Trust your GOOD FEELINGS 100% of the time.

Trusting my 'good feelings' 100% of the time takes practice. If something doesn't feel good to me, I don't do it no matter how many people tell me it's good for me.  Other people don't live in my shoes or in my head 24/7, they don't know what I am dealing with therefore only I have the right to decide what I should and should not do.  In truth, I do whatever I want to do when I want to do it as long as it doesn't harm another in any way. 

I do not allow people to manipulate me or hold me emotional hostage by attempting to make me feel bad. If people want to have a 'grown up' relationship with me they have to be willing to be 100% responsible for their own thoughts, feeling and actions because I won't be...  

The fact is, I can't be, I can only be 100% responsible for my own thoughts, feelings and actions. Being 100% responsible for my own thoughts, feeling and actions is a full-time job and if anyone thinks I should also be responsible for their thoughts, feelings or actions they don't know anything about personal responsibility.

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Excerpted from my forthcoming Book:
FUN, PLAY, LIVING LIFE MY WAY
(If it ain't Easy, it ain't working for me)
Copyright 2019 By Frederick Zappone
Previously published books can be previewed here
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I am Resisting My Good. I Am Doing It To Myself. Have You Ever Had The Kind Of Experience I'm having?

Have you ever felt like you were resisting your good? Have you ever felt like you were resisting something that's stopping your good from finding its way home to you. I have and I am. I'll give you a concrete example. 

Many people have blogs like mine and they make their living by asking people to support their blog writings with a donation. I do the same thing as they do. The difference is no matter how interesting, informative or entertaining my blog posts are NO ONE donates to me. 

The fact that no one donates to me in support of my writings defies all statistical odds and yet I intuitively know I am 'energetically' blocking people from donating. I don't know how I do that but I do know that I am.

I take full responsibility for no one donating to me in support of my writings.   I take this responsibility even though I don't know exactly how I am blocking people from donating. I do know that I am somehow sending out an invisible 'do not donate' to me vibration otherwise people would donate in support of my blog writings.  

I blame no one for not donating to me except myself. This much I do know,  I have to quit blaming myself for the fact that no one supports my writing with their donations? Why? Because when I blame myself, all of my power to have a 'donation breakthrough' bleeds right out of me. 

When I blame myself I become a victim of my situation rather than victorious over my situation. By taking full responsibility, I am empowered to find a solution to my problem rather than ending up being a hopeless victim of it.   

Frederick Zappone

The #1 Thing That ROBS People of Their POWER

Blaming yourself or others is like cutting a major artery in your neck and allowing all the blood to drain out.  Blame makes you feel weak, powerless, helpless, hopeless and if the power draining out of your body isn't stopped quickly, it causes your spirit to feel like it is dying.

Blame is the # 1 reason people end up feeling discouraged and depressed. Blame is the #1 reason people end up turning to a life a of crime. Blaming oneself is the #1 reason people commit suicide. 

The moment you start blaming yourself or others, your power bleeds out of you, and if you keep letting it bleed out of you, you will end up feeling like a victim, paralyzed and unable to take action of any kind

No matter what goes wrong in your life, you are not to blame. Blame is a 'disabling condition'. It robs you of  your power and prevents you from turning something bad in your life into something good.

 

My antidote for blame: I am responsible for everything that happens to me in my life with nothing left out. I am responsible for every action I take. I am responsible for every thought I think and every feeling I feel. I am responsible for every situation, circumstance and event that happens to me. Why? Because that makes me a POWERFUL person. On the other hand, blaming myself or others weakens me and takes power away from me. Once I allow a person or situation to take power away from me, I lose my ability to correct the wrongs done to me in an effective, efficient, healthy and responsible manner.

 

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I'm responsible for everything that happens to me, EVERYTHING (Short Article)

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I am responsible for everything that happens to me in my life with nothing left out. I am responsible for every action I take. I am responsible for every thought I think and every feeling I feel. I am responsible for every situation, circumstance and event that happens to me. Why? Because that makes me a POWERFUL person. On the other hand, blaming myself or others weakens me and takes power away from me. Once I allow a person or situation to take power away from me, I lose my ability to correct the wrongs done to me in an effective, efficient, healthy and responsible manner. - Frederick Zappone

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