me but I must pause after I ask my questions and LISTEN.

God answered me: He said be grateful for what you DO have and more will be  given to you. Complain about what you DON'T have and what you do have will be taken away from you. I say this to you Frederick not because I am cruel but because if you don't appreciate what you do have, why should I allow you to continue to keep it when I can give your good to another who will appreciate it.

The moment I received that answer from God, I immediately began work on becoming the most grateful person in the world. As I learned more and more about the power of gratitude, I felt inspired to write a series of gratitude messages sharing with people everything I knew about Gratitude to make life wonderful. If you would like to receive my FREE gratitude messages, fill in the form below.


 

Letters to God from Anonymous #2

I have this good friend of mine who writes a very private blog where the only way you can see it is by invitation only.  I am so moved and touched by his honest, gritty blog entries I asked permission to reprint some of his entries on my blog.  He has graciously given me permission to reprint any blog entry of his I find noteworthy as long as I don't reveal his real name. Here is one of his entries. - Frederick Zappone

Dear God,

Help me with my addiction of helping other people to the point of making myself sick...  I am addicted to helping other people to the point of abusing myself.  Help me turn the corner on this one.  I know I am doing this because I think by doing this people will like me better and in return take better care of me. 

G. Anonymous

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(After I told God what was on my mind, without me thinking about it because I was in a state of mediation, the following words spontaneously showed up in my mind in response to what I was talking to God about. - G. Anonymous)
 
Dear G.

What you believe is NOT TRUE.  It is not true because people resent receiving help or support from people who are into sacrifice or self abuse.   The reason they resent it is because it makes them feel guilty and obligated to help people in return.  The fact is, no one enjoys doing things for others when they feel guilty or obligated to do so. Quit obligating people and making them feel guilty. If you do, people will naturally and spontaneously, give generously back to you. - GOD

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Prayer of TRUST

Don't know what to do next?? GO PLAY. Here's Why

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When you don't know what to do next, GO PLAY.. Trying to force an answer or solution will stress you out. And if you persist, 99% of the time your desire for an immediate solution or answer will backfire on you and cause you to get into an argument with another person or result in you being upset for no good reason at all.  When you don't know what to do next, admit to yourself you don't know and go play. While playing, the answer will either come to you or you will realize your need for an immediate answer is not necessary at all.

Generally speaking, the UNIVERSE (the God of your understanding) provides answers and knowledge on a need to know basis.  If you don't know, you don't need to know... And if you do need to know, you will.  That's been my experience about knowing.

A relaxed mind solves problem easily. A stressed out mind delays problems 

being solved while a closed mind prevent problems from being solved altogether.

Let Life AMAZE You, I do!...
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The 'Do Nothing' Approach To Problem Solving

If you have a  problem of any kind and you have done everything you know to do to make it disappear from your life and still the problem persists, DO NOTHING. Let me explain.

Putting time and energy into a problem you cannot solve allows it to grow in strength and power over you until you are completely powerless to do anything about the problem.

Often times, with a chronic problem, you are resisting it and fighting with it which makes it persist rather than disappear from your life.  After you have done everything you know to do to make a chronic problem disappear from your life, if you do nothing, one of the following three things will happen to the problem.  

NUMBER 1. The problem will go POOF and disappears from your life for no logical reason you can explain. One day you have the problem and the next day you are aware that the problem is no longer in your life.  

NUMBER 2. In doing nothing to solve your problem, the mind relaxes and when you least expect it, the answer to your problem spontaneously appear in your mind, seemingly out of thin air. And when the answer does appear, even before you apply the answer, you will know with absolutely certainty the answer will solve the problem for you.  (This happens to me a lot.)

NUMBER 3. During the time you are doing nothing to solve your problem a person will show up in your life, unexpectedly, who will solve your problem for you.

To have any one of these three 'problems solving solutions' show up in your life, all you have to do is keep your focus on thoughts and actions that make you feel good to be you. 

