'How To Make Affirmations Work For you. (The Method)

Say it often enough and your word becomes LAW in the Universe.
I can guarantee you the following 5 affirmations will work for you if you follow my instructions to the letter. These affirmations have never failed to work with my clients who followed my instructions.

I Am Loved
I Am Happy
I am Healthy
I Am Wealthy
I Get Paid Incredible Amounts Of Money Just For Being Me.

These affirmations have the power to change your life for the better forever but in order for that to happen you must repeat the affirmations over and over again on a regular and consistent basis until they become anchored in your subconscious mind. 

Once the affirmations become anchored in your subconscious, you will feel them. Once you feel them they begin the process of manifesting into your physical reality as if by magic. In truth, magic has nothing to do with it while 'quantum physics' has everything to do with it.  

These affirmations have produced INCREDIBLE results in the lives of my clients who followed my instructions to the letter. 
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Questions and Answers About Affirmations

Question: Do I have to believe an affirmation for it to work for me.
 
Answer: No, you just have to repeat it until it becomes anchored in your subconscious mind.

Question: Is it best to repeat one affirmation at a time until it becomes anchored in my subconscious mind instead of repeating loads of different affirmation? 

Answer: Yes, repeating one affirmation works best.

Pick out the one affirmation on the list that is most important to you and repeat it until you have achieved subconscious success.

The Repetition Formula goes like this:

Repeat one affirmation until you feel it. Once you feel it that means it is anchored in your subconscious mind, Once it is anchored in your subconscious mind it will begin manifesting itself into your physical reality. As you repeat your one affirmation notice whether you are accepting it or resisting it. If you are resisting it, keep repeating it until the resistance dissolves and you feel your subconscious mind accepting it. 

Question:  How do affirmations work?

Answer:  Once an affirmation becomes anchored in your subconscious mind it  acts on that affirmation and silently guides you to take actions (without any conscious thought on your part required) that results in you attracting to yourself  what you want. As an example, in regards to money, you may be silently guided to buying a lottery ticket at a particular store at or particular time. Or you could be guided to do something or meet someone that results in a money making opportunity showing up in your life that produces the money you want. 

Question: Should I do the affirmation everyday?

Answer:  Take a break from doing an affirmation at least one full day a week. This speeds up the process of the new thought anchoring itself to the subconscious mind. Saying the affirmation is planting the seed, taking a break is allowing it to grow and take root in your subconscious mind.

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My Best is NEVER Good Enough. I'm okay with that.

I never fight with negative thoughts that judge me to be deficient in some way.  Why? Because fighting with negative thoughts only makes me feel lower than a snake's belly and since I don't like feel badly about myself I don't fight with negative thoughts at all. 

I've learned to accept negative thoughts as part of my life and move on.  As an example, all my life I have been told my best wasn't good enough. I was told that my best was not good enough so often that I came to believe it. I not only believed it but I collected years of proof, especially in my chosen field of writing, that my best is not good enough.

I love writing but few people buy my books, I've published six so far. I love posting messages to my blog but people rarely comment. All of this is proof to me that my best isn't good enough. I have no idea why people don't comment on my blog posts or buy my books. Maybe my writings aren't appealing enough, maybe they don't stir people's emotions enough. Maybe I am too arrogant or come across as a know it all or a holier than thou person. I have no idea how I come across to people.

I have tried to change so other people would approve of my writings but the more I changed to please others, the less I was pleased with myself... The worst part of being told that your best is not good enough is using that criticism as an excuse to beat yourself up or criticize yourself for not living up to the standards other people have set for you.

I don't beat myself up any more for my best not being good enough.  Learning to love and accept myself exactly as I am has allowed me to accept that my best isn't good enough. Here is the important thing, my best may not be good enough in the eyes of others but I made up my mind that my best is always good enough in my own eyes. 

As long as I am worried about other people accepting my best as good enough, I am doomed to a lifetime of hurt and disappointment. However once I accepted my best was good enough for me, I have been able to write and enjoy the process of writing regards of whether people leave comments about my writings or buy my books. In the final analysis, experience has taught me that my best for today is always good enough because my best of today will always be better tomorrow.

