Wednesday

Be-ing Yourself - Part II

If you feel uncomfortable around any person or in any situation that is a signal which is alerting you to the fact that you are not being yourself. The only reason we will not allow ourselves "to be ourselves" in all situations and around all people is because we believe "being ourselves" will not be good enough or acceptable to other people.



Being nervous or anxious is a sign you are not being yourself. Being yourself is all you have. Accept that what you have is good enough for other people and in all situations and it will be.......


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Encouraging WORDS Master List #1

Be-ing Yourself - Part I - Nothing Works in my Life - You Can't Make a Mistake... - God is Touchable - Being Fearless - God is.... - Child God - Adult God - Questions & Answers About God - The "What Works" Philosophy - Drop Guilt, Blame and Shame... - You are CAUSE! - Joe, He Protests Too Much!!! - Why we must choose what we have... - Getting What You Want - You are Divine, A One of a Kind... - You can't be Depressed - The Cause of Confusion - Habits, Conditions, Problems - Victim or Victorious?? - The Key To Self-Mastery - By Your Thoughts - Simple, Powerful Words of Encouragement - Life is Easy... - When you don't know... - Thoughts Controlling You! - F.E.A.R. is an acronym - What Discouragement Tells Us. - Why worry! - Changing what you see. - Feelings become Reality - Expect Prosperity My Rule of Prosperity - Giving-Receiving - Control - It becomes what you make it. - A Question About Celebrities - A Celebrity Question - Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow - Some of the Best - Take your 2007 Vacation Cruise With Me... - How you feel about yourself. - Attraction Magnet II - Choose from These Encouraging WORDS - What is acceptance? - What causes suffering? - Wisdom from Suffering - Random Thoughts & Insights III - Random Thoughts & Insights II - Random Thoughts & Insights - Believe it or not! - Hey God #1330 - Inspirational Cruise + Top 28 List - Perfectionist, Phooey! - Depression in my opinion - Intention - Word of Mouth - Love - Leave Your Weaknesses Alone.. - Creating Magic in your life... - It takes hard work to be poor. - Resisting, Fighting, Hating - Raising your Vibes - Stuck in Scarcity... - Prosperity Tip #123 - Why fear not? - Life's Big Joke.... - Your Point of POWER - Prosperity Tip #124 - Feeling Good - Attraction - Prosperity Tip #125 - Increased Prosperity - You are Valuable - Feeling Uptight, Rigid?? - Changing Circumstances Quickly! - God Wants Nothing from you! - Give Up Guilt and Blame - Focus on Abundance - The Problem: Scarcity - The Cure: Gratitude - Lousy day - Feel it, Have it. - Dissolving Negative Feelings - Feels Real... - Language of Feelings - Know Your Feelings - Feeling Good/Feeling Bad - Thoughts Thinking You - Thoughts/Feelings - What Feeling Do You Fear? - If it Feels Real, It Is Real! - Honoring Negative Feelings - Trust Your Feelings




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Be-ing Yourself - Part I

When you are be-ing yourself you never worry.
When you are be-ing yourself you never feel stressed out.
When you are be-ing yourself you never feel ill at ease in your own skin.
When you are be-ing yourself you find yourself happy and joyful for no reason at all.


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Nothing Works in my Life

Question: Nothing I do works in my life? What should I do?

Answer: Chances are, if nothing you are doing is working in your life, it is because you are not being yourself. You are trying to be what other people want you to be or what you think God wants you to be..... Be yourself and things will start working for you!



I cried out to God and he cried back to me; "BE YOURSELF and you will be set
free from all the thoughts and feelings that make you suffer needlessly..."



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Monday

You Can't Make a Mistake...

Did you know when you ALLOW yourself to experience "oneness with God" in the here and now that you can't make a mistake.... When you are one with God, in the here and now, you do what works and whatever you do works. This is called a state of grace.


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God is Touchable
Being Fearless
God is....
Child God - Adult God
Questions & Answers About God


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God is Touchable

God is "user friendly."
God is reachable and touchable directly by all.
God wants us to use his powers for the good of all concerned.

God works through us and unless we are open to God working through us, God can't soften the hearts, minds and souls of others. God does not preach dogma and doctrine, only people who have the need to control others do that. All men and women of God are human, never forget that and you will never experience a false God before you.


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Being Fearless

There is nothing to fear when you experience yourself "one with God" in the here and now. There is everything to fear when you do not...


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God is....

