Monday

How to have NO PROBLEMS In 2013

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Tired of relationship, health, love and money problems? 

YOUR LIFE  EXPERIENCE GETS CREATED BY WHATEVER YOU FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ON....  

Focus on problems, obstacles and roadblocks and that becomes your life experience. 

Focus on happiness and a road free of obstacles and roadblocks and that becomes your life experience.  

Your energy, that creates your reality, flows where your attention goes. 

If you know that you can 'beam' your attention, anywhere, at anytime, negative experiences of any sort will no longer be a problem for you.... Why???

BECAUSE in order for a negative experience to EXIST and PERSIST, you must keep your attention focused on it.... The moment you take your attention away from a negative experience, it begins to dissolve, naturally and automatically, in your 3-D world.  

You don't have to solve problems to make them disappear, you simply have to withdraw your attention from them. When you do that, problems will start disappearing from your life, effortlessly.  Just as a fire goes out when fuel is not added to it, problems disappear, as if by magic, when you withdraw your attention (fuel) from them.  

INTENTIONS COME TRUE WHEN YOU PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT YOU 'DO WANT' AND WITHDRAW  YOUR ATTENTION FROM WHAT YOU DON'T WANT. 

If you find it difficult to stay focused on what you DO WANT, read this 'NEW THOUGHT' article, Click Here



Believing you have to keep your ATTENTION focused on your problem is what keeps you stuck having that problem. - Frederick Zappone


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Sunday

Solving Problems and Creating Things the NEW WAY....

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What you call thinking is not thinking at all, it is playing (interacting) with the thoughts that already exist in your conscious mind.  These thoughts consist of everything you have read, every opinion and fact you have heard, everything that was taught to you. In your thoughts you will not find any original thinking, only old thinking that you put together in new ways. 

Observation: THE NEW THINKING.....

The process of  observing, witnessing, watching, looking is where all problems are easily solved, even the most difficult ones.  It is also where all new things are created because the moment you begin using the 'Observation/Looking' process, inspired thoughts, out of thin air, spontaneously, begin showing up in your mind that allow you to create new things and easily solve problems that have been troubling you for quite some time. 

It doesn't matter whether it is a money, love, relationship or health problem, the 'observation/looking' process will allow you to solve those problems faster and easier than any other way you can possibly solve your problems  This process of  'observation/looking' is so simple that some people have called this process too good to be true.  However, it is true...
    
To give you a excellent understanding of the 'Observation/ Looking' process and how to use it in 'real life', I have a PDF file for you. This PDF file explains, in simple detail, how to use the 'Observation/Looking' process in your own life to solve problems and create new and original things.. The PDF file is written by someone I admire and respect who has made understanding the 'Observation/Looking' process as simple as is humanly possible.    

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Saturday

Best argument I've seen for reducing VIOLENCE in Movies and on TV.

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Hard to argue this point.... Like it and share it. 

If you do, someone, somewhere, who needs to hear this message will get this message and do something about the excessive violence on television and in the movies... - Frederick Zappone

Monday

Santa's Gift to you.....

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Santa's gift to you is a SPECTACULAR, ASTONISHING, MAGICAL 2013 for you.


INSPIRED Drumming...

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If you love drums and the LONE RANGER Theme Song (the William Tell 
Overture),  you will love this stirring drumming.... - Frederick Zappone

R. I. P. - The Person Who INSPIRED me the most in 2012


Janey Cutler died this past year but to this day she inspires me. She has not only made my attitude stronger and brighter but her attitude of 'no regrets' has become my attitude - Frederick Zappone

Sunday

The 'In Your Face' Blog..... (Different kind of Self-Help Blog)

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This is not your ordinary blog,  it is an extraordinary blog, it is an 'in your face' blog, it is telling you the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth about everything and everybody.  WHY? 

Because the truth makes you feel lighter, brighter and carefree while lying makes you feel darker, somber and depressed.  That's how you can tell the difference between truth and lies.  

Truth lifts you up, lies put you down...
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Handling Money Brings Pain Relief.

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Article courtesy of Emily Sohn, Discovery News 
 
THE GIST:
  • Handling money reduces the amount of pain people feel.
  • In separate experiments, negative experiences, both physical and emotional, blunted by cash.
  • If real-world poverty follows this principle, those with less money may feel pain more acutely.