In other words, practice makes perfect and eventually my writings will become so good that people will buy my books in the millions, that is if I live long enough.  I will admit, if people buy millions of my books after I die, I am going to be royally pissed off on the other side. 😊

Unhappiness is an 'Alert Signal' You Are Off Your PATH

We all have an unique path to travel through life that will give us all the benefits, perks and rewards our heart yearns for if we stay true to our path. Problems for us begin when we believe the path another person (celebrity, athlete, etc.) is traveling is better than our own.  

You see if you believe the path another person is traveling will get you the love, health, fame or fortune you want faster than your own path, that is when unhappiness with your own path sets in. 

Believing another person's path is better than your own is the first great act of self-sabotage.  You see if you loved yourself sufficiently, you would clearly see the path you are on is the perfect path for you and will allow you to achieve all the health, wealth and prosperity you can handle.

Being unhappy about anything is an alert signal that you are moving off of your own path. Moving off your own path will result in you thinking the wrong thoughts and take the wrong actions for you.  

These wrong thoughts (and the actions you take as a result of those thoughts) will continue to flood your mind until you quit following the path other people are on and get back on your own path. 

It is only by traveling your own unique path that you will find the freedom to be a 'full blown you' and achieve the success you want doing what makes you happy and makes you feel really good about being you.

Pursuing what I want HURTS, so I don't.

I have found pursuing things whether it has been love, health or money does not work for me. As much as pursuing is revered and encouraged in American society, it just plain does not work for me. 

All pursuing has ever done for me is repeatedly created the experience of failure, hurt and disappointment. Funny thing is, long before the law of attraction was promoted and written about in modern times, I always had much more success at attracting things than I have ever had at pursuing things. However because I have a tendency to be 'bat shit stupid' from time to time, I would revert back to my 'old ways' of pursuing things with always the same result of failure, hurt and disappointment.

I did this so often that I began to believe I was addicted to pain because that is all I ever got out of pursuing things, pain and more pain.  It has taken an awful lot of unnecessary pain and suffering on my part to learn that pursuing what I want always pushes what I want away from me rather than attracting it to me.  It is only when I relax, and let go, that it is easy for me to attract anything I want with no effort at all. 

Doing the Ordinary Things In Life Extraordinarily well

Everything in life is a lesson for our growth so we can become the magnificent, powerful, lovable to the core people that we are destined to become.  When you are fully being yourself and fully expressing yourself with nothing held back you will never disappoint yourself. It is only when you hold yourself back in any way that you disappoint yourself.

I have worked all of my life to become the person I am today, an ordinary person who does the ordinary things in life extraordinarily  well. What you see on the outside of me matches the inside of me perfectly. In other words, what you see is what you get. My father told me to never preach a good sermon, Instead he encouraged me to live one. As a result of my dad's words, if I can't walk the talk, I don't talk it. I have mastered all of my fears by facing them head on and now I teach others how to do the same. If you want to be the master of your fears rather than the victim of them, visit my web page, lovesolvesall.com

12 Unsuccessful Life Strategies

Do not look to your past to predict your 

future otherwise you will repeat your past.

 

The One Attitude You Must Have to be SUCCESSFUL

Convincing others of anything is a waste of your time. The only person you must convince of anything is yourself. If you are convinced an idea will work for you, it has no choice but to come true for you. 

The fact is, if you are convinced that your ideas will work for you others will be convinced too.  And if you are not convinced, all your attempts to convince others will end up in failure for you.

When you feel it, you are convinced.  

Your convictions live in your feelings. To achieve impossible success in your life, you must convince yourself that it can be done.... And once you feel that it can be done, it will be done and you will do it.

DO ONLY WHAT WORKS FOR YOU..

Have no loyalty or allegiance to any thought, belief, dogma, doctrine, philosophy, opinion or point of view that does not work for you. Your only allegiance should be to doing to what WORKS for you, what makes you feel good about being you and harms no others in the process of acquiring or attracting to yourself the good things you want.

Suggested Reading:

  Attracting MONEY By Thought Alone (Article)

 

I Can Be Beat But I Cannot Be Beaten

I can be beat but I cannot be beaten. I can be criticized but criticism cannot stop me. I can be ignored and misunderstood but I cannot stop being me. I can be hated but I cannot hate back because I know the only thing that can defeat me are the thoughts and feelings that live inside of me. And because I like feeling good about being me, I only think thoughts that inspire and empower me.

