How to have FAITH in Yourself

If you expect the things you want to come true you must have faith in your ability to make them come true.  Before you can have faith in yourself you must understand what the word faith means:

Definition of FAITH:

Complete trust or confidence in someone or something.


To make your dreams come true you must having complete trust and confidence in yourself that you can make you them true.  And when doubts enter your mind, you must leave your dbouts the hell alone. 

As I have mentioned before, on this blog, if you leave your doubts alone, they will leave you alone. If you mess with your doubts they will mess you up real good. They will completely undermine your confidence in your ability to make your dreams come true.

If you have questions about having faith in yourself, post them in the comment section of this post and I will answer your questions for you.

Frederick 

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They call my actions INSANITY, I call my actions FAITH.

I've been told doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insanity. I say it's FAITH. It's having faith that what you're doing will, sooner or later, produce the results you want.  

For example, I have great faith that, sooner or later, people will buy my Twenty-One Day Self-Love Program in abundance in spite of the fact that the current evidence says otherwise.

In the last four months only one person has purchased my program. In spite of such dismal results, every day I continue to post links to my program and share with folks the incredible benefits people receive from my program. Some people call what I doing insanity, I call it FAITH.   

Yes I am doing the same thing over and over again because I don't know anything else to do differently.  Daily I post links to my program and share the benefits of my program with people because I have faith that, sooner or later, people will buy my program in abundance. 

Faith is having confidence that something you want to happen will happen in spite of the fact you have no proof that it will ever happen.

Since I created my program in February of 2015 (based on my personal experiences of going from hating myself to loving myself  exactly as I am) people have bought over 200 copies of my self-love program.  Over a period of two years that certainly isn't many copies and it is certainly not enough to make a living off of it.

This whole process of failure after failure has been a blessing in disguise to me because It has made me love myself more rather than hating myself for failing over and over again.  And while my intention of people buying my self-love program in abundance has not yet been realized, loving myself, in spite of my failures has yielded great benefits to me in the other areas of my life. This includes always have enough money from other sources to continue promoting my self-love program in spite of it losing me money week in and week out.

Yes I have questioned myself why people aren't buying my program and yes I have blamed myself for my failures but I have also forgiven myself for failing. I now see that every day that passes when someone does not buy my program, it is not me failing, it is me becoming stronger in my FAITH that sooner or later, people will purchase my self-love program in abundance. That is what faith is all about, it is having an unwavering intention, that no matter what, what you have FAITH in will, sooner or later, become your reality.  Today I have that kind of FAITH

The CURE for Self-Doubt

Self-doubt undermines self-worth. 
Self-doubt causes you to hate yourself.
Self-doubt makes you feel guilty
Self-doubt stops you from being you.
Self-doubt fucks everything. 

THE CURE

If you leave your doubts alone, they will leave you alone. If you mess with your doubts, they will mess you up real good.

If you have questions about becoming the master of your doubts rather than continuing to be a victim of them, post your questions in the comment section of this post and I will answer them for you.

Frederick Zappone

How to Make Life VERY EASY on Yourself (Article)

Nothing makes like harder than when we resist 'what is' and nothing makes life easier than when we accept 'what is' and keep moving forward.   The peace and serenity ones feels when one lives in a continuously state of acceptance is absolutely astonishing.  

You could have cancer, be homeless, live in a shack and if you are accepting 'what is' you will find yourself experiencing peace of mind and exceptional clarity of thought. The most AMAZING thing about accepting 'what is' that everything in your life gets better naturally.

Acceptance of 'what is' is not surrender or giving up, it is trusting, whether you understand it or not, that your life is unfolding perfectly and that good things are coming your way.

TWO WAYS TO LIVE LIFE

There are two ways to live life. With a mind filled with fear and doubt or with a mind full of faith and trust. A mind filled with fear and doubt will continually attract to you what you don't want. 

A mind filled with faith and trust will attract to you all the good things you do want and the bad things you don't want will harmlessly, and often times, in mysterious ways, disappear from your life for no logical reason you can explain.

FAITH AND TRUST does not mean you don't do anything. Faith and trust means you only think those thoughts and take those actions that make you feel good about being you.  

All thoughts and actions that makes you feel good about being you are inspired thoughts and actions from God, the rest are not.


A LITTLE PARABLE...

Pete had plenty of faith, the problem was his faith was misplaced. He had faith in LESS rather than having faith in more. As a result life always rewarded him with less while always rewarding others with more.

The Mental Illness Called Self-Doubt (The CURE)

There are a lot of conditions defined as mental illness but the worst of these is SELF DOUBT...  It is absolutely the worst. Doubt slays our best thoughts. Doubt splits our mind in two and puts us into conflict with ourselves and then with others..

If  doubt is not resolved quickly, it leads to all kinds of undesirable behavior such as becoming obsessive or compulsive, manic or depressed or developing an ADD type personality or becoming addicted to foods, booze or pills as a way to squash the pain caused by doubt.