In a series of experiments, people who counted money felt less pain when their hands were dipped into scalding water. The soothing power of cash also helped them shrug off the emotional pain of social exclusion. The findings might offer an easy way to ease life's stings and hurts, from painful medical treatments to social ostracism: Simply flip through a bulging wallet before enduring a painful experience.
 
"When people are reminded of money in a subtle manner by counting out hard currency, they experience painful situations as being not very painful," said lead author Kathleen Vohs, a consumer psychologist at the University of Minnesota's Carleton School of Management in the Twin Cities.

"You could think about being able charge yourself up before you encounter pain," she said. "When I used to run marathons, I would've maybe wanted to be reminded of money first." Although scientists have been studying pain for years, they still don't entirely understand why or how the perception of discomfort can vary so much. On a scale from one to 10, for example, one person's four might be another's eight. Even a single experience can feel more or less painful to the same person under different circumstances.

In her own research, Vohs has found that thinking about money gives people a sense of self-sufficiency, making them less likely to ask for or offer help. Other studies have linked a strong sense of self-worth with a greater ability to withstand pain. So, Vohs began to wonder whether money might shift the balance on how much pain people feel.

Among other experiments, she and colleagues challenged college students to a supposed finger-dexterity task in which they counted out either 80 $100 bills or 80 slips of paper. Afterward, the cash-counters reported less pain than the paper-counters when their fingers were dipped briefly into 122-degree Fahrenheit water.

As bolstering as it can be to handle money, the study found that being reminded of money you don't have makes pain worse. Reflecting on your shrunken 401K, in other words, could make it more difficult to cope with stubbing a toe or failing to connect with others at a party.

In an attempt to understand the source of money's power over pain, the researchers asked study participants to rate their feelings of self-esteem, attractiveness and mood, among other measures. The only reliable link they found was that having money made people feel strong, possibly providing a coping mechanism for whatever negative experiences they encountered next. Likewise, thinking about money they had spent made them feel weak, deflating their ability to cope.

"These findings are groundbreaking," said Eli Finkel, a social psychologist at Northwestern University in Evanston, Ill. "If real-world poverty follows the principles of these laboratory demonstrations, then confronting social rejection or physical pain should be experienced as more painful for poor people than for wealthier people."

But you don't have to be rich to use money to your benefit, Vohs said. Merely touching cash or even staring at a money-filled screensaver could blunt the impact of hard or painful events.

"I always got a kick out of counting money," she said. "Now I know why."

Saturday

Are you caught up in the 'DO MORE' Trap?

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The most horrific, insidious, cancerous, feel bad mental TRAP of them all is the FALSE BELIEF you have to 'do more' to get what you want......   That belief will cause you more pain than you can handle.   I personally know people after 30 years of 'doing more' to make their dream come true are no closer today to making their dream come true than they were when they first started..  WHY....

DOING MORE isn't what gets you want you want.

Doing what FEELS GOOD does.......

Doing more, of anything, when it feels bad, pushes away from you what you want.  

Doing more not only pushes what you want away from you, it keeps what you want at a distance from you, always just outside your reach. 

Worry, fear and doubt is what 'fuels' people to do more when 'doing more' coming from feeling poorly is not required at all. The more you are motivated by worry, fear, or doubt to achieve what you want, the less chance you have of achieving what you want. If you no longer want to get caught up in the DO MORE Trap. I will e-mail you my publication titled: Bullet Proof  Your Attitude. My publication will neutralize any power the 'do more' belief  has over you. In addition, the information in my publication will stop you from doing things that sabotage your best efforts and prevent you from making your dreams come true.

TABLE OF CONTENTS 

1. The REALITY of Feeling Good, No Matter What
2. Your Power Lives in the Moment 
3. Understanding Brings Healing. 
      (Understanding What causes you to feel bad makes you feel good)

4. Whatever you make the Enemy, Has Power Over You
5. Feelings: Your Inner Guidance System
6. The Power To Make What Goes Wrong In Your Life, Turn Out Right
7. Why Being 'Against Anything' Destroy The Bullet Proof Attitude
     (And why being 'for things' strengthens your bullet proof attitude) 
 
8. The Elimination of All Fear Based Thoughts
9. Instant Insights – 'Life is Good' One Liners
10. How to Bullet Proof Your Feelings
11. Neutralizing Your #1 Power Robber
12. Suffering and Pain are Optional and Not Required
13. Letting Go In Order To Have What You Want 
14. Red Light – Green Light Feelings
15. The Truth Shall Set you Free But First It will Piss You Off 
16. Healing the ‘Feel Bad’ Nerves In Your Brain 
17. You Create It All 
18. Releasing Thoughts that Imprison You

 

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-- Frederick Zappone


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Friday

Releasing Emotional PAIN the EASY way....