God is Evolutionary
God is Revolutionary
God is infinite without end.....
God is one with all there is.....

God is one with us all and that makes us one with each other. God is the Hub and we are the spokes and together we make the wheel, the circle of life, whole and complete.


The only SIN there is, is experiencing yourself SEPARATE from God in the here and now. Separation from God is the cause of pain.... Union, an experience of oneness, with God in the here and now eliminates pain......

Child God - Adult God

The relationship we developed with God during our childhood affects our relationship with every single person we meet as an adult. If we had a kind, loving, understanding, easy going relationship with God during our growing up years then that is the kind of relationship we will have with others during our adults years. On the other hand, if our relationship with God during our growing up years was one of fear, doubt, worry, and distrust, then that is the kind of relationship we will have with others during our adult years. Our parents determine what our understanding of God is. If our parents were kind, gentle and understanding then we see God that way. If our parents were cruel, demanding, impatience, punishing and judgmental, then we see God that way.


The way we saw God as a Child was determined by our parents.

The way we see God as an Adult is determined by us......



Tuesday

Questions & Answers About God

Question: Who is God?

Answer: God is the all knowing, all loving, non-judgmental, organizing intelligence of the universe. The God you know, the one organized religion taught you is a lesser God made in the image and likeness of those men and women who taught you about God.



Question: What is a False God?

Answer: Anyone who makes you fear God in any way or makes you fear being punished by God is teaching you about a false God. If you fear your God, you fear a false God, not the God of unconditional love, happiness and generosity I know....



Question: Does God answer all prayers?

Answer: Yes, every single one of them... Your job is to allow the answers in.....



Question: What is prayer?

Answer: Every thought you think is a prayer to God. God does not judge your prayers, he only acts on them thus giving you the good or bad things you think about the most.



Question: What is Worry?

Answer: Lack of faith in God to care for, love, guide and protect you always and in all ways...



Question: If God will solve all of my problems for me what I am suppose to do?

Answer: Be happy, have fun and take action on any thought that inspires you. If a thought makes you feel good, that is God talking to you....



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Monday

The "What Works" Philosophy

Do what you do because "it works" for you and not because other people say you should or should not do it. It does not matter if other people agree with what you do. What matters is if what you do works for you. If it does, keep doing what you are doing. If it doesn't, quit doing what you are doing and find something that does work for you.


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Drop Guilt, Blame and Shame...
You are CAUSE!
Joe, He Protests Too Much!!!
Why we must choose what we have...
Getting What You Want
You are Divine, A One of a Kind...
You can't be Depressed
The Cause of Confusion
Habits, Conditions, Problems
Victim or Victorious??



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Drop Guilt, Blame and Shame...

As long as you hold onto guilt, blame or shame, you cannot have what you want. Guilt, blame and shame are man-made emotions (not of God) and are programmed into us as small children as a way to control us and prevent us from having the love, health, happiness and prosperity we desire as adults. Love, health, happiness and prosperity are our spiritual birthright and only guilt, blame and shame prevents us from having those things in abundance.

Drop guilt, blame, shame like you would drop a hot coal. They are toxic poison to the soul.

You are CAUSE!

Yes, you are the "cause" of all that you have.... Notice how you have no problem accepting you are cause of all the good things you have in your life........ Now notice how unwilling you are to accept the fact you are the "cause" of all the bad things in your life.

Bad things don't happen to us by accident..... By the thoughts we think, the choices we make and the actions we take we bring into existence every event that unfolds in our lives, the good, the bad and the ugly.

Read Related Links:

Joe, He Protests Too Much!!!
Why we must choose what we have...
Getting What You Want


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Joe, He Protests Too Much!!!

Joe: No, no, no I am not responsible for being depressed, for being sick, for lacking money and having no love in my life It is not possible for me to be responsible for those things. It would hurt too much for me to be responsible for those things, the guilt would overwhelm me if I took responsibility for those things....


The truth is by Joe not taking responsibility for the things he protests about his pain and guilt will only get worse until he does... Acknowledging he caused all the unpleasant conditions he has in his life will set him free and empowers him while not taking responsibility makes him a victim of life and prevents him from creating his future life exactly the way he wants it to be.


Read Related Links:

Why we must choose what we have...

Getting What You Want


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Why we must choose what we have...

If you have some unpleasant situation or circumstance in your life, you must choose what you have before you can have something different. By choosing the unpleasant situation or circumstances, you acknowledge you are responsible for bringing it into your life in the first place. If you do not choose it, it will persist, that is universal law.....and no one escapes the consequences of universal law, no one....

