I am Resisting My Good. I Am Doing It To Myself. Have You Ever Had The Kind Of Experience I'm having?

Have you ever felt like you were resisting your good? Have you ever felt like you were resisting something that's stopping your good from finding its way home to you. I have and I am. I'll give you a concrete example. 

Many people have blogs like mine and they make their living by asking people to support their blog writings with a donation. I do the same thing as they do. The difference is no matter how interesting, informative or entertaining my blog posts are NO ONE donates to me. 

The fact that no one donates to me in support of my writings defies all statistical odds and yet I intuitively know I am 'energetically' blocking people from donating. I don't know how I do that but I do know that I am.

I take full responsibility for no one donating to me in support of my writings.   I take this responsibility even though I don't know exactly how I am blocking people from donating. I do know that I am somehow sending out an invisible 'do not donate' to me vibration otherwise people would donate in support of my blog writings.  

I blame no one for not donating to me except myself. This much I do know,  I have to quit blaming myself for the fact that no one supports my writing with their donations? Why? Because when I blame myself, all of my power to have a 'donation breakthrough' bleeds right out of me. 

When I blame myself I become a victim of my situation rather than victorious over my situation. By taking full responsibility, I am empowered to find a solution to my problem rather than ending up being a hopeless victim of it.   

Frederick Zappone

Hope is FOREVER, Hopelessness is Temporary

Feeling hopeless does not mean you are hopeless, it is only  feeling that will change when you change your thoughts. 

Feeling hopeless most often shows up in our life when we are focused on what we DON'T want rather than what we DO want. 

Feeling hopeless turns to hope when you realize that your desire for something will show you the way when there appears to be no way. 

At the end of your ROPE? Without hope? This is for you!

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I wanted to give up time after time. In fact, there were times I wanted to give up every single day of my life for three straight years after my daughter died, unexpectedly, due to medical negligence. She died leaving four little girls behind ages eight to 18 months old.  I hurt so bad that that I wanted to give up living but I didn't because of a driving force inside of me called LOVE.

The love I had for my daughter and the love my daughter had for me...  My daughter made me a believer in love, she made me understand there was nothing more powerful than love but you couldn't just speak the words, you had to turn love into action and that's what I do every single day of my life..... 

I share my love with others, up on this blog, through my words. I make life easier for others to compensate for how tough life was for me.  No one should have to suffer like I suffered. And because I suffered so much, I committed myself, through my writings, to lessen the suffering of others.  

I share this with you not to have you feel sorry for me but to let you know that no matter how tough life is for you, you can turn your pain into power. If I can do it, you can too.

Love Makes Problems VANISH into Thin Air
Love Transforms Pain into POWER

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When the world says, “Give up,” Hope whispers, “Try it one more time.” - Author Unknown


When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. - Franklin D. Roosevelt


Consider the postage stamp: its usefulness consists in the ability to stick to one thing till it gets there. - Josh Billings


Fall seven times, stand up eight. - Japanese Proverb


It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer. - Albert Einstein


Perseverance is not a long race; it is many short races one after another. - Walter Elliott


Don’t be discouraged. It’s often the last key in the bunch that opens the lock. - Author Unknown


If we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking. - Buddhist Saying


Keep on going, and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down. - Charles F. Kettering


Most people never run far enough on their first wind to find out they’ve got a second. - William James


Difficult things take a long time, impossible things a little longer.
- Author Unknown


Don’t let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it. The time will pass anyway; we might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use. - Earl Nightingale


Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My strength lies solely in my tenacity. - Louis Pasteur


If you are going through hell, keep going. - Winston Churchill


Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go. - William Feather


Paralyze resistance with persistence. - Woody Hayes


All right Mister, let me tell you what winning means… you’re willing to go longer, work harder, give more than anyone else. - Vincent Lombardi


Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. - Thomas Edison


How long should you try? Until. - Jim Rohn   

Inspiring Story About False HOPE

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Often times we hear people say you shouldn't give people false hope and to those people, I say phooey!  In my opinion, false hope is better than no hope at all.  Years ago, in Texas, a close friend of mine came down with a terminal illness. The doctors were doing all they could but he wasn't getting better. Finally one doctor told my friend his disease was fatal and he was going to die. The doctor telling my friend that outraged me.

The reason he outraged me is because no Doctor knows when anyone is going to die, only God knows that. Anyhow, I was so p*ssed off about what the doctor told my friend, that, in part, out of spite towards the doctor I fed my friend daily MEGA doses of false hope. 

I figured the worst that could happen is that my convincing stories of false hope would make my friend feel better and the best that could happen is a miracle would take place. Guess what? A miracle did take place and to this day, thirty years later, my friend credits my stories of false hope as the turning point in his life. He called it a turning point because my 'false hope' stories motivated my friend to get his will back to live and live he did. The moral of this little story, never underestimate the power of the human mind to create a miracle in someone's life, yours or someone elses.


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At the end of your ROPE?

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Feeling depressed, hopeless, helpless, powerless, victimized or suicidal, If you are, push the panic button for articles that will get you back into that feeling good state of mind as quickly as possible. All thoughts have consequences and the first place you feel the consequences of your thoughts is in your body. Change your thoughts, the moment you do, your feelings begin changing too. - Frederick Zappone
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Redux

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Today, we are revisiting this thought:  It is true, sometimes you feel powerless but just because you feel powerless doesn't mean you are powerless.  It is only a feeling that you can change any time you want simply by changing your thoughts.

Power

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Blame is what people do when they give their 'personal power' away to others.

Self-Trust

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When you don't fully trust yourself, feelings of depression wash over you,
you start losing hope in yourself and worry, fear and anxiety begin making
a permanent home in your mind. The absence of trust, more than any other
virtue, has doomed many good men and women to failure.
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Hope

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There is always hope and  a way out from underneath 
depression and despair when you change how you think

At the end of your Rope? Tie a Knot in it and Hang on.

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The fastest way through a negative feeling is to feel what you feel. At first the feeling will intensify and then it will begin softening until you do not experience the negative feeling at all. Resisting a negative feeling makes it stronger and postpones the inevitable of dissolving it naturally by feeling what you feel. Negative feelings are trapped emotional energy moving deeper into your body rather than through it. When you 'feel what you feel,' you are in the process of releasing those feelings.

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For People Without HOPE

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These message links for people without hope at the end of their rope:

Thoughts that don't work (Add yours to the list)

Life is an Attitude!

One Problem

One Enemy

Desire

Don't have enough Money?

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Insights for Daily Living, June 02, 2008 - BACK ISSUE

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