If there is such a thing as a devil, his real name is Doubt.

THE CURE:

If you leave your doubts alone, they will leave you alone. However caution and vigiliance is called for here.  Doubt is the great tempter and it will do whatever it can to make you doubt yourself, your mental health or your decisions. If your doubts aren't throwing you into conflict with yourself, causing you unnecessary pain and suffering, the doubts of others will.


If you don't believe doubt is your worst enemy and the root cause of mental illness, watch how many times your doubts betray you....

 When in Doubt, DON'T....

Your ONLY Enemy, the Critic in your head. KILL IT!

The critics in my life, along with the ones that live in my head, told me I was full of sh*t. They ridiculed me and made fun of me.

They told me no one would be interested in what I knew about feeling good, no matter what. They said it is not possible to feel good, no matter what. They said it wasn't realistic. They said it was 'normal' to feel bad. They said feeling bad is what makes us human. If we didn't feel bad, what would we do with all the time on our hands if we weren't worried, anxious or fearful about something.

They said if we didn't feel bad, we would be out of control and do all kinds of bad things to ourselves. They made us doubt ourselves, not trust ourselves so we would trust them. And so the 'critical leaders' of religion, education, medicine, government, and business all conspired to make up policies and pass laws that would make us feel bad as a way to control us and keep us in line. And what a good job they have done.

Everything in our culture is designed to make us do things out of fear and obligation rather than doing things coming from love, freedom of choice and inspiration. Everything in the culture is designed to keep us out of that 'feeling good' state of mind by reinforcing thoughts of fear and doubt in our mind 24/7. 

This fear based information is broadcast to us daily through our newspapers, magazines, radios and television sets. And much of this fear based information is then rebroadcast to us through the videos, pictures and words we see on the Internet. As a result of this continuous 'fear broadcasting,' people are taking actions coming from fear and doing harmful things to themselves and other people more than ever before. These harmful things range from acts of violence and abuse to outright murder and thievery...

Society, by broadcasting fear on a continuous basis, has made us addicted to feeling bad. Society then created pills, booze, drugs and other addictive substances to help us with our bad feelings.  

Society then instructed us to use these addictive substances to medicate, sedate and numb our bad feelings. As a result of following society's advice, we ended up feeling so numb we lost touch with our power to create our life and our world the way we want.

THE CULTURE USES FEAR TO CONTROL YOU, TO STOP YOU FROM BEING YOU

Every time you 'react' then act on your reaction that is FEAR running your life...  And all fear is good for is making you feel bad, and creating more fear in your life until you become afraid of everyone and everything. The worst thing about fear is that it makes you feel afraid of yourself, of your own thoughts and feelings and to my way of thinking that's not normal at all.

Realizing what the culture had done to us, I made it my intention to dissolve and neutralize the fear thoughts that entered my mind rather than giving them the power to harm me in any way.  

I did just that, and from my experience of turning bad feelings into good ones, my Feeling Good, No Matter What, Newsletter was born.

Did you know that every thought you think that makes you feel bad about yourself are not your thoughts at all but thoughts created by other people to manipulate, dominate and control you. Other people not only created those thoughts but convinced you those thoughts were the truth about you, The sad part is, once you believed the LIES people told you about yourself, you entered into hell on earth.

My Feeling Good, No matter What, Newsletter is for people tired of living in fear. My newsletter is for people who want to thrive and prosper in all areas of their life rather than just surviving and getting by. 

My newsletter is for people who want to go from living a lukewarm life to living a life full of passion, excitement and adventure. My newsletter is for people who consciously want to create their future life rather than leaving their future life to chance, accident or luck.

My newsletter is for people who want to give up being addicted to 'bad feelings' which forces them to overeat, overdrink and take drugs with harmful side effects.

My Feel Good Newsletter contains a new way of thinking. This new way of thinking will set you free from the 'mind traps' society created that make you live in fear and control you.This new way of thinking will allow you to experience yourself as the MAGNIFICENT, POWERFUL, LOVABLE to core human being you always knew, deep down in your heart, that you truly were.

-- Frederick Zappone

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The Traitor Lives Witin you. It's name is Self-Doubt

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The only real troublemaker you will ever have in your life is self- doubt.   Let me explain: 

You do or say something, then after the fact you have doubts about whatever you said or did....and then you try to correct what you said or did and instead of you having less doubts, you have more... And instead of things getting better for you, they get worse.  

Nothing robs self-esteem faster than doubt.  Doubt will slay your best thoughts. Doubt will destroy your faith in God. Doubt will depress you, make you feel hopeless, powerless and put you into a state of despair. Doubt will discourage you, make you quit. Doubt will make you give up on yourself. In worst case situations, doubt will make you feel suicidal.  

Doubts gain power over you when you resist them, believe in them or wrestle with them. If you mess with your doubts, they will bury you.  However, if you leave your doubts alone, they will leave you alone.