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Chronic emotional pain lives in your subconscious mind and get activated by present moment events. That's why you can feel great one moment and lousy the next.  Chronic emotional pain runs on automatic pilot outside your conscious control UNTIL you embrace it. Once you embrace it, the pain dissolves naturally without pills, drugs or therapy of any kind.

Many of the things you know About PAIN are simply NOT TRUE.


MANY OF THE THINGS YOU KNOW ABOUT PAIN ARE SIMPLY NOT TRUE 

Embracing your pain ENDS your pain.. whether it is emotional or physical pain 

RESISTING, FIGHTING PAIN INCREASES PAIN



EMBRACING THE PAIN ENDS THE PAIN
By Frederick Zappone


TABLE OF CONTENTS 
 
1. Learn why feeling the pain, heals it.
2. Embracing pain ENDS the pain.
3. The 'Embracing Pain' Methodology
4. Reversing Disease ( Physical/Emotional) By Reversing Thought.
5. Many things you know about pain are not true.
6. Pain is weakness leaving the body.
7. Making Pain Disappear Without Drugs.
8. Evolutionary Thoughts About Pain
9. Pain is harmless until you label it...
10. His Thoughts CURED him of Cancer (True Story - Documented)


What people are saying.............

•"I have studied tons of psychological literature in my work, from ancient times till present theories, and none of them allowed me to achieve such deep insights in such a short period of time as your information has." - Dr. Katerina Bosin, M.D., TN

• "The information in your writings gave me so many insights and answers. There is more power in your writings than all of those lengthy books." - Ciprian Ostap, Canada

"There is absolutely much more results with your information than there is with our psychological service." Hilda, Western, Pennsylvania

The kind of writing that you are doing is what thousands of us are looking for. You write extremely well and get to the heart of the matter in a matter of minutes. - James Kavanaugh, Kalamazoo, Michigan

Honestly Mr. Zappone, had I not found you and your writings, I'd be dead right now. That is how much your writings touch my life. - Cathy K., Pittsburgh, PA.

Embracing the Pain ENDS the PAIN......



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Law of Attraction Works Like GOOGLE.


You put into the Google search engine what you want and Google brings up everything to match what you want. You put into your mind what you want and your mind brings up everything that matches what you want. Think poverty, lack, scarcity and fear thoughts and your mind will serve up to you an abundance of those kind of matching thoughts. Think thoughts of abundance and prosperity and your mind will serve up to you an abundance of  prosperity and abundance  thoughts... .


Everything in life is created twice, first mentally, then
 physically, there are no exceptions to this rule...   



 
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Whoever said Money Can't Buy Happiness is 'BUTT NAKED' Wrong. (Article)

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Money buys happiness, it absolutely does...... and you don't have to have it in the form of paper, coins or electronic digits listed in an online banking account to allow money to make you happy right now. Money making you happy begins with your thoughts about money. Thoughts about money that make you happy results in the money showing up in your outer world every single time, without fail...

Everything is create twice, first mentally, then physically... everything, no exceptions. If you want to create money in your outer world, you MUST successfully create it in your inner world...  The more successful you are at creating it in your inner world, the more money you will see in your outer world....

If you can't see yourself having the amount of money you want as a done deal in your mind (your inner world), you will never see it in your outer world.  This rule not only applies to money, it also applies to getting a job, have the loving relationship you want or achieving fully restored health.

REPEATED FOR EMPHASIS...

Everything in life is created twice, first mentally, then physically, there are no exceptions to this rule...   

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Thursday

To Feel Good, Think GOOD (It's Simple)

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EMBRACING THE PAIN ENDS THE PAIN
By Frederick Zappone


TABLE OF CONTENTS 
 
1. Learn why feeling the pain, heals it.
2. Embracing pain causes no pain.
3. The 'Embracing Pain' Methodology
4. Reversing Disease ( Physical/Emotional) By Reversing Thought.
5. Many things you know about pain are not true.
6. Pain is weakness leaving the body.
7. Making Pain Disappear Without Drugs.
8. Evolutionary Thoughts About Pain
9. Pain is harmless until you label it...
10. His Thoughts CURED him of Cancer (True Story - Documented)


What people are saying.............

