🌞 Accusing, JUDGING, Blaming Others Is Killing Us.

 
It seems to me that accusing, judging and blaming people for a a wide variety of  'wrongdoings' is the political correct thing to do today. 

I, for one, cannot do that. I cannot even accuse, judge or blame the people who accuse, judge and blame other people because I do not live in their shoes. I am also unaware of the 'forces of life' that shaped them that make them feel compelled to make other people wrong. 

In the past when I accused, judged or blamed anyone for anything it robbed me of my power, bled me of my energy and caused a small death inside of me. For my own health I cannot do that any more.

We are all human, we all makes mistakes, some worse than others. Accusing, judging and blaming others will not heal our world, only compassion, love and understanding will get that job done...   

Until we quit accusing, judging and blaming ourselves for things, we will be unable to stop ourselves from accusing, judging and blaming others. 

When I catch my mind spinning out of control and wanting to judge, blame or accuse another of some misdeed I stop myself from doing that by pausing and taking a deep breath.  In place of judging  another I place my hand over my heart and ask for 'divine intelligence' to give me a more compassionate way of looking at the situation. 

I ask for a compassionate point of view so I can send the person I am about to judge thoughts of compassion, peace and love rather than thoughts of anger, rage, hate and disappointment.

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Excerpted From the Book
FUN, PLAY, LIVING LIFE MY WAY
(If it ain't Easy, it ain't working for me)
Copyright 2019 By Frederick Zappone
My previously published books can be previewed here
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Seeing My Circumstances the Way GOD Sees Them

I feel I am blessed to see the circumstances of my life from God's point of view rather than my own. For example, while many people see obstacles, roadblocks and sickness as a problem or a curse, I see them as God's way of slowing me down to enjoy life more. 

I see obstacles, roadblocks and sickness as opportunities to improve my thinking so I can bless my problems rather than curse them.  

I have observed that when I bless my money troubles God turns my lack of money into abundance. I have also observed God turning my fears into love and my sickness into health.. This happens every time I am willing to bless my troubles rather than curse them.

It is my experience that all troubles are gifts in disguise. When I bless my troubles I am invoking the power of God/Universe to show me the good side to something that I have judged to be bad. 

Once I do that I let go of my judgment and focus exclusively on those things that make me feel good about being me.  

In the process of doing that, often times, something that I have judged to be bad simply disappears from my life for no logical reason I can explain or it turns into something good for me in very mysterious ways.
 
Related Reading:

Why I Fully Trust God.

For Those People Who Feel Abandoned By God 

God is my SOURCE for everything, Money Too!

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 Self-Love 'Thought Mastery' Program

NOT CARING - The Best Feeling Of Them All.

Not caring means you have no attachment to the outcome of things.  It means you have preferences of how you would like things to turn out but you are not attached to your preferences. 

Not caring gives you a sense of freedom and power you never experience when you are attached to outcomes. Attachment to how things turns out always results in needless suffering.

When you don't care, it is much easier to enjoy life and the people in your life. And when you don't care, the people who used to upset you, no longer upset you, they amuse you.

We were brought up to believe that caring was a good thing. The truth be told according to Dictionary.com caring is not all that great.  Here is how Dictionary.com defines the word care.

As you can see from reading the dictionary definition of the word care, care means to suffer and that why I don't care. You see suffering of any kind doesn't make anyone's life better

Don't misunderstand me, I am very compassionate and loving. I also understand I have ZERO control over the thoughts and actions of people outside myself so caring about what they do or don't do is a waste of my time and energy. Time and energy I could be using to enjoy life and create products and services that inspire and empower people.

HOW I LEARNED NOT TO CARE

My personal self-love journey showed me how to not care about things I have no control over. You can read about it by clicking here

I am 100% Responsible for PEACE on Earth

I don't argue with people ever and I don't try to convince anyone of anything, that's not my job. My job is to fully love myself exactly as I am so I can love all others different than myself exactly as they are. 

My job isn't to change people or get mad at people for being the way they are. My job is accept people exactly as they are so if change is necessary they are empowered to change themselves without any outside interference from me.  

I was put into this world to fully express myself, not depress myself. I do that by sharing my insights, opinions and knowledge with people with the full knowledge and understanding that people have the right to accept or reject parts or all of what I share with them. My job is not to expect things from people because no one owes me a thing. 

My job is to show up in this world as I truly am, part saint, part sinner, fully human, fully divine. I am a person who has learned to live in peace and harmony with both sides of myself so that others are empowered and inspired to do the same. That's how world peace really begins. 

R.I.P. Katelyn Nicole Davis (Age 12)

The need to be loved, appreciated, recognized and heard is so strong that people will go to great lengths to get it including a 12 year old girl LIVING STREAMING her suicide on FACEBOOK.

A part of me was outraged that FB would allow that to be shown and a part of me applauded them for their courage to show it because when we see, first hand, what our lack of loving, appreciating, recognizing and hearing people is doing to the world, it breaks us open even more to be the magnificent, powerful, lovable, caring people we are meant to be.

RIP Katelyn Nicole Davis, May the Peace and Love of God Be with you

L.O.A.

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Trying to make the law of attraction work is like trying to make the law of 
gravity work. These laws work independent of us, we only have to understand 
them to enjoy the benefits these laws offer us. If we don't understand and respect these laws, then we can't help but suffer the consequences of violating these laws.
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