Frederick Zappone

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Relaxed

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A relaxed mind solves even the most difficult problems life throws our way with the greatest of ease. A stressed out mind delays problems being solved. A closed mind 
prevent problems from being solved altogether.

Solution

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Rarely is there an instant solution to a problem. A problem is solved 
one moment at a time much like you lose weight one pound at a time.

Release

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You cannot solve a problem until you release the problem.
The moment you mentally release the problem, you create
room in your mind for the answer to spontaneously appear.

Solved

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A relaxed mind solves even the most difficult problems, in life, easily. 
A stressed out mind delays problems being solved. A closed mind 
prevents problems from being solved altogether.

Searchers and Those Seeking Answers

THE PATH TO FREEDOM

Modern times are complicated and troubling filled with fear and yet there is another way to live in this world without being afraid of anything.  Fear is caused by believing that someone or something outside yourself has power over the circumstances of your life. When you deeply realize that no one has control over your life except you, you are set free.  Believing your mother, your father, your spouse, your employer or your government controls your life imprisons you.  Ask your questions and receive answers that will set you free to be you.  You can ask your questions publicly (by leaving a comment below) or privately To ask a private question and receive a personal response, click here
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Problems, Problems!! There is one Answer!

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THERE IS ONE ANSWER FOR EVERY PROBLEM

It doesn't matter if your problems are related to money, relationships, love or health, there is one answer. And that answer is FEELING connected to the 'God of your understanding' in very real and tangible ways.  The connection I am talking about is not pretend or a make believe one.  It is a very real connection that is as real as your arm being connected to your body. 



The connection of your arm to your body is so seamless that without looking you would have a hard time determining where you body ends and your arm begins. Your arm and body are connected to one another in a very real way just as you are connected to the God of your understanding in very real way that you can experience directly, for yourself, if you want.


The reason many people do not experience their connection to God (Source Energy) in real ways is because of a lot of misinformation they received about God over the years. When you experience your connection to God (the organizing intelligence of the universe) in 'real ways' all of your problems begin to melt away, from your life, as if by magic. Experiencing your connection to God illuminates your mind with trustworthy insights, answers, guidance and solutions to whatever is ailing you. And those answers, insights and solutions come to you without effort or struggle.

WHAT STOPS PEOPLE FROM EXPERIENCING THEIR GOD CONNECTION

Often times, the name we use for God has so much baggage attached to it that this baggage (misinformation) prevents us from experiencing our connection to God as being real to us as we experience our arm being real to us. If the name you use for God is stopping you from experiencing in very real ways your connection to God, come up with a name that works for you. A name that is baggage free and allows you to experience God being as real to you as the nose on your face.

GOD CONNECTION TIPS: 

How to know when you are connected to the God of your Understanding.

1. You feel warm and protected, inside and out. You feel safe.

2. You feel a sense of happiness, joy, satisfaction and contentment regardless of your circumstances.

2. When thinking about your faults or shortcomings you only experience love, forgiveness and understanding. You never experience guilt, shame or blame.

3. Unhappy and mean spirited people no longer rob you of your peace of mind.

4. You remember it is God, the Source energy of your life, who is beating your 
heart and causing air to move in and out of your lungs without you giving it a second thought.

5. The more you focus your thoughts on your very real connection to the God of your understanding the more you begin noticing how easy your life is becoming and how problems begin disappearing from your life for no logical reason you can explain.

-- Frederick Zappone


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Focused ATTENTION Solves Problems

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FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS...
 
When faced with a problem, don't focus on it, that will only make it larger. Instead focus on the solution. Focusing on a solution puts you back in control of your life while focusing on the problem keeps you feeling powerless and ineffective, making you the victim of your problem rather than the victor.




WHAT ARE YOU FOCUSING YOUR ATTENTION ON TODAY?

Whatever you focus your attention on the most, you attract more of the same.


Are you focusing your attention on the problem or the solution? Are you focusing your attention on what you don't want or DO WANT?  Whatever you focus your attention on, you attract more of the same. Focus on what makes you happy and you will attract more happiness to you.
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