•"I have studied tons of psychological literature in my work, from ancient times till present
theories, and none of them allowed me to achieve such deep insights in such a short period 
of time as your information has." - Dr. Katerina Bosin, M.D., TN

• "The information in your writings gave me so many insights and answers. There is more 
power in your writings than all of those lengthy books." - Ciprian Ostap, Canada

"There is absolutely much more results with your information than there is 
with our psychological service." Hilda, Western, Pennsylvania

The kind of writing that you are doing is what thousands of us are looking for. You write
extremely well and get to the heart of the matter in a matter of minutes. -
James Kavanaugh, Kalamazoo, Michigan

Honestly Mr. Zappone, had I not found you and your writings, I'd be dead right now.
That is how much your writings touch my life. - Cathy K., Pittsburgh, PA.

Embracing the Pain ENDS the PAIN......



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Wednesday

Successful Human Communications Formula.


Attitude, words, tone of voice + facial expressions should be in alignment with one another in order to successfully communicate your thoughts, desires and intentions to another.  If any of those things are out of alignment, you will not be fully heard and understood. - Frederick Zappone
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Is Your greatest Personal PAIN on this list?

















The pain of rejection.
The pain of no one wanting what you have to offer
The pain of not being paid what you deserve
The pain of feeling unloved.
The pain of feeling like you are being punished by God
The pain of being un-attractive.
The pain of people not liking you.
The pain of hating yourself.
The pain of never being good enough.
The pain of being weak and cowardly.
The pain of losing your job.
The pain of losing a child.
The pain of losing your spouse.
The pain of divorce.
The pain of not having enough money to pay your bills.
The pain of bankruptcy.
The pain of not being understood.
The pain of being all alone.
The pain of no one caring.


Many of the things you know About PAIN are simply NOT TRUE.


MANY OF THE THINGS YOU KNOW ABOUT PAIN ARE SIMPLY NOT TRUE 

Embracing your pain ENDS your pain.. whether it is emotional or physical pain 

RESISTING, FIGHTING PAIN INCREASES PAIN



EMBRACING THE PAIN ENDS THE PAIN
Copyrighted 2012 By Frederick Zappone


TABLE OF CONTENTS 
 
1. Learn why feeling the pain, heals it.
2. Embracing pain causes no pain.
3. The 'Embracing Pain' Methodology
4. Reversing Disease ( Physical/Emotional) By Reversing Thought.
5. Many things you know about pain are not true.
6. Pain is weakness leaving the body.
7. Making Pain Disappear Without Drugs.
8. Evolutionary Thoughts About Pain
9. Pain is harmless until you label it...
10. His Thoughts CURED him of Cancer (True Story - Documented)


What people are saying.............

•"I have studied tons of psychological literature in my work, from ancient times till present theories, and none of them allowed me to achieve such deep insights in such a short period of time as your information has." - Dr. Katerina Bosin, M.D., TN

• "The information in your writings gave me so many insights and answers. There is more power in your writings than all of those lengthy books." - Ciprian Ostap, Canada

"There is absolutely much more results with your information than there is with our psychological service." Hilda, Western, Pennsylvania

The kind of writing that you are doing is what thousands of us are looking for. You write extremely well and get to the heart of the matter in a matter of minutes. - James Kavanaugh, Kalamazoo, Michigan

Honestly Mr. Zappone, had I not found you and your writings, I'd be dead right now. That is how much your writings touch my life. - Cathy K., Pittsburgh, PA.

Embracing the Pain ENDS the PAIN......



BUY NOW  -
$3.97

Available for immediate download




IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT YOUR PURCHASE
After making your payment, click on the Return To 'FREDERICK ZAPPONE' button located on the payment receipt page to receive your copy of Embracing PAIN ends the PAIN. Your satisfaction guaranteed or your money back.

 



 

Tuesday

From a Hater to a LOVER of Money.

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I hated money with a passion.  I hated what I had to do to make money.  I hated that I couldn't make an abundance of money doing what I loved. I hated lack, scarcity and poverty.  I hated people who had money who treated me like there was something wrong with me because I didn't have as much money as they had.

