Blame, The POWER Drainer...

The less you blame yourself and other people for the things gone wrong in your life, the more power you will have to fix the things gone wrong in your life. The more you blame yourself and other people for the things gone wrong in your life, the less power you will have to fix the things gone wrong in your life....  And if you blame yourself and other people long enough, you will end up with no power at all.

The #1 Thing That ROBS People of Their POWER

Blaming yourself or others is like cutting a major artery in your neck and allowing all the blood to drain out.  Blame makes you feel weak, powerless, helpless, hopeless and if the power draining out of your body isn't stopped quickly, it causes your spirit to feel like it is dying.

Blame is the # 1 reason people end up feeling discouraged and depressed. Blame is the #1 reason people end up turning to a life a of crime. Blaming oneself is the #1 reason people commit suicide. 

The moment you start blaming yourself or others, your power bleeds out of you, and if you keep letting it bleed out of you, you will end up feeling like a victim, paralyzed and unable to take action of any kind

No matter what goes wrong in your life, you are not to blame. Blame is a 'disabling condition'. It robs you of  your power and prevents you from turning something bad in your life into something good.

 

My antidote for blame: I am responsible for everything that happens to me in my life with nothing left out. I am responsible for every action I take. I am responsible for every thought I think and every feeling I feel. I am responsible for every situation, circumstance and event that happens to me. Why? Because that makes me a POWERFUL person. On the other hand, blaming myself or others weakens me and takes power away from me. Once I allow a person or situation to take power away from me, I lose my ability to correct the wrongs done to me in an effective, efficient, healthy and responsible manner.

 

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Collecting Your Comments on Blame and Self-Punishment

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In my work I am encountering a lot of people who are into blame and self-punishment.  I am collecting your comments on blame and punishment for an article I am writing.  You can post your comments anonymously if you wish. if you post your comments with your name I will give you credit for your comments if I use them in the article along with a link back to your site.

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What does blame mean to you?

Is it ever good to blame? If it is, when and why?

What do you think causes you (or someone you know) to blame yourself or others?

Do you (or someone you know) ever punish yourself?  If you do, why?

What do you think causes you to punish yourself?

In which ways to you punish yourself.

What does self-punishment look like to you? 

What does self-punishment feel like?  

Do you punish others when hating or disliking yourself.

What other thoughts do you have about blame and self-punishment?  

You can make your comments as long or as short as you want?

 Leave your comment in the comment box below:
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I'm responsible for everything that happens to me, EVERYTHING (Short Article)

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I am responsible for everything that happens to me in my life with nothing left out. I am responsible for every action I take. I am responsible for every thought I think and every feeling I feel. I am responsible for every situation, circumstance and event that happens to me. Why? Because that makes me a POWERFUL person. On the other hand, blaming myself or others weakens me and takes power away from me. Once I allow a person or situation to take power away from me, I lose my ability to correct the wrongs done to me in an effective, efficient, healthy and responsible manner. - Frederick Zappone

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Blameless

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No matter what goes wrong in your life, you are not to blame. Blame is a 'disabling condition' that makes you feel powerless. Blame robs you of your power and prevents you from turning something bad in your life into something good.

Power

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Blame is what people do when they give their 'personal power' away to others.

Blame

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You do know that blaming others (or yourself) robs 
you of your personal power. There is no power
in blaming, only a loss of power.

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