 

Getting over Past Disappointments and Hurts.

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Most everyone I know has had plenty of disappointments, early in life, as a result of failing or not achieving what they wanted. As a young person, not knowing any better, many of us made the decision that we would never be hurt again so we started resisting the possibility of future disappointments by either giving up on what we wanted or by resisting what LIFE was serving up to us moment by moment. By resisting life, by judging life, by believing life was against us, we have been keeping what we have truly desired, at a distance from ourselves, always just outside your reach.... Surrender to 'what is', give up all resistance to 'what is'... Resistance doesn't change 'what it,' it just makes it persist. If you want what you say you want, surrender, let go, release, give up all thoughts and feelings that are stopping what you want from coming to you or the universe guiding you to it. - Frederick Zappone,  author of: Love Is All I Know (Amazon)

 

 

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The Attitude that Guarantees Your SUCCESS

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When all else fails you, persistence will see you through to the success you want. There is nothing like persistence to wear away the obstacles and roadblocks that are between you and what you want.  More importantly, your action of 'persistence' sends a loud and clear message to the universe that you will not be denied and upon hearing your 'intention' strongly worded, the universe begins working behind the scenes of your life orchestrating people and events in your favor so your success is guaranteed. 

                                 --- Frederick Zappone

I know a lot about success and as a result of the immense amount of knowledge I have acquired over the years about achieving success,  my Feeling Good (No Matter What) Newsletter was born.  

My newsletter isn't for everyone.  It is for people who are committed to achieving the success they want, no matter what. The newsletter is for people who understand the better you feel, the easier it is to think creatively and the easier it is to solve problems.

In this day and age with so much negativity in the air, a tool like my newsletter, will give you the 'slight edge' over your competition. When others are focused on the negativity around them, you will continue to achieve great success during hard times. The reason you will is because my newsletter will keep you focused on the one thing that makes all the difference between your success and failure, in life, and that is your persistent attitude of excellence in all that you say and do.

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Great Success is like Great SEX (Let me explain)

Great success is like a great sexual climax, it comes to those who enjoy the journey the most.  Sex is best when you are enjoying it moment and moment rather than worrying about the end result (climax). Success is the same way, if you are enjoying the path you are traveling to your success, the end result you want (wealth, fame and riches) will happen naturally, spontaneously, with no effort at all.


SEX/SUCCESS AFFIRMATION: 

I will do whatever I can do with a sense of ease, flow, and inner peace; and trust that all will get done. If my task requires any sense of struggle, fear, conflict, hurry, I will not go there. (Affirmation from Enough Already: The Power of Radical Contentment - I love this book. It is fun to read and makes me feel great)







Gratitude and Appreciation

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NEVER give up on your DREAM... Here's why.

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This is my story about my dream. In my story, you will find the story about your dream. It is true, your dream will be different than mine but the reason why you can't give up on your dream will be the same as mine.

I have a dream, my dream is for my writings about life to be so good and have so much value in them that they make people want to enthusiastically support my writings with donations.  I have been writing this blog since September, 2005 and  I rarely get donations.  In spite of a lack of donations, this is my full-time job. 

People ask me all the time:  "What motivates you to continue to write after being a financial failure with your writings for almost seven years."  
 
I tell them, it is my dream to become so good at writing the things I do that people will feel compelled to support my writings with donations.  They say; "why don't you charge for your writings?"  I say anyone can charge for their writings but that doesn't mean they are any good. I have bought many a book where what was inside the book wasn't worth the price I paid for it."

It is my dream for my writings to be so inspirational that people will feel so much gratitude for having read them that they can't stop themselves from donating money in support of my writings. That's how good I want my writings to become, that is part of my dream.

What has sustained my dream of a being a writer is not donations but rather, each and every day, getting better and better at what I do...  If you look at my blog archive going back to September, 2005, you will notice a huge improvement in my writings over the last seven years. I can't even begin to imagine how good my writings will be seven years from now but I know they will be amazing.  It is my goal to do the ordinary, writing, extraordinary well. It is my goal to move people to tears and take their breath away with my words. My dream is to become the 'Michelangelo' of writing. 

The #1 Reason Not To Give Up On A Dream

After seven years, almost daily there comes a time when I feel like giving up on my dream  but I won't because if I give up on my dream, I am giving up on me. And the moment I give up on me is the moment something inside me dies and once that happens it won't be long until I die.... 