I hated jobs needed to make money because it made me an 'economic slave' to a demanding and sometimes emotionally unstable boss who controlled my financial future. I hated everyone who had anything to do with money. I hated banks, credit card companies

I also hated all of those people who offered me ways to get rich and ripped me off once I bought their money making program.  I especially hated bill collectors who didn't give a shit whether I lived or died and threatened me if I didn't pay them NOW....

This hatred of money was eating me ALIVE until I woke up one day and realized it was not money I hated, it was ME. I hated me.

The reason I thought that is was money I hated is because I couldn't face the awful truth that I hated myself.  After all, who in their right mind would ever admit to hating themselves. 

We all know that when we feel hatred towards anything, it has nothing to do with us. WRONG!

When we feel hatred towards anything, including money, is has EVERYTHING TO DO WITH US.

Let me explain...

Money is made up of paper, metal coins and numbers. Money is neutral. it has no power at all EXCEPT....and this is the big except, EXCEPT for YOUR  Power that you project into money... 

Any bad feelings you have about money are bad feelings you have about yourself...and until you change those bad feelings you have about yourself, the money you want will always stay at a distance from you, always just outside your reach.  WHY?   Because it is psychologically impossible to attract the money you want when you are in conflict with it in any way.


LAUGHING ALL THE WAY TO THE BANK is what people do who have fun making money and it is what I do since I realized all the hatred I felt toward money was hatred I felt toward myself. The moment I stopped hating myself was the beginning of my journey of moving from being a money disaster to a money master.


There is nothing wrong with money in spite of the bad things greedy people do for and with money. As a spiritual person you can do more good in this world with money than you can without it.

I am a money coach. To get you started having fun making money, watch this fun video about money. To be coached by me in having ridiculous amounts of fun making ridiculous amounts of money, click here

-- Frederick Zappone




Monday

HEALING: Looking the Newtown Massacre Straight in the Eye.



I believe in looking horrible things straight in the eye, I didn't always.  At one time I was so cowardly, when my own daughter died unexpectedly, I couldn't bring myself to attend her funeral. One of the most painful mistakes of my life.  These days I do look at horrible things straight in the eyes.  It has been the fastest way, for me to HEAL myself from events that have caused me deep pain.  In looking at the Newtown Massacre straight in the eye, the thing I was most afraid to look at were pictures of the victims. However because I don't like feeling afraid, I did what I feared the most, I looked at the picture of 15 of the victims. As a looked at the pictures, fear melted away I was filled with smiles, tears, love and compassion for them and everyone I know... May love be your only guiding light in life, it is mine..




(Top row from left) Charlotte Bacon, Daniel Barden, Olivia Engel, Josephine Gay, Ana Marquez-Green. (Middle row from left) Dylan Hockley, Catherine Hubbard, Chase Kowalski, Jesse Lewis, James Mattioli. (Bottom row from left) Grace McDonnell, Emilie Parker, Noah Pozner, Caroline Previdi, Jessica Rekos
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Living in PEACE with the NEWTOWN Massacre

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In order to achieve peace of mind about what happened in Newtown, we all have to search for answers, answers that makes sense to us, answer we can live with, answers that give us peace of mind.    I have searched for answers and these are the answers that work for me.

Many people are saying guns are the problem....

Guns are not the problem...  It is guns in the hands of  crazy, unbalanced people that is...

Take their guns away and they will find some other way to do harm to innocent children. As an example, this article below about what happened in China the same day the Newtown Massacre happened.... 

Man slashes 22 children near China school

http://articles.latimes.com/2012/dec/14/news/la-man-slashes-22-children-near-china-school-20121214


AND IF YOU DIG INTO THE NEWTOWN MASSACRE STORY FURTHER you will discover the mother of the killer was a gun obsessed FEAR driven women who taught her son everything she knew about fear.... And uncontrollable, irrational fear is what drove her son to become the person he became... (Article about the killer's mother.... http://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/world-news/mother-of-sandy-hook-gunman-adam-lanza-was-a-gun-obsessive-living-in-fear-of-societys-collapse-16251468.html

PURE AND SIMPLE, WHEN FEAR TAKES CONTROL OF A PERSON'S PERSONALITY, IT CAUSES A PERSON TO BECOME AN UNBALANCED, CRAZY, PSYCHOPATH WHO DOES CRAZY, IRRATIONAL THINGS LIKE TAKING THE LIVES OF INNOCENT PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE LOVE THE PSYCHOPATH DOESN'T HAVE....