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Getting What You Want



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Getting What You Want

In order to get what you want, you must choose what you have....

This sounds like a paradox but it isn't. Let me explain by starting with a quotation from Eckhart Tolle's book titled: Stillness Speaks.

"True freedom and the end of suffering is living in such a way as if you had completely chosen whatever you feel or experience in the moment."

If you are experiencing conflict (in the moment) and want peace, you must choose the conflict you are experiencing NOW. As long as you resist the conflict you are experiencing, in the moment, you will continue to experience conflict in your future moments of living.

If you suffer from lack or scarcity of money, in the moment, you must choose the scarcity you are experiencing NOW otherwise you will continue to experience scarcity and lack of money in your future moments of living.

If you are ill and want to experience fully restored health, you must choose the illness that you are experiencing NOW. As long as you resist your illness, in this moment, you will continue to experience your illness in your future moments of living.

Resistance makes undesirable conditions persist. Resistance is futile because it doesn't work. It doesn't change anything in our life, it doesn't improve anything and it doesn't make undesirable conditions disappear from our life.

If you have a "rule" that experiencing unhappiness, conflict, anger, scarcity or illness is a bad thing to do, you will resist what you are experiencing. And whatever you resist will continue to persist in your life until "you choose" what you are experiencing NOW.

In order to move beyond what you have (illness, unhappiness, lack of money) to what you want (happiness, fully restored health, love and money in abundance) you must, IN THE MOMENT, choose the condition/s you have now.


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Saturday

You are Divine, A One of a Kind...

The only time you can feel discouraged is when you are believing LIES about yourself. A lie is anything said or done to you that makes you feel less than the magnificent, powerful, lovable person you truly are. If people really understood their true nature, which is divine in origin, they would never feel discouraged.

When people treat you with less respect than they would Royalty, it is simply because they are not recognizing their own divine nature. A person who recognizes their own divine nature will never make you feel less than the magnificent person you truly are...

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Friday

You can't be Depressed

When you know you are a person of power, a powerful person, you cannot be depressed. Depression is a result of the thoughts we think and SUPRESS. Think about this for a moment, when you are feeling depressed, what are you depressing? What thoughts and feelings are you depressing? A person of power never depresses themselves, they fully express themselves.

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The Cause of Confusion

Self-doubt is the cause of confusion. Only when you doubt yourself can you experience confusion. When you stop doubting yourself "clarity of thought" returns home to you.

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Habits, Conditions, Problems

There is no habit you can not break. There is no condition that you cannot cure and there is no problem that you cannot solve.... It all has to do with your WILL, INTENTION AND RESOLVE.

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Victim or Victorious??

Being a victim will get you sympathy but it won't get you what you want. All "victim thoughts" have one purpose and that is to make you doubt how magnificent and powerful you truly are and prevent you from making your dreams come true.

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The Key To Self-Mastery

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When you are in charge of your thoughts rather than allowing your thoughts to be in charge of you, that is when you are the master of your life.
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By Your Thoughts

By your thoughts you got yourself into this predicament and by your thoughts you will get yourself out of this predicament!

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Thursday

Simple, Powerful Words of Encouragement

Focus on what makes you happy and more thoughts will enter your mind that make you happy. Focus on what troubles you and more thoughts will enter your mind that trouble you.

Whatever you focus your attention on, in life, MULTIPLIES.................

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Life is Easy...

Life is as easy as you make it depending upon the thoughts you choose to think. If you made the decision earlier in your life that LIFE WAS HARD, you have collected evidence for many years now that life is hard and will reject my notion that life is easy.... According to your thoughts so shall it be for you.....and it always is...

The biggest mistake people make is underestimating the part their thoughts played in creating the circumstances they have today.

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When you don't know...

There are times in your life when you are faced with problems and don't know the answers to them. When you don't know the answers to your problems, make that okay with you and that will make room for the answers to your problems to appear, spontaneously, in your mind with no effort at all on your part required...

Resistance or non-acceptance of the fact you don't know the answer to a problem will keep that problem in your life for a long, long, long time.

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Thoughts Controlling You!

When you are discouraged, stressed out or feeling pressure that is because your thoughts are thinking you rather than you thinking your thoughts.

Thoughts that are "thinking you" are negative subconscious thoughts. They appear more powerful than your conscious thoughts because they are running on automatic pilot outside your conscious control. Allow those thoughts to pass you by like clouds in the sky and they will do you no harm.