And since I have no intention of dying, I will write and write until my writings become so good that people overwhelm me with donations in support of my writings and then the second part of my dream can come true. That is where I travel all over the world with my computer writing about life in other countries. 

By the way, it is never too late to work on making your dream come true. If I can work on making my dream come true at 70, you can work on making your dream come true at 22, 42, 52 or a 102.

Gratitude and Appreciation

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Your Subconscious Mind is your GPS to Success (Article explains all)

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I became an overnight success after 30 years. It took me 30 years to achieve the success I wanted because I was an idiot.....  You see, I thought it was my conscious mind that determined if I would succeed or fail. 

No one ever taught me that my conscious mind allowed me to set the direction I wanted to go but it would be my subconscious mind that would make sure I got there.  

No one ever explained to me that the conscious mind was the captain of my ship and the subconscious mind was my GPS that would guide me to my destination. 

As a result of not knowing about the functions of the conscious and subconscious mind, instead of relying on my GPS to guide me to the success I wanted, I was always guessing.  'Is it this way or that.'  'Is this the right way or the wrong way.' This caused me to go in circles for years never making any real progress at all.  In fact, if you ever watched the movie  'Groundhog Day' starring Bill Murray, my life was almost exactly like that for ten years. Doing the same thing day in and day out (or a variation of the same thing) and expecting a different result, I was not only an idiot, I was infected with the family insanity virus which believed that if you did the same thing over and over again, eventually it would produce a different result.

 

Following the Beat Of Your Own Drummer

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"If a man loses pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured, or far away. " - Henry David Thoreau

When you follow the beat of your own drummer, when you are fully being yourself, doors will open for you where there were formerly walls.  It takes no effort to be successful when you are being yourself.  On the other hand, if you are not being yourself, your life will consist of unnecessary stress and strife along with an unbelievable amount of physical and emotional discomfort.

When you are 'being yourself' you trust your good feelings more than your bad.  When you are 'being yourself' you do everything coming from inspiration and love rather than fear and doubt. When you are being yourself life is an absolute joy. You see, being yourself requires no effort or struggle at all. On the other hand, if you are not being yourself the effort and struggle you experience in your life will discourage and depress you and put you into a state of chronic despair.

Being yourself is about being the natural you, not the counterfeit version society molded you into becoming.  You were an original when you were born and by being willing to trust thoughts that feel good to you and only take actions that feel right for you, you will return to fully being yourself.

Effort and struggle is always an ALERT SIGNAL that you are not being yourself, That alert signal is letting you know that you are either trying to be something or someone you are not.  Or you are forcing yourself to do things that you truly do not want to do but are doing them because what other people think of you is more important to you than what you think of yourself. 

Anything you do, anything you do (repeated for emphasis) that makes you feel uncomfortable is an indicator that you are not being yourself. The real culprit that stops people from being themselves are beliefs they believe in that do not represent who they truly are. Any belief you follow that causes you pain indicates you are believing in and acting on a belief that is not the right belief for you... 

BE YOURSELF.... You are all you got...




I'm lazy...so I let the Universe Do it For me...

Inspirational Quote on Success By Reba McEntire

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To succeed in life, you need three things: a wishbone, a backbone and a funny bone - Reba McEntire

I'm lazy...so I let the Universe Do it For me...
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The Right Positive Attitude About FAILURE

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Feeling like a failure can last a minute but thinking you are a failure can last a lifetime. Failure is not final unless you say it is. Failure is nothing more than a lesson learned on your way to success.

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I am in the process of making my dream come true so I can help other people make their dream come true. You can help. I need as many people as possible to see this page. The more people that see this page the more likely I will make my dream come true which then will put me into a position to dedicate the rest of my life helping other people make their dreams come true too. To learn more and participate in making my dream come true, click on this link: Learn About Frederick's BIG 'Summertime' ADVENTURE
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Freeing Yourself From FAILURE

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As soon as you accept that you have failed, you are free to succeed. Non-acceptance of your failure keeps you feeling like a failure long after the actually failure has taken place. http://frederickzappone.com/

 


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Believe

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If you 'believe' something you do will work and produce the success you want, 
it will. If you add feeling and passion to what you 'believe,' it will work faster.