Fear is the problem.........



Love is the Answer.......the only answer..

Sunday

Money JOY, Ho, Ho, Ho...... Merry Christmas


The joy of being 'grateful' for the money you have attracts more money to you. Wanting money coming from fear and greed pushes money away from you. And it causes you to act in ways for money you would never act if you had more fun and joy acquiring the' riches and peace of mind' you desire. - F. Zappone

 

Quit Kidding Yourself, MONEY MATTERS - By the Money Coach

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One of the most powerful and thoughtless (unconscious) relationships we have is with money. Money is like air to us. We don't give it much conscious thought unless we don't have enough of it, then we worry about it, get upset with it, curse the lack of it. We love having it and hate not knowing how to get more of it quickly. Money causes people immense amounts of pain. In fact, thinking about money is so painful for some people that they would rather think about anything except money. 

Anything negative you think about money has nothing to do with money. It has to do with how you feel about you and rather than be responsible for how you feel about you, you BLAME money.

WAKE UP FOLKS.... Money is made up of paper, metal coins and numbers, it has no power at all EXCEPT....and this is the big except, EXCEPT for your power that you project into it...

Any bad feelings you have about money are bad feelings you have about yourself...and until you change those bad feelings you have about yourself, the money you want will always stay at a distance from you, always just outside your reach.  WHY?   Because it is psychologically impossible to attract the money you want when you are in conflict with it in any way.

MONEY AND YOUR PARENTS

Everything you know about money your learned from your parents and what most people learned about money from their parents was how to feel powerless around it, hate it, fear it and argue about it.

MONEY AND THE COMPANY WHO PROVIDES YOU WITH MONEY

The company you work for, in reality, is nothing more than an psychological extension of your very own family that took care of you, financially, during your growing up years. The company you work for represents the power and authority of your mother and father, in disguise.

You are loyal to the corporation like you were with your parents, loyal but not too loyal. You have a similar type of love/hate relationship with the corporation as you had with your parents. You are afraid of the corporation much like you were afraid of your parents. You need the security of a regular paycheck the same way you needed the security of knowing your parents would feed you and keep a roof over your head. The corporation has the same control over your life as your parents once did. They set all the rules and regulations concerning money and if you disobey them, like your parents, they have the power to punish you. This is a result of you giving away your power to the green stuff, called money, early in your life.


Let me be your Money Coach and show you how to have a POWERFUL and FUN relationship with money that will make it easy for you to create as much wealth for yourself as you can possibly handle.  

To get started having me coach you, contact me by clicking here

-- Frederick Zappone

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Saturday

God Speaks to me About Tragedy.



THINKING ABOUT TRAGEDY...... 

God could prevent tragedy but he doesn't.  'Why not, I ask myself?'  Then I heard these words from God's lips to my ears. 'Tragedy is believing that life where you are is better than life over here with me.. No matter the tragic ways people leave your life, they end up, over here, happy with me.'

I don't know if God really spoke those words to me or if I made them up. In either case, those unexpected words of kindness that showed up in my mind, out of thin air, comfort me.




Friday

How to Be HAPPY When 'Bad Things' Happen

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I know first hand what the Connecticut shooting tragedy is like. I worked two blocks from Columbine High School when that massacre happened and worked with many parents who had children in that school including parents who lost their children in the gun fire that took place. The tragedy that took place in Connecticut today brings back a flood of unwanted memories that leave me feeling powerless and overcome with grief and sadness.

This latest shooting tragedy in Connecticut made me realize something important to my mental health.  After a tragedy happens, if I can do nothing at all for the victims and survivors involved in the tragedy, other than offer a heartfelt prayer or make a financial contribution, I should immediately let it go...  Why?

Because feeling bad about a tragedy that happened that I cannot change will not unchange it.  The only thing focusing on the tragedy will do for me is makes me feel worse. And since feeling bad helps no one, I choose to focus my attention exclusively on what creates more good in my world. And one of the things that creates more good in my world is being grateful for what I have rather than feeling bad or complaining about what I don't have.   

I am grateful for my 5 children and 14 grandchildren.  

What are you grateful for today? 

- Frederick Zappone 



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