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Wednesday

F.E.A.R. is an acronym

Question: What is Fear?

Answer: F.E.A.R. is an acronym and stands for


False
Evidence
Appearing
Real


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What Discouragement Tells Us.


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Discouragement tells us we are trying too hard. It tells us we are pushing up against walls rather than finding the doors. It tells us we have given it our best effort and that we should rest a while. It is telling us we should go play and come back refreshed and deal with the challenges life has thrown our way on another day..

Discouragement is not defeat or failure for those who know better. It is a much needed rest stop along the way, telling us to chill out, relax, unwind and treat ourselves with gifts fit for a King. It is telling us to meditate a little and reflect on those things that make our heart soar.

When I am discouraged I use that as an opportunity to see into my future rather than dwelling on any unpleasantness that surrounds me in my present moments of time. I do not deny "what is", in the "here and now", I simply look beyond it to what will be." It is the vision of where we are going that sets us free.


Anytime you criticize yourself in any way you injure yourself in some way.

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Tuesday

Why worry!


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What you worry about the most always come true, so why worry!

If you fear worry, worry will rule your life...

Worry is fear thought, dimiss it as a thought not worthy of you..

If you must worry, worry about how you are going to spend all the money you are attracting into your life.

If you must worry, worry about having to say "NO" to all the women who want to make love to you.

If you must worry, worry about something that makes you feel good about yourself....



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Changing what you see.

If you see a situation or circumstance that's not going the way you want it to go, change it by changing your thoughts about it. Your thoughts influence how your situation or circumstance will turn out. The mistake most people make is they allow the situation or circumstance to influence their thoughts rather than using their thoughts to influence the situation or circumstance.


It is not over till it is over..... and up to the very last second, through the power of your thoughts, you can change how a situation or circumstance will turn out.

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Feelings become Reality

You can not attract prosperity into your life if what you feel is its opposite. Feeling what you want is the first step to having what you want.


Feel Prosperous and you will be prosperous, it is the law..


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Expect Prosperity

Expect nothing back from people and that is exactly what you will receive. Expect that what you give to others will always come back to you multiplied but not necessarily from the people you give it too! Positive Expectancy opens the doors to abundant prosperity


Be open to prosperity entering your life. Do not worry when and how the prosperity you desire will be given to you... You cannot receive unless you are open to receiving.


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My Rule of Prosperity

What I generously give to others is always multiplied back to me 10 times and more. It may not come back to me from the one I generously gave to but it does always come back to me multiplied, sooner or later, from another.

Stay open, trust, and you will begin seeing abundance appearing everywhere.

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Giving-Receiving

Be generous with people and they will be generous with you. Give nothing to other people and they will give nothing back to you. Other people will only give back to you what you have given them therefore the more you freely give to others of your time, talent, wisdom and money, the more they will give back to you.

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Control

You have no control over whether people will like you or not. You have no control over what they think, feel and do... You only have control over what you think, feel and do.....and what you think feel and do influences how other people will think of you.

The more you love and appreciate yourself, the more other people will do



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Monday

It becomes what you make it.

You have a pain or discomfort and you make it mean something and that's what it becomes. According to your thoughts so shall it be for you and it always is...


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Sunday

A Question About Celebrities

Question: Why do so many actors seem to lead such troubled lives? I do acting in our local theater and have considered becoming a professional but I wanted to be mentally prepared before I take that step.

Answer: An actor is someone who pretends a lot. That is what they do when they play roles. They pretend they are someone else and when "pretending" spills over into their real life that is when trouble begins for them. While being a famous actor seems glamorous, it is a very demanding life. Actors have to go to extraordinary lengths to maintain their "privacy" that most people take for granted. The more fame and money you have, the bigger your problems. If you are seeking fame and fortune just be sure you are up to the challenges that will come your way when you finally achieve the success you desire.


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A Celebrity Question

Question: I have all the money I want but I feel trapped, not happy. The life I am living is no longer my own.

Answer: You got into the business when you were too young and other people controlled everything about your life. The talent you have is yours, no one can take that from you. If you are not happy with the life you are living, put enough money aside so can live a modest life without worrying about paying your bills. Once you do that, fire your manager and become in charge of your destiny and don't worry about what other people think. Elvis worried too much about what other people thought about him and that led him to taking an enormous amount of drugs to maintain his showbiz image and it killed him. If you are being untrue to yourself and allowing other people to control your life, you probably find yourself drinking and drugging more than you would like. Happy people don't overdose on alcohol and drugs, they overdose on living life to the fullest.