Got Problems? Lighten Up, Let Go, PLAY...

So many people with so many problems.......

They have relationship problems, money problems, love problems, health problems. In 99% of the cases, that 'thing' that's trying to figure out the answer or solution to their problems is FEAR.

And the more they come from fear while trying to solve their problem, the worse their fears get and the worse their problem becomes. You see there is a LAW, a very simple law  and it goes like this:  

Whatever you FOCUS your attention on, you attract more of the same.

If you focus on thoughts or feelings that make you feel bad, you attract more of the same kind of thoughts and feelings. The reason for this is because your FOCUS is on what make you feel bad rather than what makes you feel good, what makes you feel most ALIVE.

Feelings are your first physical evidence that something (good or bad) is coming true for you? Don't like what's coming true for you, change your thoughts. The moment you do, your feelings begin changing too. 

If you have a  problem of any kind and you have done everything you know to do to make it disappear from your life and still the problem persists, DO NOTHING. Let me explain.

Putting time and energy into a problem you cannot solve allows it to grow in strength and power over you until you are completely powerless to do anything about the problem.

Often times, with a chronic problem, you are resisting it and fighting with it which makes it persist rather than disappear from your life.  After you have done everything you know to do to make a chronic problem disappear from your life, if you do nothing, one of the following three things will happen to the problem.  

NUMBER 1. the problem will simply disappear from your life for no logical reason you can explain. One day you have the problem and the next day you're aware the problem is no longer in your life. 

NUMBER 2. In doing nothing to solve your problem, the mind relaxes and when you least expect it, the answer to your problem spontaneously appear in your mind, seemingly out of thin air. And when the answer does appear, even before you apply the answer, you will know with absolutely certainty the answer will solve the problem for you.  (This happens to me a lot.) 

NUMBER 3. During the time you are doing nothing to solve your problem, when you least expect it, a person, an article, a book, a workshop, event or situation will show up in your life that contains the answer to your problem.  When that happens, you will intuitively know without a shadow of a doubt that the answer you unexpectedly received is the right answer for you.

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Disappointed, Heck No!

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A friend of mine recently asked me a rather personal question. He asked me how much money in donations I received in the last 60 days to keep Inspirational Thoughts a free site.   I told him zero, zilch, nada, nothing. He ask me if I was disappointed?  I said, heck no.  While I need money like everyone else on planet earth, my life is not about money.  My life is about bringing as much joy and happiness as I can to people who read the inspirational writing up on my site..  I explained to him that I am wealthy beyond words when it come to 'currency of the heart' and the money to keep Inspirational Thoughta a free site will come when it does.  

The point of sharing this private moment with you is this: There is nothing in life that can ever disappoint you if you live your life one moment at a time and adopt an attitude of 'positive expectancy' in regards to everything you want out of life. Positive expectancy is nothing more than understanding that at any given moment in time what you want can appear in your life, seemingly out of thin air, from sources unexpected, unexpectedly..

Disappointment regarding love, health or money is a 

vote of  'no confidence' in the law of attraction's ability 

to bring into your life what you want or guide you to it.
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Success Path

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Along your path to success, failure will speak to you often. Always
the same question, 'Do you really want what you say you want? If you do, 
keep going! If not, quit!'  How you answer failure determines your success.

Faith

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There are two types of Faith. Faith in more and Faith in less. Which Faith is yours?

Noticing

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If you are not getting what you want out of life, notice
how many actions you are taking coming from fear of loss
rather than coming from faith that what you want is your destiny.

Developing Confidence in Faith

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There is blind faith and then there is faith that is supported by science, logic and reason. Blind faith takes us down dead end alleys and leaves us disillusioned while faith supported by science, logic and reason and confirmed by a strong 'inner knowing' on our part becomes reality for us. 

In my lifetime, I've never come across anyone who lacked faith. The problem for many folks is not their faith but rather the faith they have is misplaced. They have faith in 'lack' rather than 'abundance' and as a result, life rewards them with less while rewarding other people with more. 

The same is true with the law of attraction. If your faith is strong in the law of attraction, you will be blessed with plenty in all areas of your life.  If your faith is weak in the law of attraction, you will receive less. Understanding the part faith plays in making the law of attraction work in people lives inspired me to create the OMT program.  This program strengthens people's faith in the law of attraction creating abundance for them in a very short period of time.

Everything in life is created twice, first mentally, then physically. - Greg Anderson
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Disbelief is a Bitch!

There is no doubt about it, disbelief is a bitch. 
Disbelief is any thought in your subconscious mind that lives in opposition to what you consciously want to believe.  Disbelief concerning the 'law of attraction' can be deeply rooted in your subconscious mind. Until it is replaced with a solid belief in the law of attraction working in your favor effortlessly, then no matter how hard you work, no matter how hard you try, the law of attraction will never work for you. The One Magnificent Thought (OMT) is one thought that dissolves disbeliefs living in your subconscious mind with no effort at all. To read about it, click here.