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Saturday

Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow


Patrick taught himself how to paint. He followed his bliss, his passion, never worried about selling his painting. He didn't give it a second thought and by word of mouth his paintings started selling on their own.....all a result of being true to himself and doing what he loved to do... When you do what you love to do that makes you feel good about yourself you automatically attract people into your life that make your dreams comes true. Doing what you love to do makes you the ULTIMATE attraction magnet. Read Related link: Attraction Magnet...

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Some of the Best





There are over 740 Encouraging WORDS messages on this site. The links below include some of my favorites that I have pulled up from the bottom of the pile. - Frederick Zappone


Love Yourself with Gentleness
Trust Yourself, Live The Life You Want.
The Source of Unhappiness
Watch your FOCUS Folks!
Magic in Acceptance....
Wave the Magic Wand...
Life is....
Question about Thoughts of Love
The Simplicity of LIFE...
In The Spirit of Play...
Your Day, Was it Beautiful?
A Real SHOCKER about the Truth...
Climbing the MOUNTAIN of Life...
Miracles in Reverse

Take your 2007 Vacation Cruise With Me...



If you haven't checked out the 2007 Eastern Caribbean Cruise (includes Bermuda) and Encouraging WORDS Seminar, you can do so now by Clicking Here . When you click on this link, it will give you a complete description of the cruise along with the cruise itinerary.

This is an incredible 9 Days/8 Nights cruise beginning at the price so low anyone can afford it. Cabin space is limited so reservations are accepted on a first come first serve basis. All Travel arrangement are made through and guaranteed by AAA. I will be your host for this trip and will be conducting the Encouraging WORDS Seminar. - Frederick Zappone

How you feel about yourself.

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If you want to FEEL GOOD about yourself most of the time you can not make how you feel about yourself dependent on any person, situation or event outside yourself. If you do, you will be a hopeless yo-yo, feeling good one minute and feeling bad the next depending upon the ups and downs of the people and circumstances outside of yourself.


Feeling Good about yourself is dependent on you and the thoughts you think.


In my own life, I always choose to think thoughts that make me feel good about myself. If something happens outside myself that could put me into a down mood, I immediately look for the good in the event. If I can't immediately find the good, I shift my thoughts to something that does makes me feel good about myself. I do this because I know my feelings are cosmic magnets that attract to me or push away from me the things I want in life.

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How to Become an Attraction Magnet

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Attraction Magnet II

Your feelings attract people, events and circumstances to you.. People normally do not think of their feelings as "cosmic magnets" but they are. If you don't believe me, look at who and what you are attracted too. You are attracted to singers, actors, muscians, sports stars and entertainers that turn you on and make you feel good about yourself, that is the "attraction magnet" at work....

The "attraction magnet" works with everything including whether or not you attract love, sickness or money into your life. Many people don't believe they "attract" those things, into their lives, especially disease. They think disease hits people randomly and so for those people it does. Those people have their "attraction magnet" set on "RANDOM so it skips cancer for them but they attract a stroke or heart attack.

Feeling Good about yourself is not only the most important thing, it is the only thing. If you worked on maintaining a high level of feeling good about yourself day in and day out, you will attract into your life the very best people, events and circumstances for yourself that you can, all the time, everytime, guaranteed.


Your feelings are the COSMIC MAGNET that attract all people and events to you.


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Trust Your Feelings
Becoming an Attraction Magnet..

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Choose from These Encouraging WORDS

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Feeling Good/Feeling Bad

Thoughts Thinking You

Thoughts/Feelings

What Feeling Do You Fear?

If it Feels Real, It Is Real!

Honoring Negative Feelings

Trust Your Feelings

Relationship Between Thoughts & Feelings

Your Feelings Can Kill You!

Trust Yourself, Live The Life You Want.

Our Powerful Mind!

There is a new way of thinking

Fear of Loss

Feeling Sorry

Crazy Thinking is the Best Kind

A Strange kind of Wanting...

The Truth

Hang On

Compliments

Be Compassionate

God doesn't create junk

Upsetting Thoughts

Self-Acceptance

15 Thoughts for Successful Living

Letting Go of the Painful Past

Smiling at his problems.

He had plenty of Faith

If you believe

Trusting Impulses, Urgings, Promptings

Come from your Center of Gravity

Self-Help Insights About Luck

Self-Help Insight About Feelings

Self-Help Insight from a Kid's Game

Self-Help One Liners - Part I

Searching for Answers?

What are you grateful for today?

Prosperity - Abundance

Did you do what you loved today?

Why Perfectionists Fail....

Friday

What is acceptance?

Hey God #1296 from the Hey God Series

Question: Hey God, I understand if I ACCEPT an impossible problem or situation even for one second, it will completely dissolve and disappear from my life, of its own accord, is that true?

Answer: Yes, acceptance is about fully and completely accepting "what is" in the moment. It is not about accepting something as final, terminal or forever. It is about fully accepting the circumstance or condition as "it is" in the moment. Intellectually that is easy for people to do, however, full emotional acceptance is a bit different. You have to emotionally "invite in" what you want to emotionally accept in the moment, sometimes aggressively so. For example if you have cancer and told it is terminal, for one moment you have to fully intellectually and emotionally accept what was told to you. What was told to you doesn't mean it is the truth. It only means that is what was told to you. If you resist what was told to you, it will persist and it will become the truth. Accepting fully, for one moment, what has been said to you will begin the miracle healing process of the cancer vanishing from your body naturally in accordance with my laws. This process of "acceptance" works in healing any disease or condition.

What causes suffering?

Suffering is caused by resisting" what is" and resistance is caused by judging "what is" as a bad thing. It doesn't matter if "what is" is a bad thing, resisting "what is" is futile and will only cause you to suffer more. Accepting "what is" is the first step to turning what you judge to be a bad thing into something good for yourself...

Wisdom from Suffering

Suffering is not a bad thing nor is it all that painful... It the resistance to suffering that causes pain. What keeps people stuck in the "suffering mode" is their resistance to suffering. People hold their suffering at a distance like an enemy rather than a friend they have not yet met. Invite your suffering it, it will become your friend and share wisdom with you that will cause you to suffer no more.

When suffering comes to visit you, do not curse it, embrace it for it has much wisdom to share with you. Suffering won't kill you, it will make you a wiser, stronger and a more compassionate human being. All the wisdom I have gained in my life was a result of suffering first. I suffered and then wisdom flooded my mind that freed me from my suffering. These days, I compare my personal suffering to giving birth to a baby. A mother suffers much when giving birth and experiences great joy after the baby is born that makes all of her suffering worthwhile. The same is true of my suffering. My suffering is the mental and emotional labor pains I must go through before the birth of new wisdom can enter my mind that sets me free from my suffering and makes me a wiser, stronger, more compassionate human being...




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Random Thoughts & Insights III

We lose those we love so that we might awaken to how precious life really is and be grateful for what we have rather than moaning and groaning about what we don't have....

When someone treats us unkindly we learn how to treat others with great kindness.

The burden of living tomorrow would not be a burden at all if we could leave our past behind.

Purpose, any purpose at all, large or small, that makes us happy, makes life worth living. Without purpose, there is no reason to live and then life becomes hard, very hard.

Strangers can love you easier than family because strangers have no history with you that they can hold against you.

Reaching out is hard but reaching out is what it takes to save yourself from drowning.

Lavishing your children with unconditional love and acceptance once they leave the house is something that will make your children "forgive and forget" all the things you did wrong to them during their growing up years.

Random Thoughts & Insights II

Without money to separate us from one another we might discover we need each other.

If money is the way we keep score of how successful we are, then the teachers, nurses, caretakers, caregivers and social workers of the world are not very successful at all.

You have no right to build an 80 million dollar home when those around you are starving to death. Although I complain about how much money you spent on your house, if I was in your position, I would be just as selfish as you and do the same thing... Jealousy of your financial success makes me righteous about the lack of mine...

You always want the most what you cannot have..

Happiness is accepting what is, not what was or what will be.

The truth is not always pretty, sometimes it is downright ugly but the truth always works.


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Random Thoughts & Insights

Competition is not kindness, cooperation is.

You are perfect in every way until you compare yourself with another.

Only people who live in fear feel the need to do violence to others.

Everything you see, read and hear makes a difference in your life and sometimes it is the smallest things that make the biggest difference.

If every person treated themselves with greater kindness, compassion, love and self-understanding, imagine how well they would treat other people.

Mental suffering begins when we live outside the moment.

Everyone is allowed to suffer in order that we can grow in compassion and sensitivity towards the suffering of others.

Suffering cuts down on our ability to be selfish.

If we truly saw all others as our sisters and brothers, it would be much easier to create a world that works for everyone with no one left out.